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Update on my love story:
I posted my love story a while back, on our one year anniversary. I said I wonder how many precious 365 days will we still go through. I now have the answer. No more than that one.
We broke up because of “reality”, that in reality we can never stay together because his parents would never let him marry a non muslim non indian girl. Because our cultural differences we fight and have different perspective.
But no matter what reason caused our break up, it hurts. It hurts so much, to try to let go but not be able to. It hurts having to see him in school still, having to work with him. Pretending like nothing happened, like we’re still friends so that other people dont feel awkward. It hurts. It’s like a part of me is missing. It’s like I’m all alone in this world.
People keep telling me to move on, but what they fail to understand is that I’m trying. I am, but I can’t.
Apparently things will get better, apparently things will be okay. And I know that, one day, one day I just might be okay again. But right now, right this moment, nothing’s okay. Nothing’s alright.
All I can do is sit here and cry, day after day after day. And I can’t stop myself, the tears just keep falling and falling. I know its stupid, but I just cannot control myself.
Love hurts so much. And yet, if you let me pick all over again, I would still have dated him. I would still have chosen the exact same path.
Anonymous: I wrote to you about james a few times, about how our parents wouldn't let us be together, and how we still stayed together through it all. Well this is my confession story. Last night I confessed to him something that it took me a long time to confess. No, I did not tell him that I loved him, I ended up breaking both our hearts. I confessed to him that we couldn't be together anymore behind my parents back. I told him that sneaking around was only getting us into more and more trouble and that it was only making them stronger and stronger towards there decision. I pondered across that for months, but not until last night did I tell him that if we ever wanted to be together that we had to go our separate ways, at least for now. I know this sounds backwards and weird, but I know deep down inside I did the right thing. Didn't I? I can't take it back now so I hope so. Also another question, is it weird that I am depressed severely when I was the one to break up with him? I mean I haven't cried that hard in my entire life, and I didn't get out of bed until 6 tonight, and once I did, I just curled up on my couch with some strawberry ice cream and cried some more. God, is it just me or does love suck? Or is it just summer love? bahhhhh.
"if we ever wanted to be together that we had to go our separate ways, at least for now." this phrase totally makes sense. and it kind of shows how much you’re willing to sacrifice because of love. plus if you guys are really meant to be…you’ll end up together. I remember reading a story yesterday. this girl’s parents met in kidergarten…got separated but met again during highschool..and fell in love. I wish that you;re story is similar to this girl’s parents.
and yes, it is normal to feel upset, to cry about it. it’s a very hard decision. But i think you made the right decision…you’re parents will be more against him if it continues on. You have to respect your parents. I know sometimes they can piss you off but trust me..parents know best. I know its hard…i know its breaking you..it’s normal coz you really love that guy. This is true sacrifice. and i admire you for doing this…for having the strength to do this. just remember… if you guys are meant to be…then you’re meant to be.thanks for sharing!!!
Anonymous: me&my boyfriend were going out for 2 and a half months and we hadnt kissed yet. he's in marching band so i always went to the football games. it was the thanksgiving game &it was half time. we were sitting on the ground holding hand & my head was on his shoulder. out of no where he said "*insert my name here* you have really pretty eyes" so i lifted my head up &said thank you. we stared into each other's eyes for a few second then we both leaned in & we kissed (: my heart melted. after i put my head back on his shoulder he said "*insert my name here*, i love you" it was such a great night (: he apologized if the kiss was awkward but i thought it was the sweetest thing ever.
well, that's my story. my first love <3
omg this is so romantic… a lot like the scenes I read from books. you must have melted so bad! i really miss that feeling. well,thank you so much for sharing:)
Anonymous: I fell hard for a guy in the summer of 2010. I told him in January of 2011. He shot me down. I've been pretty much broken ever since. So yeah, that's it.
wah? shot you down?well dont you worry anon…he’s probably not worth it. you’ll meet more people so dont lose hope. When I got dumped once…i thought love isnt really for me..but hey months after I met a really great guy.
ur-time: I was in love with my best friend.but it's over.I think :")
I was inlove with my bestfriend… I thought i was over him..but I found out i was wrong. IDK why… but i continue falling over and out for him…he doesnt even know. i probably wont tell him because I definitely dont see myself in a relationship with him.
krisihopelessdaydreamer: i forgot to say, the reason that my mom's story fit with mine is because there was a plan to go there right after high school, and i was imagining that we would meet again, and fall in love, like my parents. met in kindergarten, and meet again first year after high school, and fall in love. like my parents.
omg!! just read this!!!! like I said… I really really truly wish you guys will meet again! i really wish…fingers crossed:)) HEy if you dont mind.. if that time happens…and im still on tumblr.. would you update me?:) thanks a lot:)
krisihopelessdaydreamer: heeeyo :)) recent follower, and im loving your blog. :))
my story isnt much, but i find it cute and i wanted to share it anyway.
okay. well. i'll start with my mom's story. you'll see how it kinda fits. my mom and dad are four years apart [mom's younger]. so, they were never together in school. in kindergarten, my dad's mom, my grandma, was my mom's teacher. my dad finished school, so he decided to visit his mom, in kindergarten. it so happened to be picture day. so in my mom's kindergarten picture, with my grandma as her teacher, my dad was in the corner of the picture. not sure how he got there.
so, technically, i would say, that my parents met in kindergarten.
i dont know if they ever saw each other again within that time. then, first year after high school. my mom was hanging out with her 2nd cousin [close family], who was friends with my dad. one day, my mom's cousin invited her to burn some videocassetes at his friends place [my dad]. there, he introduced them, and they fell in love and lived happily ever after. actually.
so, my story. there was this guy. i met him in kindergarten, and we quickly became best friends. me, my girl best friend, and him. that was my circle in kindergarten. of course, i had a gigantic crush on him. my parents would always tell me what when they asked who's my boyfriend [while i was in kindergarten/first grade] i would always tell them him, without even hesitating. i remember feeling on top of the world when i went to his birthday party, and found out i was the only girl he invited, with a few other guys in the class (small party). not that i should have been surprised, we were best friends. and he was also the only boy in mine, besides my brother who's there by default.
okay, then. the end of grade one. we moved. across the globe. literally. 5414 miles away. and that was 7 years ago. we had no contact, being in grade one. the sad thing is, the only thing i pretty much know about him is his first name. i dont know his last name, and i dont remember where he lived. i also know how he looked in kindergarten, but that's about it. i have my kindergarten picture on my bedside table. and much of the pictures i have from later on were smudged and you can't see his face clearly. and i know it's crazy and sad, but sometimes i would just imagine that i go back, and he's waiting for me at the airport and i run into his arms and hug him and we would twirl around. but the sad thing is, even if by some chance we do see each other again, we wouldn't recognised each other. i don't know if i'm going back there before i finish high school [3 years] so i wouldn't have seen him for 10 years. you don't just recognise someone from kindergarten after 10 years. sadly.
this is such a cute cute cute story!! I thought the ending was you guys meet each other are and are together as of the moment. grrrr. I really hope that happens… wouldnt that be romantic? ahhh. dont you have his facebook? or anything at all? maybe theres a way to track him down. asking old friends that you know…i know theres some kind of connection…a way fro you guys to communicate. and ohhh how i wish he still remembers you! thank you so much for sharing! it’s such a good read:))
Anonymous: Hello ^^ You said you wanted a story about best friend romances.
Well I have one, sort of. See the thing is we fell for each other, and then became friends.
It was three days before Valentine’s Day; my school was having a dance. Earlier that week I had asked him too it. It was completely embarrassing and I still cringe a little at it now. I was at my friend’s birthday party, and I was walking up the stairs to find him—right as I hit the top step I slipped and fell down because my legs were shaking so badly. You see romance and crushes, and all of those things aren’t my forte—but I really liked him, so I pushed past my nervousness and I asked him. He thought I was joking at first—and then realized I was being completely serious, I think I stuttered a little and I imagine my face was red. He said yes, thankfully, and we went together. When I got there I was wearing a pink dress, even though pink isn’t really choice of color, and he said I looked beautiful. Boys never call me that, and that made me nervous. I wished I had told him how cute he looked, but I just shyly said thanks. I was extremely anxious though, I would have to dance with him. What would we talk about? Are we supposed to talk at all? I was trying to plan something in my head, and then a slow song came on quicker than I wanted, so I just apologized for my terrible dancing and told him I was really nervous. He just said it was fine, that it was cute. I feel bad though, I tried to hide because I was so nervous, I ran away a little bit too—but my friends forced me to dance with him thankfully.
Three days later it would be Valentine’s Day, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I remember him being nervous, mumbling on about it wasn’t really his idea, but his best friend would kill him if he didn’t ask. I asked him if I could have some time to think about it. See the truth is romance, dating, dances—all of it terrifies me, and I don’t know why, but it scares me to death. I like him. I’m scared. I like him. I’m terrified. I like him. I’m afraid. I like him. In the end I didn’t give him his answer until ten days later. I know—pathetic on my part. My friends convinced me, said I might as well try, so I did. I approached him, and said I wanted to talk, about the dating thing, and he said it was fine, I didn’t have to, his friend just made him ask. I told him that I liked him and I wanted to try. I remember how his face lit up—I can’t remember his face though, just how he felt. I told him I was scared of dating, and he said that it was alright, it didn’t have to be serious, and we could take it extremely slow, he suggested a movie, with friends.
We never did have to go on that date, because out of my stupid actions, I called him something, a word he despises beyond all others. I didn’t know that of course and I was kidding—I was still nervous around him and I didn’t think of what I said. It was stupid, so stupid and terribly mean. I picked on him a lot I remember…. But the thing is I only picked on the things I admire about him. He’s hard working, smart, has these beautiful eyes, and this soft hair. I’d always tease him about these things, never realizing to explain my actions.
We got into a mini fight, and then after persuasion of my friends. I broke up with him. I didn’t realize until later that one of the friends who persuaded me had a big crush on him. Also, out of nerves I stopped liking him for a little…. When I realized how much I still did like him, we talked and agreed to try again.
I was always concerned with his interest in my friend though, they flirted a lot it seemed. Some best friend huh?
Anyway, my school was going to a play later. I was excited, hoping maybe he would hold my hand. Nothing happened in the relationship so far, except for once he put his arm around me. I remember venting to my friend about that—until now I realize it was my fault, he didn’t want to push me.
Well at the play we didn’t end up sitting together—but he and my best friend sat next to each other… whispering and giggling the whole time. At intermission I went up to see him, but got embarrassed and claimed I went up to see my friend. When someone else asked if we were dating I got put on the spot and I didn’t really answer. Like I said before, these things terrify me.
I moved back to my spot.
I was a little hurt, confused, and frustrated so I vented to my best friend… because that’s what they were for right? Well I vented to her that maybe it wasn’t going to work out, that I wasn’t ready, maybe I should break up with him… I wasn’t really going to, but it felt good to tell someone that. It made me feel better.
Well it turns out she told him—that I was going to break up with him, and so, not wanting to be broken up with a second time, he broke up with me. Then she asked him out. Same day. Not ten minutes later.
Funny thing—when he broke up with me, I was at the doctors getting anti-anxiety medication. Irony much?
Well I was pretty upset, but I lied and told everyone it didn’t bother me.
I kind of forget what happened in-between. But at one point I learned something: he hated me. I started crying, because at this point, I really had fallen for him. He worked hard no matter what, always smiled, had a love for music, loved animals, he was smart, and funny, and kind—he actually cared about others.
I stayed fallen for a long time.
Not a lot was resolved until this summer, we talked at a party, and we both apologized, and asked if we could still be friends—we were taking art courses together after all.
I worked on getting over him.
We spent three weeks seeing each other at our art camp. I loved it. We laughed, and talked, and teased. It was great, and I thought I had finally gotten over him—but not yet I guess. We became good friends, again.
It wasn’t until he admitted to several of my friends who he liked that I got over him. We’re really good friends, and I trust him more than a lot of people in my school.
It’s kind of stupid right? It took a whole lot of tears, a whole lot of heartbreak, to finally meet a great friend. We’re not best friends; yet, but I plan to be.
Another stupid thing; we’re so young. But I guess my heart didn’t care.
Thanks for reading, sorry it’s long. It felt really great to get this out. No one else would listen.
omg peachesss… such a good read!! it’s so detailed i felt like I was there…witnessing everything that had happened.
hope u dont mind me saying…but your friend…what kind of friend is she??!—im not gonna add more to that coz you know i’ll just say something bad.
This story is so beautiful…im just sad that the relationship didnt quite work out ..but who knows what the future would bring. thanks you for sharing this story..and im sorry i didnt comment much. I got nothing to say..the story was beautiful and inspiring…i read it twice even.
Dont lose hope when it comes to love, you’re still young and you’ll meet new people. Plus dont enter into a relationship just because you’re pressured by friends. And if you feel that you’re not ready for those kinds of things…then dont do it….coz chances are, it wont even work out.
thanks again for sharing:)))
pathwaytothemoon-deactivated201: When I was in fifth grade there was this guy. He was one of those "bad boy" types. For some reason I fell for him. Hard. And it hasn't stopped. I'm going into eighth grade now and we are really close friends. Almost best friends. I tell everyone that I don't like him anymore, but the truth is that I'm stil in love with him. Every year I have to watch him get girl friends who cheat on him with other guys. I just hate seeing him never find a girl who is good enough for him. Sometimes I just wish he would open his eyes and see whats in front of him. He's liked pretty much every one of my friends, except me. I'm getting tired of trying. Should I just give up? Thanks for reading.
i dont know…coz i really dont know hwo this guy’s mind works. maybe he just wants you close beside him forever…and he doesnt want to lose you…maybe friedship is the only way he could keep you in his life. he’s treasuring your friendship so much to risk everything. note that I said “maybe” numerous times)
give up? well…it’s too early to give up (i think) especially because you dont know how he feels. hey he might be secretly inlove with you and he’s just scared to tell you.
"maybe" "maybe" "maybe"
—-sorry for saying this a lot of times…it’s just that I dont really know the whole story and this is the only way I could digest your situation:))) hey talk to me anytime:))
rueberries-deactivated20120519: My seatmate and I started becoming really close friends in 4th grade :) by grade 5, we were being teased by other people that someday we would like each other. By grade 6, we started texting, and only then i realized i liked him. I tried to tell him, but in the end it was awkward, so i told him it was a joke. and he was like "thank god, i still really want to text you" a few weeks ago, he was teased with me again. My friend was like "Admit it. You love her so much that you're just anticipating the day you'd be able to hold her hand and hug her and then someday have kids with her." I was hiding my face, trying not to laugh, and everybody noticed he was blushing. And they were like "Yieeeeeeeeee you really want that to happen, don't you?" He didn't answer, but he was still blushing :) I still talk about it with my friends, and they keep on saying "we honestly think he really likes you :) you should like him back" and I lied saying "Ew. No, he's just a friend" but deep inside, my heart was jumping with joy :)
Lol sorry if this was verrrrryyyy loooonnnggg Ü
nah its fine…awwww this is such a sweeeeet story and thanks for sharing!!!
well, i really hope you guys end up together (lmao am I sounding like your friends?!??!). Always remember that you should like a guy because you like him…not because you are pressured by friends. so take it slow and dont let your friends decide:)) also, dont assume he likes u if it didnt come from the guy himself…you can never be sure:)) anyways, try hanging out and getting to know each other okay? maybe if you get more comfortable with each other the guy will be able to open up with his true feelings for you:))
onyour-kneess-deactivated201208: I just wanna get it out...
So I'm not gonna tell you his name so I'ma call him Voldemort... :p soo okay me and Voldemort were together for a year and 7 mouths I was inlove with him I was really happy with him he treated me like a princess and everything like that we had little fights but it was no big deal.. I thought he would never hurt me but I was wrong :p awhile back he's was texting his old girlfriend behind my back it's wasn't like "hey how are you" kind of text I would of been find with that but it was more like "hey sexy " flirting crap :/ he didn't know I knew I was just grabbing he's phone to take a pic of myself to put it on his background :p (Voldemort had the iPhone) I was about to take a pic but then he got a text I just saw her name and I read what she said.. It said "last week was so much fun ;)" I hear him come out of the bathroom so I just locked the phone and good thing that bitch texted him again cuz he would of knew I look threw his phone that day we were gonna watch a movie at my house but I couldn't look at him cuz in the back of my head I was thinking he's cheating on me and he's lied to me cuz he said he's going to his cousin party that week... He ask me if I was okay cuz I wasn't talking then I said I wasn't feeling that good so he's can leave.. Right before he left he said I love you jazmine and tried to kiss me but I back away from him then he said oh yeah your sick and just walked away... After he left I called my best friend daisy so I can talk about it she said you should ask why is talking to his ex and hanging out with her and all of the stuff so I can dump him. I didn't want to believe what I have read I was scared cuz I was inlove with him and I didn't want to believe he was doing this to me.. A couple days later I caught him again but this time he knew and he told me everything he was cheating on me and that they hooked up on and off again two mouths after we got together.. I just yelled at him and told him to get out of my face I just walked away and he just pulled me back and he put me in his arms and said I'm so sorry Jazmine I'm such a dumbass for doing that I hurt the girl I truly loved I just push him off and ran home crying I just didn't know what to do.. Two day after that he texed me to meet up with him at the park at the spot where always hang out just the two of us so I did when I got there I saw a whole bunch of roses he came out and said can you take me back plz I made the biggest mistake I ever made in my life then he pulled out this note and heart neckless he put the neckless on me.. In the neckless it said "I'm yours 4ever" and the note said how sorry he was that he'll never do it again blah blah.. Voldemort said once again take me back plz and my dumbass did cuz I believe in 2nd chances cuz my mom gave my dad a 2nd one so I believed in it.. Yep me and Voldemort got back together he "never" talked to that bitch again I was happy yay :p Everything was fine no fight or anything but a week before we broke up for good there was this party we both got invited to we went together and he was drinking and he was trying to get me drunk he did it I was drunk enough so he can get in my pants so yeah we had sex I lost it to that fag but the next day I didn't care cuz I loved him and you should do it with the one you loved.. So the day we broke up I got this message from he's ex telling me that he never loved me he just wanted to get it in that he never broke up with her we when started dating that I was wasting my time with him cuz he never wanted me I just stated crying hopping it wasn't true the 1st thing I did I called both of my best friends Nicole and Daisy I told them everything she told they came over and trying make me stop crying I kept calling myself stupid of taking him back.. I called him and told him what the message said and he just hung up on me so I called him back but he didn't pick up the phone so I started crying more and more I didn't stop cuz then I knew it was true i never talked to him again he blocked me on Facebook he never texted me back never did I see him again I was so broken he can't even tell me himself this bitch had to I was so fucking inlove with him I lost my virginity to him my heart was broken so bad I cried for mouths I barely ate at all I just stayed in my room I started cutting myself... Daisy and Nicole help me so much they made me stop cutting myself.. My mom and dad got a divorced made it more worst my mom told me were moving to Vegas I was sad that I was leaving Daisy and Nicole but I said to myself that this is good for me that I should move on with my life and start fresh.. I still have at heart neckless I just don't know what to do with it.. What should I do with it ? (this happend two years ago when i was 15)
Oh now I found the new guy in Vegas hopefully he doesn't hurt me but we're not official :p
about the necklace. throw it out…it doesnt mean anything anymore and it only reminds you of everything that had happened with that guy. if you want to fully move on and cut out everything that’s connected with this guy…well throwing the necklace is one way.
I just feel so overwhelmed about your story…coz theres a lot of bad things that had happened. Im glad that you’re slowly coping up and moving on and I also think that moving out to a new city will help you start a new life.
dont hate yourself for falling for this guy, we’re human, we make mistakes and sometimes we choose the wrong decisions. but what’s good about this is that we learn a little bit more about life. It makes us a little callous. We have our ups and downs in life for a reason…so that we can learn and improve.
Dont rush it with this guy and know him better. Use your past experiences as a guide when you make your decisions in the present.
thanks for sharing!!!
Anonymous: I don't know where to begin. It's actually long story but I'll tell you the current situation. We're far apart. We were in a long distance relationship, we had our ups & downs. I was supposed to go back and see him this summer but I couldn't for some reason. We had fight over FB & he deleted me that time. Then after few 3 months he added me again. He said he missed me & all but I was bitter because it was difficult. Then I found out that I could see him this summer like I said, I hated myself for not keeping my promise to him. I couldn't do anything to see him, I was helpless. I wanted to forget so I deleted him from FB. We didn't talk since May. Until I came across his profile & felt my heart sinking of missing him so much. So 3 days ago I added him again. He accepted. I went through his profile for the past months & saw video posts of songs about breaking up & stuff. I assume it was about us. I guess! I wanna talk to him so bad, I wanna tell him that im truly sorry for what's happening and that I want him in my life but not as a boyfriend now cause it's so hard. I'd do anything for him. Im planning to go to him in the christmas vacation even though Im gonna miss school for a week but Idc, I'd risk it all for him. But Im afraid that he doesn't feel anything towards me. Im afraid it's worth it. I don't want him to feel like Im all over him. But I want him to know how I really feel.
-Thank You x3
I got confused in some parts. How far are you from each other by the way?
I think he’s also having a hard time with your relationship. Having a long distance relationship needs a lot of effort. I can see that he’s still not over you…you said he posts breakup/love songs. it means he’s still affected by you and he still thinks about you, there’s still hope. Just tell him what you told me, that you still have feelings for him, still want him by your side. tell him that you want him but not as a boyfriend…maybe this is what’s best you the two of you. Ask him how he feels about the whole situation..about what you said. Hope that he agrees to it and if he doesnt, well we cant really force him. dont be afraid to tell him how you feel and dont be afraid to ask him what he also feels. this is the only way to know what you can do next.