Anonymous: Hello, my name is Dani. I'm 21 years old, and I live with my 58 year old mother at home. I've shared my story with a few others, and I'd like for it to be seen by as many as I can, because maybe it will help others, even if its only a few. When I was 9, my parents and I moved to New York. I loved it there, but I was lonely. I had left all of my friends back where I grew up. In my first week of school, I met a boy named Jordan. We became very close, best friends from the start. He was basically my only friend there, but that was okay, it was enough for me. He got me through more than I could ever imagine. My father died in war when I was 10, and though I was so young, it left a huge scar in my life, that is yet to heal. When I was 12, Jordan's parents called my mother at home. She said something terrible had happened, and grabbed me by the arm and sat me in our car, and sped down the road. She was crying, but wouldn't explain anything. She kept telling me everything was going to be okay. I remember that next moment like it just happened. We pulled up to Jordan's house, and there was an ambulance and three police cars outside. I was 11, and I was confused. Jordan's mom ran up to me crying, and gave me a giant hug. I had no idea what was going on. That's when I saw the stretcher being lifted into the ambulance. I instantly became dizzy, and everything was spinning. Then it was all black, and I woke up in the hospital with my mother beside me. She explained everything. Jordan had been hit by a car running out from his driveway. It was a hit and run, and they have no witnesses. Jordan wasn't strong enough that day, and within minutes at the hospital, he passed away. I didn't even cry, and it scared me. I couldn't find words to speak, and I couldn't sleep. My parents sent me to these people, who tried to help me. I suffered from severe depression my entire life, but I was getting through it. The loss of two of the most important people in my life, left me with problems, and issues that I'm still trying to sort out, but I'm getting there, slowly. I remember Jordan told me, when my father died, he told me to remember him how he was to me, and all the good memories, not the loss. It helped a lot when he was here with me, but now I have no one. My mom has never really recovered since my dad, and she's getting older, and suffers from many sicknesses, so I don't talk to her about it, I try to make it as easy for her as I can, she's been through too much, and I can't lose her too. I'm slowly healing, but I know I'll never be the same. I just wanted to share this, to tell everyone to hold on to what you have. You're never too young to lose something. Live like it's your last day, and tell everyone that you love, that you love them. If you don't it's a lot harder to heal. I wish no one had to go through the pain that I along with many others has, but it happens. And I want to remind you all to hold no regrets, and hold your loved ones close, fight for them. They're worth the fight.
Thank you so much Dani for sharing this story. I swear, I cried reading it. Its amazing how I receive stories like these…stories that touch my heart…heck! it didnt just touch my heart…it pierced right through it. this story truly inspired me…and it will be one of those i’ll never forget. I know whoever reads this will get the same reaction I did. i hope a lot of people could read this and be touched by you. Thank you so much!!!!
pathwaytothemoon-deactivated201: I told you about a love story earlier. I don't know if you remember, but here is how my whole "love" stuff turned out.
My boyfriend who asked me out a week before school ended turned out to be a jerk. He called me stupid one day and told me to send him naked photos. He ignored me, then lied about it. And when I didn't believe the lie he lied more. He treated me harshly and I couldn't stand it. So I broke up with him. That's when he finally started acting nice. Telling me he loved me and would try harder. But I told myself he would just do it again, and that I couldn't go back. I gave him to many chances.
Even though he hurt me so much it was one of the hardest things I had to do. I cried but regretted it. If he wants to deserve me he should act like it. I don't know if I made the right move but now he keeps telling me how I don't understand and how stupid I'm acting and how I should just take him back. I know I shouldn't...or should I?
That's my question, should I take him back?
im sorry…my response is loooong due.its been hectic in school…anyways.
I love what you said: “if he wants to deserve me he should act like it.” I TOTALLY AGREE! Plus, i dont think you’re acting stupid coz he’s the one that’s acting stupid. He doesnt respect you! He shouldnt force you to do something you dont want to do. Asking a girl to send naked pics of her??? do you even call that a gentleman. A real gentleman respects a woman’s body. Instead of seeing you stripped, he should cover u up instead..idk but thats my own perception of a real gentleman. You’re body is your temple:) Get rid of this guy…if he cant treat you right then ge definitely doesnt deserve your love.
xo-moonlightkisses-xo: Hi.:) I see many are sending you love stories and I love them. Their stories are inspiring especially the sweet ones.;) I just wanna share my story.
I am not that lucky when it comes to love, I fall for someone easily and then my heart gets broken by the minute. But then 2 years ago I met a guy. Me and him were classmates in our first year first sem class in college. But we don't usually talk to each other. Actually that time, I have a boyfriend, one of our classmates too haha. So i don't really notice him that much while him, he focused his life on DOTA. I hope you're familiar with that.xD Then time passed and I got single. It was summer a year later. I'm enjoying my vacation staying up to 3 am in the morning and waking up I think 1pm in the afternoon haha. what a nonsense of telling that.:))) And then one 3am in the morning he PMed me on facebook and telling me to go to sleep and I just answered in a rude but joking manner that why would he go first. Then that's where it all started. I started to learn the game DOTA that time and because I know that he knows it, he teaches me online. The whole vacation, me and him were chatting in facebook, actually wall-to-wall posts so obviously we were all over the news feed of our friends.xD But then one evening(the month of May 2010) He greeted me. He said "evening ey." Ey was may nickname and then I replied " Good evening to you too.:)" And then he said " I only said evening I didn't say that it was good." I was wondering why and I jokingly said " Are you inlove?haha" Then surprisingly he said yes. And he said " I have been loving you ey" Those were the exact words he said. I don't know what to say because I don't believe that one can fall in love without physical contact. But then we met a couple of times after that and I think that's a date?:)) I think he courted me for 2 weeks then that was time that I began feeling something towards him. I smile in front of the monitor screen everytime we talk, he quits on his game everytime I PM him and I miss him everytime we don't talk. He always says that he loves me everytime and one time when he said that I said that I love him too.:D Then we set a date to where we'll be officially starting our relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend and that was June 8, 2010.
Our whole year together didn't go smoothly. I almost fell in love with another guy because he keeps on choosing dota over me. And that was a very painful thing for me. But then I bravely told him everything that I was feeling and he got hurt. He promised that everything will change after that and it did.:D We got back to where it all started. Talking and laughing with each other and then I felt that I would never really be able to leave him after all. Because for that quite a time, he already has every part of me. I love him that much. Our whole year together already passed but I think we got sweeter and sweeter every moment. Every time he takes me home after school, even though his house is two hours away from our school, he always tell me that he loves me so much and no matter what happens, I will be the only one that he loves. Everytime he says that, I wanna cry with happiness because after all these years, I think I found the only man, deserving for my heart. And that's him. He's not that handsome, rich, clever or anything. But for me, he is more than that. Yeah I am not lucky when it comes to love. But I'm blessed with everything when I found him.:)
To anyone who will be reading this, and for you miss awesome, I hope time would come that you'll meet someone that would fallinlove with you when you least expected it and yet, you will realize that you wanted to have him for good.:) Goodmorning.:)
gosh! when i saw the word dota!!!! yes i am familiar with it!i hate that game! despise it! My ex would usually choose DOTA over me…hahaha it’s funny how i got jealous over a computer game! hahaha. i think there’s a song about that…about a guy choosing dota over a girl…i’ll find that song or..i’ll ask my ex if he knows it..he probably does.
im glad you got him and im so happy you shared your story with me! i really wish i could find that kind of “love” youre talking about, but for the meantime…while my soulmate is still in constant search for me…i’ll just enjoy being single:)
Anonymous: Okay, not much of a love story, just something I need to vent..
There's this guy (let's call him Jack).
I have liked him for ages, but he already knew that. We put it behind us, and we agreed that it would be awesome if we would just be good mates, coz we don't want to ruin our friendship.
We are real close, y'know.
We always hug when we see eachother, and we tell eachother basically everything that's bothering us.
But when I arrived at school last week friday, he ignored me.
None of his friends knew what was wrong, and they were all surprised about him not saying hey or anything. I said to him 'Hey Jack! How're youu?' but he walked off.
I figured that maybe he needed some space, and was just having an off day.
I didn't just ignore him back, whenever I saw him, I smiled, but didn't fully go up to him and hug him, so he could y'know, cool off.
But he also did the same yesterday and today..
I have no idea what's wrong tho..
I know for a fact we had no fights beforehand, and I have never said anything behind his back etc. So I don't know what's wrong..
Maybe I'm overreacting, but I just needed to let someone know. (:
I really want to sort this out before the holidays because I won't be able to see him then, and it'll hurt so bad if I don't know what's going on, and why all this is happening.
I am going on this trip with him at the end of term 3, so I hope we can be friends by then. (:
Thankyou so so so so so much for listening to mine, and everyone elses stories and questions, you are amazing, don't forget that!
thanks for the last part:)
have you tried asking him why he;s acting that way? maybe something’s bothering him. if you cant get a hold of him personally…then there’s lots of ways to ask him…text„,chat„,fb„,twitter…gosh the technology nowadays could make everything possible (well okay not everything:))
if you dont know why he’s acting that way then you wouldnt know how to solve whatever problem you guys have:)…well you dont even know if there IS a problem. gotta know the truth.. you got to ask him whats up with him:)
Anonymous: oh, can't believe it got cut off. Well anyways, while I still am in love with her, I'm not sure if there's someone else who likes me. I think she hates me and told her friend to tell me that "j" likes me.
hey anon:) if you can read this message.. sorry for the late reply:) we should have a real convo:) come off…dont be anon:) ill reply to your messages privately:)
Anonymous: Okay so I just need to get something off my chest and have someone tell me everything is going to be alright. So here it goes.
My boyfriend left about a week ago, and he's gone for a total of 6 months on the other side of the country to work. It's driving me crazy because I was so use to seeing him pretty much every day. And I would usually sleep over at his place because we love to cuddle, as well his bed is ridiculously comfy.
Anyway, the day before he left, I was helping him pack and getting things straightened out for his trip. When he gave me the left over condoms from his room and told me to hold on to them. Then he said he had packed one with him for "just in case". I didn't show it, but I was freaking out inside. He said he'd rather be safe than sorry, but just what the actual shit!
To be fair, he said that we'd be on hold while he's away and that I can do whatever I want. But I don't want anyone but him. I told him it hurt me that he'd even think there would be a moment where he might need it. He continued to say he'd rather be safe than sorry. However, I did tell him when he came home and that condom was gone, I would be too.
It's just so damn frustrating because he tell me he loves me and that he's never felt this way about anyone else before, but it's so hard for me to believe it when he takes a condom with him. Not to mention I don't get to talk to him a lot because of the time difference and his work schedule. I also have never felt this way about another human being before, and I know that this is what love feels like.
I've been told that all I can do is know that every day I'm one day closer to seeing him again.
I also want to say..
Thank you for reading this and having this blog <3 It means a lot.
6 months…wow…that’s quite a long time..well for me. anyways he might have a really good reason as to why he put your relationship “on hold.” he doesnt want to burden the both you you. maybe he;s the type of guy that sucks when it comes to long distance relationship..and putting your relationship on hold couldbe the only way to save the relationship for him. if he’s not into that LDR thing…and not able to handle the burden as a result of it then this on hold thing could actually spare the relationship from what might happen. some couples would continue on despite the distance…some couldnt handle it and the relationship would end in a sour note. (though i admire those couples that could withstand the distance:) ). anyways…youve known this guy for a long time…you;ve been together for quite some time…if he truly loves you he’ll definitely wont use that condom. if he’s true and loyal to you…he wont do anything that could possible hurt you:)
Anonymous: Love Story -
So I recently reconnected with someone I graduated with, and he's superduper cute and so nice. One night he was over with two of our friends and my, dog was legit all over him, and the next day he told me he thought Clover would be a better kisser than I was, so I was like nuhuh I'll prove it (; And so after our town fireworks display, I did.
We hungout again after that night, and he kissed me again. But like, I can't tell if he likes me too. I mean, yeah there has to be some sort of attraction for him to kiss me right? And like we've been talking for a month and I have no idea where this is heading. I need some help?!
P.S. love your blogggg!
“I mean, yeah there has to be some sort of attraction for him to kiss me right?”
yes…your right…there has to be some sort of attraction. but take note that attraction and love isnt the same thing.
‘if this thing has been bothering you…and confusing you like crazy, there’s only one way to clear things out. ASK HIM. ask him straight what his intentions are. there’s nothing wrong about this. you cant just stay quiet and assume…you have to know the truth…and know where you stand. now if youre worried and afraid to ask…then i guess you’ll be confused for quite some time:)
just try and ask…and if he doesnt like you, it’s fine…at least you know the truth about his feelings…and you know what you will do from then on.
crapland: Well, there's days when I really want to tell someone what happened to me. But I don't really want my BBFs to know. or parents. Or basically anyone of my close ones. So here's my story. Hope you won't fall asleep while reading it.
So here it is.
My parents divorced when I was 4. Nothing major. He cheated. But since I have a great mom I was able to have a great dad too.
Well, two years later mom remarried. My first step-father. He beat me up quite frequently. I never told mom though. Wanted her to be happy. He made me call him dad. I hated it. They didn't last. Divorced year later.
Well, when I was 8 my mom started to go out with some guy. U think his name was Alexander. He was one of there fat-and-bald-by-thirty type of guys. He molested me. I cried and pleaded to stop. But in the end it didn't help. He never did anything serious. But I still fell dirty every time I look into the mirror. Then I was sent to healing summer-camp. Guess what? He told mom that he had a business trip but in truth he came to the town where I was staying, booked a hotel number and took me away from camp. It was awful. I never told mom. They never lasted also. It seems he was a criminal. FML I must say.
That's what caused my suicidal thoughts to start.
Then two years later in 4th grade I was transferred. And there goes bullying. The Queen B of my class didn't like me. Well, I'm not the type that licks someone's ass to be safe. But I really should hove done just that. Lots of name-calling, let's-imitate-Tanya-and-make-her-suffer games. Never told mom about that either. Even my best friend ignored me in school. But I never broke. Never ratted in them. But I wasn't quite either. Gave that fuckers a bit of my thought. So by 6th grade it all stopped. Almost everyone has accepted me. The Head Bitch leaved the school. And them I thought everything finally would be normal. But you know "Laugh before breakfast, you'll cry before supper". So we went to have a big picnic. Everything was great. 'till one of my classmates asked me to give her my mp3. I said that I won't 'cause my father just gave it to me as b-day present. She got mad at me. Then lied to her friends that I've insulted them behind their becks. And fucking hooray. The bulling got back. And they throwed my player into the water. It broke down. That was the first time I cried. I swam after it. It's still in my drawer somewhere. I was called a wale. A fatty. They bought thin girls from other classes to "convince" me to become "one of them" with endless insults. almost everyday I was thinking about slitting my wrists or my throat. Or maybe taking as many sleeping pills as I can take. But I knew my mom would be devastated if I did. So I kept fighting.
The bulling stopped in 9th grade. Now I'm thin and one as hell confident girl. I don't let anyone say shit about me any more. And actually now I'm on friendly terms with all that girls that bullied me. I forgave them long ago. If it wasn't for them and all that crap that happened to me I wouldn't be as strong as I am now.I'm really grateful that I am who I am.
WHAT AN INSPIRING STORY….perhaps the most inspiring ive read so far. i didnt even know that these kinds of things could happen in real life..i thought these things were only found in movies or books. im glad you survived all that had happened in your life…im glad it made you stronger. im glad you didnt give up …you kept fighting and im glad you didnt carry on with you suicidal thoughts.
i see that your mom has been that one person that inspired you to kept going. you have her and she has you. i just wished that you couldve told your mom about everything. coz since you only got each other…it’s better if you guys are open with all your feelings. and if she;s a good mother..she’s going to be there for you…supporting you and helping you ease out your burden. anyways…that’s just my opinion..which could be completely wrong.
i admire you!!!! and i love your story!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you’re my inspiration:)
Anonymous: I'm from germany so my english isn't that good :D
But, here is my lovev story:
Since i was in the second class i loved the brother of my best friend. 1 or 2 years later I told her that il ove her brother and she told him.
But soon it was forgotten.
now, 5 years later I still love him or love him again, I don't know. I see him every day in school or when he do something with my brother. Two grils in my class suddenly are chatting with him and when i found it out, i was hurt, to know that they're talking with him and I don't ...But 3 or 4 months ago he and my brother have a barbecue and I sat me to them. He (the one I love) asked me if i know a girl ( the one who's chatting with him) I said 'yes, why?' he replied, that she is annoying him becasue she always want to chatting with him...I was soooo happy. I still love him, but he will never love me too. In his class ( he is just one year older than me) are really pretty and thin girls, so i alwys think, why should he love me, when there are prettier girls ?
I have really no idea what to do !
for me, true love is a feeling brought about by reasons beyond the physical aspects of life. love is so much deeper than what you think. of course, physical beauty is a factor for a person to be attracted to another person..hence…it’s just attraction. love is different…i really suck in explaining what love feels like coz truth is…there’s a billion ways people could define it. Love is a ray of sunshine…it gives you butterflies…love hurts…love is eating icecream on a hot sunny day…love is a blanket during the cold winter night…etc!!! but you know what my favorite quote about what love is? love is blind. we dont use our eyes or mind…we use our heart to fall in love (yup my views on love is a bit cheesy…but that’s what love is…it makes you cheesy). anyways…just be yourself…you dont have to be like those pretty thin girls because your beautiful just the way you are. and if he doesnt see this then i guess he’s not worth it. plus…if this guy doesnt see you…you cant really do anything about it. if you tried your best to get this guy’s attention…if you tried showing that you love him and he still doesnt see you…then it’s time to get on …move on. dont worry because i know that there will come a time that a guy will just magically appear in your life and see you for what youre really worth:)
btw dont worry about the grammar because im bad in grammar too:)
Anonymous: my english ist not that good, but i hope you understand:P soo, ive got only a short part of my story, beacause its tooo long, it went over like 3 years now. first, ive got a question question: why can he (ex-bestfriend) just decide at any random morning to wake up and never talk to me again, and let it look so easy? well he did this for like 3 months, then we faught and he said he want to be my bestfriend again and that, if i stil "love" him, we cant just throw 2 years away. of course i said that i still love him but i am scared that he do this again to me, like to decide never talk to me again without a reason (he said he had no, and it was not my fault?!). he said: well im on my way to be a nice asshole and well... yup. we talk like 2 hours, after that i was sooo confused. but then 2 weeks later, we faught again. and now he does so mean things and i dont know what to do. he doesnt talk to me anymore and he says mean things about me on facebook and to his friends and other random people. i was thinking about talking to him, but im scared and i cant estimate his reaction. so i just wanted to share this and i hooope you can help me? :(
its impossible for him to have NO reason at all for not talking to you. he might have had some petty reason like..he’s having a bad day…or you might have done something that made him feel bad and decide to ignore u. whatever it is he shouldve been open to you about it. if you guys are best friends…you should be able to open up your feelings with each other and tell each other if you guys are upset about something. you guys fight a lot of times to the extent that the other friend even talk shit about you with other people. your friendship is so inconsistent which makes me think that what you guys have is unhealthy. you have to start thinking if this friend of yours is worth keeping. if he hurts you a lot…is he really your friend? you do know that there are billions of people in the world…and i know you can find a good friend among them:)
pikastars: AHEM. Hey Miss Awesome,
I just wanted to tell you... Remember TJ? So.. I gave him the letter a few days ago, and a little while after that, he basically... professed his love for me. In a very LONG letter, explaining pretty much everything. I saw him the next day, and those aftershocks I felt all that time ago... they came back when he caught me off guard in a kiss. We're not officially dating or anything but we're just speaking to each other every day for now... because he knows I have to regain trust in him. But, I just wanted to thank you SO much for encouraging me. I don’t know where I would be without you. This is a quick post but I’m just sending an update, my thanks, and my love!
oh goshhhh!!!!!!!!!! you are freakin lucky!!! im soo happy for u!! i bet that moment was one of your happiest! im really jealous of you and this guy. im glad it all went well. i really admire your courage and just imagine what would happen if you didnt give him that letter? everything could have been different..anyways. thanks for the update and congratulations!<3
Anonymous: So I wrote to you before about james, and how my parents won't let us be together. They still won't but tonight was the best night of my life. I want to tell you about it. So today is my last day in town for a few weeks, so james asked me if I wanted to hang out. We went into town, and then wandered around for a while before making our way to the town park. we sat down next to each other, and he pulled me in front of him, so I sat leaning up against his chest. He told me that If I counted all the leafs on the tree above us, he would give me a present. I started to count out loud. After I got to 6, he said "thats good enough" he turned me around and he kissed me, under the stars and moonlight. It was the first time he ever kissed me. I love him, and he loves me. Some day my parents will realize that our love is to big for them to contain. I have never been this happy in my life. The only sad part is I leave tomorrow, and I won't get to see or talk to him for 3 weeks.
wwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh!!!!! ”our love is to big for them to contain” this is such a beautiful quote! thanks for updating me about you and james. and your right that someday your parents would understand why you chose james. they will understand that this guy is really sincere towards you and that he is willing to take care of you. 3 weeks is such a long time but i know you guys could find a way to communicate. the technology today would make that possible..skype…ym…email…fb…tumblr… etc!:))
Anonymous: hi, sorry for disturbing. but i really want your advice. look this is the story
i knew a girl, &she was a really good friend. i also met her friends. there was a guy &i kinda liked him from the first moment, later we had just some contact over msn &stuff. i didnt saw him for over a half year. and then we started talking &stuff again. the really small crush i had on him grew bigger and bigger. then we decided to go out togheter some day. i didn't saw him for over 8months or something. well and the day we went out, we also kissed in the water and things. he saved me when i fell in the canal, and when we went out there he did his jacket over my shoulders and stuff and then we kissed. i really like him, but i feel like a whore, i mean this was the first time i saw him in months and then we kissed. i dont know how i must feel, im really happy with him. but i think it's kinda weird. but then there is also, that he as a fight with the friend i knew him from. but i dont know , i just cant choose between my crush &friend. look i had the feeling that the friend and i also didnt really were friends anymore, it was more like i say hi &so does she. but i really want to know what you think about all this.
i wonder why you think you’re a “whore” for doing those things. you see, if you do those things out of love and if it’s all sincere then you shouldnt think that way about yourself. you guys are inlove and those are the types of things that people inlove usually do. i dont understand the “choose between my crush and friend” part. what exactly happened between them and why did they fight? is it possible if you choose both of them? is it really a “one or the other situation?”
galaxydirectionertw: I thought you weren't accpeting love stories anymore, but since i saw some people sharing their own love stories to you i <finally> decided to ell you my love story.
It happened a year and half ago. I was on seventh grade, he was on ninth grade. It all started like this. Since de second week of that school year, he started sitting next to me and my friends in the football field when it was break time or recess. He was always starring at me and i used to get nervous at his beautiful look. He didn't start talking to me until october came. One Then hday, at recess time, i was leaving my group of friend to buy something in the cafeteria with another friend. That friend and i passed right in front of him. Then he yelled at us "hey Lore were are you going? Can i go with you?" and i couldn't believe it, all i did was walk faster. I was really nervous and i was afraid too. It was the first time i've heard his voice, the first time he called my name. Then the next day some of his grils friends came to me and asked me " Are you Lore? Andres wants to talk to you, he's really into you. He ha snever felt in love that way like he's wtih you." That made me blush, a lot. And what i responded was " Yes, i am Lore, and tell him we'll talk later." And yeah, we did talk, but one week later. Meanwhile, in the days of that week, Andres's cousin <who was in the classes as me> told me that "He really loves you. You'll be a nice cousin-in-law" or stuff like that. My best friend told me the same things, except for the cousin-in-law-part. There was also another girl <whol iked him too.> that told me that he was really into me, that he really loved me, and that she would leave all the way free to me. And yes she did. Well returning back to the week we started talking, it was awesome. Since that day, he started sitting next to me and with my best friend. He used to hold my hand, to look me in the eyes and tell me "you look beautiful today" no matter if I went to school with the same hair style i had when i recently woke up from bed. And as the days passed, he started to wait me on the lockers's room door, and when i walked in he would always say hello and kiss me on my cheek, then get me to my locker and carry my books to my classroom. Then, at the end of school he'll wait me up in the bathrooms <because it was the nearest place to my classroom and the lockers> until i passed in front of him with my bunch of books and then carry them for me. Since happy new year 2009, when we were back to school, he started to hugged me, and telling me more nice stuff every day. Eahc day that passed by was another little rock to our cave of love. Then one day we went on our first date <with my best friend adn his cousin, but yeah, it was our first and last date .-.> But he arrived to the movies when i was about to leave, that made me really dissapointed. He apologized the same day, he told me he saw me leave with my mom, he told he was sorry but he had work to do, he told me he loved me, and that he wished and begged for my forgiveness. And yes, i accepted his apology. Then as day passed again he started holding me every time he saw me, he started to hold my hands even tighter. In my brithday he hold me in his arms every time except when we were on classes. His prom day was coming and he didn't declared to me jet. Until one day, we were on the football field with my bf and his cousin and he asked me: do you want to be my girlfriend, my girl, my everything? And i couldn't believe him, i was in shock. The answer was not a yes neither a no. I told him that i didn't know, but he took it as a yes and started to hold my hand for ever. He started to call me my love, or Lorenita. And i loved that he did that. But his prom came, and that was the last day that i ever saw him. We lost communication, and haven't talked to him in years. I really mis him a lot *-*
P.S: hope you like it besides it's not a fairytale neither the worts love story ever. I'm
Lorean, i'm from mexico and i want to apology if there are some mistakes in my spelling, grammar and whatever else that appears :) I love your blog, youyr definitely miss awesome :)
i realy love how this love story started. through… it started out of no where…but…it ended out of no where too. i wasnt expecting that you guys would lose communication like that…since throughout your story you’ve stressed how much this guy loves you..he loves you even if you guys havent talked yet.
thank you so much Lore…and dont worry about the grammar or spelling because im really bad in grammar too:) hahaha.
thanks again love:)
pathwaytothemoon-deactivated201: Ok so I've seen people tell you their "love stories". I guess I thought I'd share mine. My friend went out with this guy. He treated her really badly. He called her ugly and then they just broke up. They pretended they never went out afterwards so they stayed friends. I met him one day and thought of him as just a friend. But more and more I got to talking to him. And I kept thinking to myself "would it be weird if we went out?" But I always doubted that we could possibly be more then friends. Plus, I could never see myself with him. One day though, out of the blue he asked me out. I felt weird and my reflexes said no. But then I told him I'd think about it. I talked to my friend who went out with him earlier. She told me that he asked her if it was ok for him to ask me out. She said yes so he did. I felt a little weird about that but I thought about it and finally told him yes. That was the best decsision of my life. We ended up being one of those cutesy couples who fell in love in practically one week. Everything was perfect. On the last day of school he kissed me. It was my first kiss. It felt so perfect. Now we talk on the phone and text every day. And we are going to see a movie together. But there was one problem to all the lovey dovey stuff. My parents. They don't "approve" of me having a boyfriend so I didn't tell them. That's why it's hard to see him during the summer. It makes me upset but I know it's worth it. And once we go back to school I'll be able to hug and kiss him. That's the only thing that keeps me holding on. Knowing that we will survive the summer and be together when we see each other again. A lot of my friends are jealous of our relationship. They tell me that we connect so well and that it's amazing how we are still in "love". I think it's amazing too. I actually think it's a miracle. I felt like nothing would ever be right in my life before this. But now he makes me feel like I'm special.
That's my love story. Hopefully it's a long story (:
first of all i think you did an awesome job for asking your friend’s blessings first:) u must try your best not to hurt anyone:)
it’s normal for parents to be protective of their child. d they know about him?wouldnt it be better if your parents get to know him too? so they know that this guy is really sincere with you. I know it’s hard especially if your parents are super duper strict…if they are…i guess keeping it a secret is fine…for the meantime. your parents will knowabout him eventually…especially if you guys really last long. :)
thanks for sharing your love story:))) sorry it took some time before it got published:)