s0fly-s0high submitted:

Hi, i really need some help. So theres this guy, that I am crazy about. I was with my friend and he was at a party, didn’t meet him or anything but added us on facebook, then we went on skype and he was like perfect, nice, cute, everything, and he was the kind of guy i could imagine being with. 

My ex-best friend asked why i was so crazy about him, and then i told her that i liked him, and then she freaked out and said that she was almost dating him. I was torn, and then a couple of days later i wrote to my crush that she dates like 5 guys at once (which she does!!) and then a little after that she said she didn’t want to date him. I asked him if he still liked her and he said a little… 

I really like him, and theres a party soon, but hes not coming. So I was thinking of sending a song to him, but I don’t know if he would ever have the same feelings about me? Or should I wait for 2 months and see him at the party?

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HMA:

First of all everything that had happened between your crush and your exbestfriend are all in the past and you dont need to worry about that…especially that your friend didnt want to date him. 

So if you have any plans to “make a move” go for it. I dont know what kind of friendship you have with this guy but if its something deeper than ordinary. But  I think sending him a song is a bit too much. Just go hang out first and just confess to him with ease..dont rush coz you might give him a shock. Hang out and have a casual conversation and then just tell him how you feel about him. But be prepared coz u dont know his reply. its better not to expect anything. be sure when you confess…you confess without expecting anything in return. 

i was walking along the ravine near my house and the sun is shining!but…BAM!2 seconds later its pouring like crazy!and a dog comes up to me and i love the dog,so i give it a kiss.and the rain stops.MAGIC!the puddles are still there but i give the dog a hug and they go away.just something bout this dog thats diffrent.i name him chester.he likes this name.

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HMA

I love dogssss!!! thanks for the story:)

Hey,

So I had this friend, really close friends. And we know each other like 2 years now. At first we were just friends then it turned to close friend then to besties then to more. He said that he started to have feelings for me. Well, for me at the time I didn’t have any special feeling for him. But day by day, knowing that he has feeling for me, I started to get things more serious and my feelings grew. After awhile he realized that I too had true feelings of love towards him. By the time he knew I was true and my feelings were pure, I got things all serious. He found the smallest point on me and left me. I couldn’t do anything about the fact that he didn’t want me anymore. I said I will wait someday he will regret his decision and return to me. But he didn’t, days went by and weeks followed. No sign of him appeared. And for me feeling grew even more, I wished that he could just feel a little bit of my love to him. I couldn’t take it anymore so, I texted him confessing everything and how guilty I feel. How bad I want him back, I asked for a second chance. After that, his answer to me was. “Hey I get what you are saying but am sorry your just too late, if you want we can be just friends. But for more I’m sorry. Then a friend of mine tried to help and talked to him about how badly I needed him. He was so heartless all he said was, “It was all her fault she couldn’t hold on to me. And now I have a new girlfriend who I love dearly and she is much better than Lava (Me) just try to make her forget about me.” He got a new girlfriend in 1 week, he could forget all about me in 4 days. How easy?! He replaced me and all we had together with a girl he barely knew. Or did I ever had a place in his heart to be replaced? I don’t know. Please help me I’m so depressed. :(

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HMA:

Aww girl, I feel how much depress you feel just by this story. Well he has a girlfriend now and he even told you that there’s nothing you can do and there’s no more chance. He said it himself (didnt hear it from other sources). You got his decisions now you have to respect  it and just move on. I just wished your friend didnt do what she did. Telling this guy how much you need him will not help. It would seem that you are chasing him not because of love but need. (you wouldnt want to look needy) and you wouldnt want him to just be with you because he feels sorry for you. Best thing is to move on. It would take time but you got your friends to help you with that.Dont blame yourself for developing feelings for him later than expected….dont blame yourself. He’s missing on someone wonderful.

My friends all hate him. He barely knows I exsist. I’ve liked him for two years. This year my friend who doesn’t know I like him started liking him (if that makes sense). We are complete opposites. It doesn’t help that I feel this magnetic attraction between us. I need advice… ):

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HMA:

Well first things first…if you want something to happen make a move. “making a move” doesnt mean to confess right away. But you can do little things like handing out with him and getting to know him. So what if your friends hate him? dont feel pressured to hate him too…people shouldnt tell you who you should like or not because it’s you that have total control on that. Ur friend and that guy isnt girlfriend-boyfriend yet so you have a chance. But to be a good friend you should make your friend aware that you also have feelings for this guy for a long time. This is better than just sneaking and going for that guy without your friend knowing.

Hi =) Tagalog na lang po ako ah. ^_^ Hmm ganto po yun. May crush po kasi ako. Every posts ko po sa tumblr at facebook ko lahat po yun panama saknya. Mga quotes na pang-crush po yun. Nagkakatext and chat po kami. Tapos po lagi niyang tinatanong kung sino daw po yung crush ko. Syempre di ko sasabihing siya yun kasi natatakot po ako baka umiwas siya. Then, kagabi po nagkatext kami. Usapang crush nnman po. Umamin po syang crush niya ko. Nagulat po talaga ko dun. Wala daw pong halong biro yun. Di ko po alam kung totoo yun or joke. Kaya bawat reply ko po sknya is puro pabiro. Dapat po bang umiwas ako?? Ayoko po kasing ma-fall eh. Natatakot po ako. Baka pagnagkaganun wala siyang balak saluhin ako. :/ Ate help!

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HMA:

Bat ka iiwas? eh u like him and he likes you naman dba? Kung iiwas ka baka youre just gonna miss this good opportunity. If ready ka then go for it. If ever na di ka naman nya saluhin edi move on. Try mo lang …hangout more..date date… kilatisin mo muna bago maging official…thats if worried ka talaga. It’s good to have experiences…pag dating sa love..for sure theres gonna be kilig moments…at never mawawala ang iyak at hinagpis moments. Just be sure if you jump in ready kana sa mga ganito.

reverence-for-fallen-trees submitted:

hey:) hahahah i know this a bit weird, well yeah it is weird. but idk, you know how you wish you could tell your friends and crap about all this stuff but then you realize that your friends are so close to you that you can’t really share this type of stuff? and that your other friends aren’t close enough? yeah…yeah that’s how it is so umm…THANKS FOR READING <3 i guess it’s like a bit of a diary? but that’d be rude to say, so scratch that :P. anyways, as a sort of background, i guess, i’m a sophmore who has never gone out with anyone before, but it’s not a big deal or anything, because most of my friends haven’t either…though they’re starting to, but i mean my school’s really small, and it’s a nerdy school and in my grade there aren’t many asians, and the asian that i liked went and is still going out with my friend so…yeah there’s no one. i usually help ppl that like one another to go out, but i guess i’m just a hypocrite cuz i haven’t done gone out but i’ve read a lot of mangas? yeah…i’m lame, i know. people usually think me as an innocent nice, smart asian that’s super friendly. and in my school everyone knows everyone, so yeah, we’re a family. HOWEVER. there was this guy that i used to like…let’s call him….jun, yeah that sounds good. he’s two years older than me , super duper smart, like top 10 smart, but still super cool and nice, like a kpop idol? idks, but he just like…THE COOLEST PERSON EVER <-understatement. anywho, i didn’t really know him though…the first time i heard of him was from my friend…whom he liked. she thought that he was a bit creepy (but i mean he liked her, and no he didn’t stalk her or anything, she’s just a really shy person). anyways, so i started paying more attention to him from the time when she pointed him out…and then i started to like him (why? i don’t really know…). my friend decided to do something with this weird relationship with me and him that he didn’t even know about, so she decided that if i became friends with the guy she liked (3 years older than us…old? yah i know.) and introduced her, then she would do the same. BUT SHE ACTUALLY DID IT. and while i was embarrassing myself infront of the seniors, she (of course) became good friends with him without any creepiness going on or anything. well, that was just her nature, she could become friends with anyone without getting hated or anything. anyways, well let’s just say that it didn’t go well…he obviously already knew, and that was fine, but then i found out that my friend reminded him of his ex crush that left the school, and there from came a weird nostalgic crush on my friend. hahahah….she didn’t like him. at all. well actually she kind of hated him (why? i don’t know…maybe it’s because he called me creepy? (p.s. there was no sarcasm in that, it was just a not-really-sure statement/quiestion. (p.s. i don’t use sarcasm, and no that was not sarcasm in that non sarcastic sentence)). well anyways, moving on, thereforth came yet another person, in the same grade, but this guy was a bit..mysterious? he was really smart, i mean like, he was a genious. but he wasn’t a nerd, oh nonononono, he looked really laid back and i mean…HIS BACKPACK WAS ALWAYS EMPTY. like no binders or textbooks or anything, and i usually just gaped at it like…HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE? i mean, doesn’t his teachers give binder checks? and yet, he was the smartest kid in his grade, probably in the whole school, too. he was a bit of a loner though, i mean he had friends, and yes they were indeed “cool” friends, but he didn’t really talk much and he always kept his thoughts inside. and yet, i always talked to him (more like i went to his locker after the last class every other day because it was on the way down to mine), and then one day his friends started spreading rumors. yes. those stupid rumors…they started teasing him about gettting a girlfriend and then they started following me. no not like stalking stlaking, more like seeing me in the hallways and by my locker and calling my name and running away. it was actually quite funny, i was laughing so hard on the first day that my stomach hurt so bad. however, i didn’t like it. i thought that he spread rumors of me liking him, when at that moment i indeed didn’t, i was still liking jun from before, but then it got cleared afterwards… like during the summer near the start of a new school year…and people were like NO YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE IGNORED HIM. HE LIKED YOU. and then i was like…what? yeah that’s right…even though I’D NEVER ADMIT IT TO ANYONE THAT KNEW OF THIS STORY or actually knew both me and him, yeah i liked him. just an ounce. perhaps more than an ounce…i didn’t really like thinking about it…hahah yeah i know, i’m lame. so anyways, it’s the start of a new school year right? and the freshman class is full of asians, like it looks like some bomb blew off, and instead of fire and such, a bunch of asians came…and yeah, they were cool. my class was pretty lame, and the seniors from last year were really cool, so maybe they were just replacing them? idks, but it didn’t really matter, cuz i don’t like ppl younger than me. i don’t even know why. HOWEVERRRRRRRR, right now (yeps this is present present day now and yeah i know, that was a really long introduction.) i really like this guy, but he’s 6 six years my senior. yeah, he’s a senior in college. but…i don’t know what to do. i mean, i can’t talk to him everyday, nor call him, nor text him, nor keep listening to the songs he records, because i don’t wanna be thought of creepy. and i mean…he’s old…like no offense, and i know that he’s never had a girlfriend and he’s super innocent and cute and all (even though there’s a lot of girls that like him <- argh.) but i don’t think i should convey my feelings to him cuz…then what if he thinks i’m weird and creepy? and just ignores me forever. he’s even told me that he thinks he’s a bad person because he ignored girls that really liked him, and that made him a jerk. (he has super cute thoughts). and i’m just like ….crap. hahahah, that’s it for now! thanks for reading:)

Heymissawesome: Thanks for sharing!

Distressed (Kenzielong29@yahoo.com) submitted:

My story? I’m a model an I hate it. I’m under constant pressure to be perfect clear skin tiny waste and I’m miserable I want to stop just quit and get control of my life but my parents would hate me so instead my day is filled with uncomfortable shoes exercising and no food. I’m not aloud hardly anything on my diet! So that’s my story what I do. Not who I am though. Right now I’m just a girl over worked and under fed. Just as miserable as possible.

heyyogurl submitted:

He is the best thing ever happened to me. I feel safe in his arms, my stomach is full of butterflyes when I see him and i know i can count on him no matter what. We see each other every day, we hang out and just feel good. We can talk hours and days without stopping. He knows me the most and brings out the best in me. He’s there for me and I’m here for him. He’s the only one I can count on in this universe, and he can count on me too. Sometimes we fight, like everyone does, but he’s so cute when he’s angry :3. I thought I’m not in love until i read a quote saying: „You know you’re in love when you have to convince yourself that you’re not.” That moment changed everything. I didn’t want to think about this, but the harder you try to forget something, the more you think about it unconsciously. And I die a little inside everytime when he talks about other girls. They are just so perfect. Not like me. I wanted to tell him all my secrets, but he became one of them instead. I’m staying in the middle of a desert. I’m waiting for the nevercoming. Sometimes I wish my heart would just stop beating. Then maybe it wouldn’t hurt as much. I would tell him my feelings, but I’m worried of what he would say. So I’ll try to act normal, I’ll try to hide all the feelings, I’ll try to fake a smile and be what I ever was…his best friend.

Heymissawesome: THIS IS JUST SO BEAUTIFUL!!!! I CAN RELATE SO MUCH!

foolalas submitted:

So there’s this guy at my school that I started talking to this year because of our classes that we have together. We started talking in science when we sa next to each other and also in ohter classes too. I began to like him a little bit but when he gave me his Skype and oovoo username (Oovoo is like Skype if you didnt know) we began talking and I started to fall for him. He was sweet, kind, just plain old nice, and on top of that he was just as tall as me (which is a must for me).  He talked almost everyday and for at lest an hour. He was really shy around me at school and when we talked it was awkward… but a cute kind of awkward, you know? I thought that he HAD to like me back, I mean, we had stayed up until the early hours of the morning just talking about anything and everything. It was great until the day before Valentine’s Day.

I had asked him if he had had a crush (for obvious reasons) and he had said no. But on the day before Valentine’s Day, he told me that he had thought about it and realized who he really liked. Now, just imagine some really cute shy guy trying to tell you who he liked. It sounds like something we all want our crushes to ask/tell us. So I braced myself to say ‘yes’ until me said one of my good friends’ name. I felt as if I had just been slapped.

With the words ‘friend zone.’ 

Honestly it felt terrible. That was the worst Valentines Day I’ve ever had. All thanks to someone who was still genuinely sweet and just an all around awesome person. He was oblivious to my sadness until about a week later I had his friend tell him because he pressured me into wanting to. But no… He still liked my friend and even had the nerve to ask me how to get her. We’re still friends and now I claim that I don’t like him but as I’m writing this maybe I do still have feelings for him deep down inside. Eh, he’ll never like me though, so I’ll just wait for someone else to sweep me off my feet. </3

putnotrustinprinces submitted:

Just a story I’d like to share that goes against the whole cliche that two people can’t be friends after a break-up. It has its ups and downs, but it has a happy ending, I promise(:

Back before 5th grade, my school closed and merged with two other schools. I didn’t know it at the time, but this one boy(his code name will be Al) came to our school to get rid of his life at his old school. He was teased for who he was, so he came to a, literally, completely new school. He changed his real attitude so that people wouldn’t treat him like the others did. He wasn’t in my homeroom, so I didn’t really know him ‘til 6th, when he was in my homeroom, and most of my advanced classes. We had SUCH a love/hate relationship that year. I’d always text him and we trusted each other, but we were always taunting one another. He still helped me through this really awkward crush..erm, obsession with this 7th grade friend of mine, and I helped him with a crush he had, and while he still had a hard time opening up to me,  that summer he told me that one reason he was made fun of at his old school was because he dances. I didn’t judge him at all. During that summer and into the fall as well, I liked this other boy(let’s say, Luke). Now, I told Al about Luke and he was trying to help me, but the thing was, Luke liked my one friend(who was going out with my cousin, who was cheating on her..awk) and I tried to help him, and ended up breaking the two up by uncovering my cousin’s misdeeds. But while making my friend free for Luke, I tried to make it look like I didn’t like him still by saying that my friend Al asked me out. Now, at this point, it was October, and Al would randomly be more mean to me and when I asked why, his responses led me to believe he liked me. Along with that, I told my friend and she asked me if he asked me out, would I say yes. I said that I wouldn’t say no… So anyways, when I told Al what I said to Luke, he played it off, and said it was fine. Later that week I was texting Al and wondering what was up with him again. He wound up telling me he liked me and asked me out. Now, this is something I still never told him- I lied. I didn’t know it then, but I lied. The girl who said she liked him back, and yes she’d go out with him, the girl who walked around with him on the playground holding hands and letting him kiss her on the cheek/give her hugs, the girl who responded “I love you too” every time he said/texted it and danced with him at the winter dance, wasn’t really me. It wasn’t what I felt towards him-it was what I felt towards the idea of being in love. So what was the truth? The girl who shared everything with him, her little quirks, her hopes and dreams and ambitions, her deepest fears, her darkest times, her greatest memories, little things that make her happy. And he shared the same. I learned both the light and dark shades of Al, I learned how he adored travel, and loves being able to run super-fast, how he’s won dance competitions before, he was in his elementary school plays and had one best friend there, a girl. This was also when I learned what a big deal his reputation was to him, and about how they(from his old school) used to tease him, and that he still had trouble dealing with that past. Not to mention he’s adopted, and his cousin secretly told me he might actually have siblings in Romania that he’ll never get to grow up with, or possibly even meet.  The more I learned about him and vice-versa, the more I realized what a lie it all was and how guilty I felt. I was using him to try to feed my need to feel loved. So I started to try to back out, slowly, because I knew how much he really cared. And I cared too-just in a different way-and didn’t want him hurt(I also NEEDED him). It started with not fully typing out “I love you(too)” when texting him. Then one day he texted me “I love you” and I…just couldn’t. Maybe ten minutes later I decided on a smiley face. He questioned it, I said I was sorry, but I didn’t love him that way, or like him that way really either. We were together for over 3 months, and you could tell how pissed/hurt/confused he was for the next week. He really had no idea that my “feelings” were getting weaker, so it was just like BAM, I don’t like you. But since during the 1st half of 7th grade he became my trusted confidante, I was slowly crumbling while he wasn’t speaking. It was unofficial, but by maybe two months later, without trying to repair(or bring up) the damage, we were past the first tentative step of getting him to trust me again. We became each other’s confidantes again as I fell for that 7th(now 8th) grade friend again, and he tried to slowly piece his real self together. This year-8th grade, was when we really showed each other how close we were(and when our sibling love strengthened). It was November, and we FINALLY buried the harsh relationship hatchet. He knows that I really do love him like a brother and that’s all that matters now-it’s in the past. But this year brought us a LOT of news about each other. Apparently, Al had been diagnosed with some depressive disorder and the medication he had sometimes made him think about killing himself-and apparently, back in fourth grade(FOURTH GRADE!!!), he had tried. He felt trapped, and he vividly told me exactly how it felt, and every now and then, I got scared because I had felt that way for a while too. We shared our thoughts on being lost, on what would happen if one day, we were just gone, and he told me that all these adults told him his future looked bright, but he was staring at his wall, and it was all he could see in his future, a vast emptiness. At this point I wasn’t feeling scared or lost for myself and he flooded my mind. For not the first time, I wrote a song for him, called Sailboats and Anchors. Because he’d always be a sailboat being pulled out to sea by an uncontrollable breeze, and I’d be his anchor, trying to keep him near the shore. I told him about it, and he thanked me so much for trying to help him get though. That night, he told me he loves me again, but this time as a brother, and I said the same. He really is my brother, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. He’s helped me through my one-time mental breakdown(long story), yet ANOTHER horrid love life situation, parent frustrations, and those “what if I’m not ____ enough?” moments. Our relationship is so deep, and even though we’re going to be going to different High Schools and that goodbye is going to be so freaking hard, we won’t really be saying goodbye ‘cause we’ll always be there for those “till 3am” kind of talks where we just let everything off our chests and become even closer. He’s one of my bests friends, my other brother, and I love him so much it’s not even funny.<3

Just thought I should mention this as well-he is now off his medications and isn’t having any more thoughts that make us cry, and I’m so proud of who he is, and if he reads this, I’m sorry if not all my facts are straight(Sorry Z.A.Y. :/ ) <3

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