garden-of-stars: Hope you don't mind hearing my story :)
It's not really a story but...
I've always had a bad history with guys. They'd use me, treat me wrong, or we'd never last. I have three close guy friends whom I went out with at some point. One of them, was my last 'boyfriend' and when we broke up he stopped talking to me, starting treating me like a stranger and just talking all kinds of rubbish behind my back. My two other guy friends always stand up for me and tell him to cut it out, because they say I'm not the one to be blamed that we broke up, that I didn't push him when he walked around asking for a girlfriend. He used to be my best guy friend but I really love talking to the other two. They always support me and care. They taught me that my happy ending will come, just as long as I don't rush.
Your blog is beautiful and I hope your love story will unfold very soon, hope you don't mind me sharing :)
gosh! you are lucky to have guy friends like them…hope i could meet some good guy friends of my own. thanks for sharing:))
cnsrdcnsrdcnsrd: eh hello :)
Now I telling you a story of me. This story is not long ago. It's a love story.
At the beginning of the school year there was a boy I had never really considered correct. He does indeed look not so good ^^ but cute.
One day he talks with me and we became friends. Everytime minute - he always makes me laugh :)
I knew him not once, but I could talk about everything with him.
I'm actually very shy and not so talkative, but in his case it was somehow different.
When I was with him, If felt so happy, but I'd never believed, that I was falling in love with him.
So, I said to him:,,I love you". He said:,,I love you too. You're not like the other girls."
That's why I love you"
Every day we told each other I love you.
But the stupid thing was that we were not in a relationship, although we loved each other. A few weeks later, he was weird to me, so I asked him:,,Do you love me?". I was very nervous what he could answer. He answerde:,,No. You're too young for me. I'm sorry.."
I was 13 ( now I'm 14) and he is 15. Wow.
I had cried so much. I've never been so sad .. I mean, I loved him very much..
Next day. I felt so bad.. I chatted on facebook and I saw that he was online.
I said:,,Hey, well how are you?" He:,,I'm fine. Oh by the way, I have a girlfriend".
He knew that I loved him. That was so mean. I said:,,Oh really? Cute.". I started to cry.
I cry and cry and then he said:,,Tomorrow I'll spend the whole day with her" ...
Then he said that he likes me sometimes. Okaaaay... I thought.
I was very confused, but I loved him. The day he said that he loves me, I was so happy and the day that he said he don't love me, I was sad like never before.
And now.. eh..
We didn't talk very much at school. This is hit. Sometimes, he ignores me and he didn't say hello to me. That's hurt a little bit for me.
I had never really loved anyone so much. Now I do not know whether I still love him or not.
young?? there’s uh..one year age difference? what a lame “reason” no offense. and he seemed like a jerk when he even tell u that he has a girlfriend. he’s so immature…he didnt even consider your feelings. i think he’s not worth it.:))
dont worry girl… your still young and you’ll meet a lot of people in the future…this is not the end. as a matter of fact…one day a guy will come in your life and show you what “true love” feels like.
Anonymous: I had this crush on a guy since I was 5. After kindergarten, I did not really see him anymore. But, just recently, I went to our kindergarten reunion. We decided to play Truth or Dare. It went around until it was his turn. He picked Truth and the question was “Do you have a girlfriend?” I curiously listened and waited for his answer. He said, “I will, if she says yes.” He went up to me and ask me whether I want to be his girlfriend and I agreed. Now, we are happily dating.
THIS IS JUST SOOOOO SWEEEEEET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thank you for sharing! you just won the sweetest story of the night award:)) i love this:)
Anonymous: i'm gay. I got my heart broken so many times, that each time i fall for somebody, I give my everything because I don't wanna have any regrets in the end. don't get me wrong i'm the most cautious and meticulous girl/butch you'll ever met. 4 years ago i fell in-love with the most beautiful, caring, wonderful, thoughtful and loving woman. I met her in a fast food restaurant chain where I have worked. I didn't know who she was but i dumb-founded as we crossed by the door and fell in-love with those big beautiful brown eyes of hers. She is a hard-working and strong and confident woman who only works during the weekends while i supervise the store. She was a single-mom with a 4yr. old the at time. Everytime, i get to work with her, i get so nervous tha
t most of the times i just blubbering words when i start talking to her. a few days later a good friend of hers told me that there's someone in the restaurant who likes me and her name starts with letter "j". unfortunately while
….:(story got cut. this suspense is gonna keep me up tonight. if you see this…pllllleeeeeeassseee continue the story:)))))) im eager to hear the rest:)<3
Anonymous: hello, sorry for my bad english and i told like stupid but it is not as stupid as it seems. i am really sad, i don't know.
i liked a boy from my school, a year older than me. talked him a few. his friends realized i liked him, they made fun of me. because I'm not beautiful, if I had been, they wouldn't. he doesn't like me and i was very stupid when he's around I can't help myself my brain goes when I see him. he was like he hates me, he disappeared when he was me etc. but the last time I talked to him, he smiled he talked nice and he was nice. but his friend made fun of this too. a friend of him asked him about dating and he said he had to study for college exams. but I don't know he's like he likes a girl, not me, of course. he didn't come to school last month and i tried to not think about him but i saw him again, he saw me, looked me in eyes but I know he doesn't like me. the worst thing is he graduated now, I can't see him again. it breaks my heart. i told like stupid but I really liked him. Like for 2.5 years. he doesn't have the exam now should I talk to him? probably he knows that I like him. But I don't want to forget him, I don't want to get used to 'don't see him' miss him every minute i don't see him.
wuutt? made fun of you coz you’re not beautiful? well they are BLIND!! or they dont know what real beauty is! theyre probably one of those shallow types who only look at the surface. true beauty is within.
if this guy is the same with his friends..if he makes fun of you too..then forget about him. if he is different from them and if he actually respects you then i guess he’s okay.
sure…talk to him. there’s nothing wrong in talking to him right? if you got nothing to lose then go for it. what’s stopping you?
Anonymous: hello, okay my story starts here.. last year there this boy who just moved to my school. then we started to cht in myspace and eventually we became closer and closer. then people started to gossip about us in school. i dont really like him at first. in april, we had a big fight. and couple days later he told me he likes me.. i dontknow wht to do cause im really confused. then we became strangers for a while and suddenly he told me he gonna deactivate his myspace. tht was the day i realized i love him tht i dont want to lose him. i bagged him not to leave me and yeah.. he said " ill never leave you cause i dont wanna let you cry :) "
soo yeah, we became close and kinda became a couple. but no one knows tht cause its a secret. NO ONE. we been a lovebird until this year:) but theres a problem.. this year i just dont know wht happen! everythings change. i just dontknow how to tell you..:( i kept on jealous stuff. then one day in april.. 18th april, i caught him invisible on me in facebook chatbox. i was soo upset. its like he dont want to chat with me, ive waited for him for 2,3 days. how could he!. so without thinking i brokeup with him. I KNOW IM STUPID FOR NOT THINKING AND I REGRET IT :(
he's kinda upset. i mean who doesnt? hmm, so his kinda taking revenge on me by being a close friend with some girl i hate. I REALLY HATE HER. and i was soooooo jealous. one day he just blocked me. i was like WTH!? a days later he unblocked me but we're not friends anymore in fb. and the most hurt things ever is why.. after we brokeup, we kept on bumped to each other. its hurt.. then he missed call me,, and sumtimes i message him.
and now.. this month, every 1 week he sign in his sister facebook to cht with me. he asked me lot of things.. about our past... last week, ive just asked him this : " can i steal you heart again? even just 1%? do i have a chance to steal your heart?" and he answer " i always hope something from you ". i dont understand nway wht he meant by tht. but i consider it as a YES :)
in wednesday, i stalked his wall, and i looked at all his status. my heart broken,, cause he.. already in love with someone else... i cried alot. i cried myself to sleep everyday. then today, he'd online his sister facebook again so i asked him " why did you online ur sister facebook if you knew we're gonna fight again.." *cause we always fight everytime we chat. then he said " you really dont get it do you :)" then he goes offline. and i replied him "yeah, someone already stole your heart which make me givup trying to understand you. " soo.. yeah i kinda waiting for his reply tomorrow i guess... soo.. wht should i do.. wht does he mean? i miss him so much,, and sorry for a LOT of grammar mistake, im not good in english
first of all…. if like to comment on the invisible thng on facebook. did you even think that maybe he had a valid reason as to why he stayed invisible? did you even hear his side of the story. he might have stayed invisible for a good reason or maybe he was invisible in one day and forgot to turn visible again. if he didnt chat with you…it doesnt instantly mean that he doesnt care.
whoever he makes friends with is his choice. you cant really say that he’s taking revenge on you by making friends with a girl you hate. i mean…it would be immature of him to do so.
when he said “i always hope something from you” … i really dont understand what he meant but i dont think its a “yes”
he’s already inlove with someone i guess. sorry…your story is confusing…kind of. and dont worry…im not good in english too. It’s just that the dialogue you gave me …it’s too little that i cant really digest the whole situation you guys are in.
if it happens that he truly likes someone else…then you cant really do anything about it. Even if you cry a lot for this guy…if he already moved on..he moved on…there’s nothing you can do:)
im sorry for the late reply:) and please do tell me what happened with you guys.
Anonymous: My love story, kinda
So theres this boy that I graduated with a year ago, we just started talking alot. And hes so freaking cute. And last week he was over with my two other friends, and like my spaz dog was all over him. the next day he was like"oh i bet your dog is a better kisser than you are!" and so we went back and forth, and he was like "yeah i'm gonna prove you wrong next time we hang out.'" I mean he wouldn't want to kiss me if he didn't like me, right? It's almost too good to be true. I think I could really fall for him, I just don't want to be the only one. He always says he wants to cuddle and kiss, but I can't tell if it's just as friends or hsfdjkadnhgjkd idk.
as friends? well, i didnt know friends could kiss or cuddle. hahahaha whatever it is that u guys have…just dont expect much so you wont get hurt:) but i hope everything goes well between u guys:) thanks for sharing! this is cute:))))
Anonymous: Hey, Miss Awesome,
YOU REALLY ARE AWESOME!!! <3
>My Love Story!!! <3
Okay, if you want the truth, I don't have one. I hope to have one soon!
You have listened and and heard many people's love story, but what about yours? I am sure that many people are interested in yours. :)
aww thanks sooo much!… my love story? hahaha dont have one as of the moment. i had lots of what i thought was “love stories”…the kinds that have “happy endings” ….but i thought wrong. booohooo but if something comes up…tumblr will be the first to know! :)
sundro-p: I see a lot of people are sending their love story, So I'm going to send you mine. I met this boy when I was fourteen, the school year was starting and there was this new guy, I thought he was cute. Two weeks passed by and I had noticed that he talked to all of my girlfriends, but not me. I found it weird but I thought whatever he is just some guy. Then he came to me one day and asked me for money and I though ´seriously?´, but I let it pass. The week after that he added me on facebook when he was at my guy best friends house. He said hi and we talked for a bit. but I ended up talking to my friend. Everyday we had little conversations, and we sat together in school at lunch time. As the days went by we talked more and more. We became best friends. We talked every time we could, and we texted late at night. One month after being best friends he asked me out, and I said yes. After a month of going out, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. Things were just perfect between us, we were the kind of couple people saw and smile at us, we were always playing around, we still acted like best friends. After some months something bad happened, I started liking another guy, we flirted all the time, and he held my hand and we talked a lot, I liked him, he gave a lot of attention and he gave me every second of his day. I felt so guilty, how was it possible that I liked another guy when I had a boyfriend? I didn't told my boyfriend about it. This went on two months and they he found out, he lost his trust for me. But he didn't broke up with me. He stood by my side, even when I liked another guy. I knew I loved my boyfriend I just couldn't help myself. I made the decision to stop talking to the guy I liked, I took him out of my life without telling him. I just pushed him away. I know I made the right decision, and I don't regret loosing that guy. I had a lot of work to do to make things right with my boyfriend, and I worked on it, every single day for a lot of months, and I did it, he trusted me again. I honestly think he never lost all of his trust towards me, because if it would've been that way, he would've left me, and he never did. After that our relationship became a lot more stronger that before, and a lot more serious, that's when he realized that what we had was real, we were only fifth-teen, but we knew it, and all of our friends did too. We are the kind of couple that people say 'those two are getting married someday'. We are like little kids together, and we fight like brother and sister, but then we also fight like a married couple. We still act like best friends. He is my best friends. There is no one in the world who I trust more that I trust him. He knows everything about me, and I know everything about him. We don't lie, and we no longer hide things from each other. He is the perfect boyfriend. He makes me laugh, he makes me smile when I don't want to. He pulls my hair out of my face. He holds my purse when we go out. He doesn't drink. He doesn't smoke. He choses me over his friends. I am always number one. He holds my hand even when we are mad at each other. We are not afraid to tells bad things to each other. He kisses me when I'm in the middle of saying something. I always wake up to a text. He calls me every night to say goodbye. He opens doors. He ditches every single girl that talks to him. And he does a ton more other things and if I go on I would never finish. His looks are just a huge bonus to all of this. We are seventeen now, and we are the happiest persons alive. He tells me he is the luckiest guy because I am with him, but I think I am the luckiest girl because he chose me, when he could've chosen any other girl. We have even talked about names for our children, and he asks me how I imagine my wedding, and we've talked about how we would like our home, and where to live. This thing we have, is amazing. He is my first, and I'm sure he is my last, and he feels the same way.
i admire this guy…for sticking with you despite what happened. it just means the he truly loves you. you’re sooo lucky to have a guy like him…it’s quite rare to find someone of his kind:) i enjoyed reading this:)thanks for sharing:)
Anonymous: Ok so heres my love story. I have known this guy for a while, we did some church things together when we were little, and we've always been on good terms. We baked cupcakes together when I was 11 and he was 13 for a bake sale, and when I was 12 and he was 14 he taught me how to ski. Through our small friendship I always had a crush on him, but we were kids, and he was 2 years older then me, so I gave up. We were always friends, we knew each other pretty well, and then this year came around, I was 14 and he was 16, and we started to spend more time together. We became really close back in october, and then even closer towards February, and then in march we went on a mission trip together. There we found out that our common friend (the third to our three musketeers) was suicidal and she tried to kill herself in front of us. Because of this large event we started spending more time together then we already did (which I didn't even think was possible). We went to therapy together to recover from this trauma, and talk to each other for hours every day. Then what else would happen but my feelings for him grow again. I liked him for a few months, but he told me that we couldn't date because he was worried he would end up hurting me. Even though this sounds like a load of horse shit, I believed him, and we still hang out. Then in april I turned 15, and I got this boost of confidence. I thought to myself, now I'm only a year younger then him, even if its just for a few months, and I can do this. I can some how make him fall for me. I was right, he did. He fell hard. With in 2 weeks we went from just friends to secret flirting. We would sit next to each other and cover ourself with a blanket so we could hold hands. We would start water fights or food fights then run and hide so we had a few minutes of time where we could just hold each other. He even told me he loved me. Then last week, being the wonderful and polite boy he is, he contacted my parents and asked if he could meet with them. They met up for coffee, and he asked permission to ask me to be his girlfriend. I know, I know, this sounds super cheesy and old fashion, but its just the kind of shit my parents love and find perfect in a guy. But being the youngest of 4 girls, my parents treat me like I am still a baby. They told him I still wasn't emotionally stable from the trauma that was our suicidal friend. Me and him still talk, and we still sneak off and hold hands. He still tells me he loves me, but we can never just hang out the two of us. I am stuck in a less dramatic version of Romeo and Juliet and it sucks. I love him.
gosh… the things you guy do together are just sooo sweet! thanks for sharing! and yeah youre right! it’s a version of Romeo and Juliet:)
Anonymous: I had my guy best friend. We were happy being friends but last summer, we were so crazy that night and we didn't realized that we're falling with each other. That night was so wonderful. Honestly, we KISSED. After that day, He became so sweet. I'm not used to it. But just after 1 month, he became cold at me. Then I realized that he doesn't love me anymore so I've decided to take my space first. No talk, no chat and no texts coming from him after I did that. Until now. :( It's about 1year and 2 months but nothing changed. Our past hunts me every night. Every time I see him in school, it feels awkward but there's something inside me that tells me to TALK and ASK him what had happened to US. But I'm too scared to do that because I know I'm just a nobody to Him now. What should I do? Please help me. :'(
these are the kinds of questions that im having second thoughts to answer..mainly because if something bad goes wrong you might come back and blame me for everything.
what im going to say right now is totally my opinion…so ill leave you with the choice of whether or not to consider what im going to say.
if this issue bothers you all the time then i think you should go ask him what had happened. it will give you closure…it will give you clarity. if ever you didnt get the answer that you originally wanted from him…then move on…get on with life and just treat what had happened as a beautiful (at the same time somewhat bitter) memory of you and him. Now if you cant do this or not yet ready…then just bear with the memories…the unanswered questions until the day that youre finally ready to get some answers from him.
Anonymous: I've been together with my boyfriend for almost three months now, I have to say that he's my first boyfriend and I'm 17. I was so excited when he asked me out and happy about everything, ok I still am, but what has me on edge is that his friends, not him, are pressuring on me kissing him.. I'm very shy about these things, I mean, he's my first boyfriend. Im scared that I wont wont know how to kiss or that people would stare... yeah pretty silly things to be worrying about. But i want to kiss him, I'm just shy.. an d well yeah everything else... help?!?!
if youre not ready… then dont do it. if your boyfriend loves you…he’ll understand. dont do things just because other people are pressuring you to do so. about not knowing how to kiss…well first kisses are usually awkward but it’s usually memorable too. Just let him lead…that’s all the advice i could give.
sora-asthesky: Hey there, it's me again! I'm glad you liked to read my story, although its end is a little sad. But yes, I have found a new love. Someone else, who managed to capture my heart.
It is a funny story actually. I mean, I know the guy for about three years now, but since almost 2 months we started going out (:
He used to be together with of one my friends, but somehow after two years of dating they ended up not liking each other. Some relationship issues which I (as outsider) wouldn’t be able to tell, since that is their story. Even though she and him have a history she blessed us. Once she knew, we were dating for 2 weeks when she got to know, she said she was happy for me and that she hoped to act normally with him again. So that started really awkward, but that’s alright now. Oh how I love that girl sometimes. We are not the closest friends but close enough to may feel uncomfortable with the fact that your friend is dating your ex-boyfriend. Yet she still blessed us.
I actually don’t know when or how I fell in love with him. I do know that it suddenly hit me that I really do and, luckily for me, he says he really loves me back. <3
I mean, we always had fun as friends. And even though he and my friend broke up pretty badly in the end, I couldn’t be mad at him. I guess that must’ve been a sign or something. Thinking back, I actually see myself looking at him or in his direction a lot.
Well anyway, we went on a few dates. We got ice-cream, went somewhere near water and pretty views, and walked miles together. And well, he popped the question. That almost sound like he asked me to marry him, don’t worry, he just asked me to be his girlfriend (:
And we’ve been (happily!) together since. I have to say that a two month relationship isn’t that long. But even though I do not like to look far into the future, I do feel like this one could last for a (long) while longer. So at the moment I’m really happy.
Well then, that was another long story from me! I should learn how to type less, haha! Oh and, if you’d like to tell someone your story, I’m all ears, just saying ^^
Thank you for asking about my current love. With love, Irma.
im glad your happy:) and i think your right…for not looking far into the future. I think i should do that too… expect less or expect nothing at all. life is full of surprises…and the future is unsure. thanks for sharing your story!!!!!
Anonymous: So this is my love story:
When we were 13 my best friend and I used to say things like "when we grow up, i'll marry you", "we'll have 2 kids, we'll adpot",we used to fight about every little thing and we loved to hug each other and he used to kiss my forehead wich I think is lovely.
He had this band and he used to say that all his songs were inspired in me because I was the reason he was alive(he used to be really depressive and want to kill himself but i wont let him)and that he loved me a lot.
One day he told me that when we turned 18, he will propose. after that we got into a terrible fight, we didnt speak to each other in about 5 months and after that we didnt speak like we used to.
One day we were talking and he asked me is I remembered that one day he said he was gonna propose and I had told him that I would marry him if he asked me, I had totally forgot that, but when he reminded me I started to fall for him all over again,
When I was seventeen I moved to an apartment with him(being best friends only) and I remember I used to cry every night to sleep because he used to take his girlfriend to the apartment and i had to be like really close to his gf because he asked me to and it really hurt and he looked at me like a lil sister or that was what i thougt.
When I turned 18 he made me this amazing party and when everyone go away we slept together(we were a little drunk) and we stayed up late talking bout everything, after that our relationship got really weird, it was awkward and that stuff.
1 month later i found out I was pregnant, I almost died.
I was gonna tell him in the breakfast but I had nauseas so I had to run to the bathroom and throw out, he followed me and stayed w me asking what was wrong, after a while we seated on the couched and he start kissing my forehead like he used to when we were little. After I while in silence I told him "Im pregnant" he looked at me in the eyes and huged me, then he told me he loved me and that I was the best part of his day, he started crying and get out a ring of his pant, he proposed, I obviously said yes,he told me that he loved me so much and that he would stand by me during the whole pregnancy. He said that I was the first women he kissed and that he wanted me to be the last.
I just love him, Always had always will.
Hope you enjoy!
i love how you guys started. it’s so cute!i admire your boyfriend for being there for you till the end. i know a lot of friends that are left by their boyfriends once they learn that the girl got pregnant. it just means that your guy really loves you:) thanks for sharing this sweet story<3
chyeahbaby: My love story:
I never believed in love at first sight until I saw this one boy. There I was sitting there in class when my teacher said we are going to have a new student. I turned to my friend and said, "I hope its a cute boy." She smiled and we both turned our heaps towards the door. There he was... Cute, tall, brown eyes, longish brown hair, skinny. I couldn't take my eyes away from him. I knew he was the one... I was the first person to talk to him in the class... It was a couple of months later when we had to be partners for helping out a prep class room in making slime. That's when we both fell in love... We had a water fight. We laughed, and mucked around, cleaning the bowls the kids had used. After that we acted like nothing had happened because I was going out with some one else at the time. The next month later, me and my boy friend broke up. And I started to go out with the boy of my dreams..... We went out for a year and 4 months... And after we broke up, my heart went with him. Its been over a year since we broke up. And I think about him every single day. I love him so much its not much to handle. He brought out the good in me and now im very unhappy... And when I see him, I stop breathing....
I don't know how to be happy again ? :(
Thanks for listening. :)
thanks for sharing your story.
it will take time before you can finally get over this guy…well it all depends on how much you like this guy. if you fell hard for him… it could take awhile. dont think that this guy is the only one who can make you happy. you need to realize that he’s not the only one who loves you. you got your friends and you got your family. dont think that your happiness will end because your relationship with this guy ended. you will find someone better in the future..we always do:)