Anonymous: I fell hard for a guy in the summer of 2010. I told him in January of 2011. He shot me down. I've been pretty much broken ever since. So yeah, that's it.
wah? shot you down?well dont you worry anon…he’s probably not worth it. you’ll meet more people so dont lose hope. When I got dumped once…i thought love isnt really for me..but hey months after I met a really great guy.
ur-time: I was in love with my best friend.but it's over.I think :")
I was inlove with my bestfriend… I thought i was over him..but I found out i was wrong. IDK why… but i continue falling over and out for him…he doesnt even know. i probably wont tell him because I definitely dont see myself in a relationship with him.
krisihopelessdaydreamer: i forgot to say, the reason that my mom's story fit with mine is because there was a plan to go there right after high school, and i was imagining that we would meet again, and fall in love, like my parents. met in kindergarten, and meet again first year after high school, and fall in love. like my parents.
omg!! just read this!!!! like I said… I really really truly wish you guys will meet again! i really wish…fingers crossed:)) HEy if you dont mind.. if that time happens…and im still on tumblr.. would you update me?:) thanks a lot:)
krisihopelessdaydreamer: heeeyo :)) recent follower, and im loving your blog. :))
my story isnt much, but i find it cute and i wanted to share it anyway.
okay. well. i'll start with my mom's story. you'll see how it kinda fits. my mom and dad are four years apart [mom's younger]. so, they were never together in school. in kindergarten, my dad's mom, my grandma, was my mom's teacher. my dad finished school, so he decided to visit his mom, in kindergarten. it so happened to be picture day. so in my mom's kindergarten picture, with my grandma as her teacher, my dad was in the corner of the picture. not sure how he got there.
so, technically, i would say, that my parents met in kindergarten.
i dont know if they ever saw each other again within that time. then, first year after high school. my mom was hanging out with her 2nd cousin [close family], who was friends with my dad. one day, my mom's cousin invited her to burn some videocassetes at his friends place [my dad]. there, he introduced them, and they fell in love and lived happily ever after. actually.
so, my story. there was this guy. i met him in kindergarten, and we quickly became best friends. me, my girl best friend, and him. that was my circle in kindergarten. of course, i had a gigantic crush on him. my parents would always tell me what when they asked who's my boyfriend [while i was in kindergarten/first grade] i would always tell them him, without even hesitating. i remember feeling on top of the world when i went to his birthday party, and found out i was the only girl he invited, with a few other guys in the class (small party). not that i should have been surprised, we were best friends. and he was also the only boy in mine, besides my brother who's there by default.
okay, then. the end of grade one. we moved. across the globe. literally. 5414 miles away. and that was 7 years ago. we had no contact, being in grade one. the sad thing is, the only thing i pretty much know about him is his first name. i dont know his last name, and i dont remember where he lived. i also know how he looked in kindergarten, but that's about it. i have my kindergarten picture on my bedside table. and much of the pictures i have from later on were smudged and you can't see his face clearly. and i know it's crazy and sad, but sometimes i would just imagine that i go back, and he's waiting for me at the airport and i run into his arms and hug him and we would twirl around. but the sad thing is, even if by some chance we do see each other again, we wouldn't recognised each other. i don't know if i'm going back there before i finish high school [3 years] so i wouldn't have seen him for 10 years. you don't just recognise someone from kindergarten after 10 years. sadly.
this is such a cute cute cute story!! I thought the ending was you guys meet each other are and are together as of the moment. grrrr. I really hope that happens… wouldnt that be romantic? ahhh. dont you have his facebook? or anything at all? maybe theres a way to track him down. asking old friends that you know…i know theres some kind of connection…a way fro you guys to communicate. and ohhh how i wish he still remembers you! thank you so much for sharing! it’s such a good read:))
Anonymous: Hello ^^ You said you wanted a story about best friend romances.
Well I have one, sort of. See the thing is we fell for each other, and then became friends.
It was three days before Valentine’s Day; my school was having a dance. Earlier that week I had asked him too it. It was completely embarrassing and I still cringe a little at it now. I was at my friend’s birthday party, and I was walking up the stairs to find him—right as I hit the top step I slipped and fell down because my legs were shaking so badly. You see romance and crushes, and all of those things aren’t my forte—but I really liked him, so I pushed past my nervousness and I asked him. He thought I was joking at first—and then realized I was being completely serious, I think I stuttered a little and I imagine my face was red. He said yes, thankfully, and we went together. When I got there I was wearing a pink dress, even though pink isn’t really choice of color, and he said I looked beautiful. Boys never call me that, and that made me nervous. I wished I had told him how cute he looked, but I just shyly said thanks. I was extremely anxious though, I would have to dance with him. What would we talk about? Are we supposed to talk at all? I was trying to plan something in my head, and then a slow song came on quicker than I wanted, so I just apologized for my terrible dancing and told him I was really nervous. He just said it was fine, that it was cute. I feel bad though, I tried to hide because I was so nervous, I ran away a little bit too—but my friends forced me to dance with him thankfully.
Three days later it would be Valentine’s Day, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I remember him being nervous, mumbling on about it wasn’t really his idea, but his best friend would kill him if he didn’t ask. I asked him if I could have some time to think about it. See the truth is romance, dating, dances—all of it terrifies me, and I don’t know why, but it scares me to death. I like him. I’m scared. I like him. I’m terrified. I like him. I’m afraid. I like him. In the end I didn’t give him his answer until ten days later. I know—pathetic on my part. My friends convinced me, said I might as well try, so I did. I approached him, and said I wanted to talk, about the dating thing, and he said it was fine, I didn’t have to, his friend just made him ask. I told him that I liked him and I wanted to try. I remember how his face lit up—I can’t remember his face though, just how he felt. I told him I was scared of dating, and he said that it was alright, it didn’t have to be serious, and we could take it extremely slow, he suggested a movie, with friends.
We never did have to go on that date, because out of my stupid actions, I called him something, a word he despises beyond all others. I didn’t know that of course and I was kidding—I was still nervous around him and I didn’t think of what I said. It was stupid, so stupid and terribly mean. I picked on him a lot I remember…. But the thing is I only picked on the things I admire about him. He’s hard working, smart, has these beautiful eyes, and this soft hair. I’d always tease him about these things, never realizing to explain my actions.
We got into a mini fight, and then after persuasion of my friends. I broke up with him. I didn’t realize until later that one of the friends who persuaded me had a big crush on him. Also, out of nerves I stopped liking him for a little…. When I realized how much I still did like him, we talked and agreed to try again.
I was always concerned with his interest in my friend though, they flirted a lot it seemed. Some best friend huh?
Anyway, my school was going to a play later. I was excited, hoping maybe he would hold my hand. Nothing happened in the relationship so far, except for once he put his arm around me. I remember venting to my friend about that—until now I realize it was my fault, he didn’t want to push me.
Well at the play we didn’t end up sitting together—but he and my best friend sat next to each other… whispering and giggling the whole time. At intermission I went up to see him, but got embarrassed and claimed I went up to see my friend. When someone else asked if we were dating I got put on the spot and I didn’t really answer. Like I said before, these things terrify me.
I moved back to my spot.
I was a little hurt, confused, and frustrated so I vented to my best friend… because that’s what they were for right? Well I vented to her that maybe it wasn’t going to work out, that I wasn’t ready, maybe I should break up with him… I wasn’t really going to, but it felt good to tell someone that. It made me feel better.
Well it turns out she told him—that I was going to break up with him, and so, not wanting to be broken up with a second time, he broke up with me. Then she asked him out. Same day. Not ten minutes later.
Funny thing—when he broke up with me, I was at the doctors getting anti-anxiety medication. Irony much?
Well I was pretty upset, but I lied and told everyone it didn’t bother me.
I kind of forget what happened in-between. But at one point I learned something: he hated me. I started crying, because at this point, I really had fallen for him. He worked hard no matter what, always smiled, had a love for music, loved animals, he was smart, and funny, and kind—he actually cared about others.
I stayed fallen for a long time.
Not a lot was resolved until this summer, we talked at a party, and we both apologized, and asked if we could still be friends—we were taking art courses together after all.
I worked on getting over him.
We spent three weeks seeing each other at our art camp. I loved it. We laughed, and talked, and teased. It was great, and I thought I had finally gotten over him—but not yet I guess. We became good friends, again.
It wasn’t until he admitted to several of my friends who he liked that I got over him. We’re really good friends, and I trust him more than a lot of people in my school.
It’s kind of stupid right? It took a whole lot of tears, a whole lot of heartbreak, to finally meet a great friend. We’re not best friends; yet, but I plan to be.
Another stupid thing; we’re so young. But I guess my heart didn’t care.
Thanks for reading, sorry it’s long. It felt really great to get this out. No one else would listen.
omg peachesss… such a good read!! it’s so detailed i felt like I was there…witnessing everything that had happened.
hope u dont mind me saying…but your friend…what kind of friend is she??!—im not gonna add more to that coz you know i’ll just say something bad.
This story is so beautiful…im just sad that the relationship didnt quite work out ..but who knows what the future would bring. thanks you for sharing this story..and im sorry i didnt comment much. I got nothing to say..the story was beautiful and inspiring…i read it twice even.
Dont lose hope when it comes to love, you’re still young and you’ll meet new people. Plus dont enter into a relationship just because you’re pressured by friends. And if you feel that you’re not ready for those kinds of things…then dont do it….coz chances are, it wont even work out.
thanks again for sharing:)))
pathwaytothemoon-deactivated201: When I was in fifth grade there was this guy. He was one of those "bad boy" types. For some reason I fell for him. Hard. And it hasn't stopped. I'm going into eighth grade now and we are really close friends. Almost best friends. I tell everyone that I don't like him anymore, but the truth is that I'm stil in love with him. Every year I have to watch him get girl friends who cheat on him with other guys. I just hate seeing him never find a girl who is good enough for him. Sometimes I just wish he would open his eyes and see whats in front of him. He's liked pretty much every one of my friends, except me. I'm getting tired of trying. Should I just give up? Thanks for reading.
i dont know…coz i really dont know hwo this guy’s mind works. maybe he just wants you close beside him forever…and he doesnt want to lose you…maybe friedship is the only way he could keep you in his life. he’s treasuring your friendship so much to risk everything. note that I said “maybe” numerous times)
give up? well…it’s too early to give up (i think) especially because you dont know how he feels. hey he might be secretly inlove with you and he’s just scared to tell you.
“maybe” “maybe” “maybe”
—-sorry for saying this a lot of times…it’s just that I dont really know the whole story and this is the only way I could digest your situation:))) hey talk to me anytime:))
rueberries-deactivated20120519: My seatmate and I started becoming really close friends in 4th grade :) by grade 5, we were being teased by other people that someday we would like each other. By grade 6, we started texting, and only then i realized i liked him. I tried to tell him, but in the end it was awkward, so i told him it was a joke. and he was like "thank god, i still really want to text you" a few weeks ago, he was teased with me again. My friend was like "Admit it. You love her so much that you're just anticipating the day you'd be able to hold her hand and hug her and then someday have kids with her." I was hiding my face, trying not to laugh, and everybody noticed he was blushing. And they were like "Yieeeeeeeeee you really want that to happen, don't you?" He didn't answer, but he was still blushing :) I still talk about it with my friends, and they keep on saying "we honestly think he really likes you :) you should like him back" and I lied saying "Ew. No, he's just a friend" but deep inside, my heart was jumping with joy :)
Lol sorry if this was verrrrryyyy loooonnnggg Ü
nah its fine…awwww this is such a sweeeeet story and thanks for sharing!!!
well, i really hope you guys end up together (lmao am I sounding like your friends?!??!). Always remember that you should like a guy because you like him…not because you are pressured by friends. so take it slow and dont let your friends decide:)) also, dont assume he likes u if it didnt come from the guy himself…you can never be sure:)) anyways, try hanging out and getting to know each other okay? maybe if you get more comfortable with each other the guy will be able to open up with his true feelings for you:))
onyour-kneess-deactivated201208: I just wanna get it out...
So I'm not gonna tell you his name so I'ma call him Voldemort... :p soo okay me and Voldemort were together for a year and 7 mouths I was inlove with him I was really happy with him he treated me like a princess and everything like that we had little fights but it was no big deal.. I thought he would never hurt me but I was wrong :p awhile back he's was texting his old girlfriend behind my back it's wasn't like "hey how are you" kind of text I would of been find with that but it was more like "hey sexy " flirting crap :/ he didn't know I knew I was just grabbing he's phone to take a pic of myself to put it on his background :p (Voldemort had the iPhone) I was about to take a pic but then he got a text I just saw her name and I read what she said.. It said "last week was so much fun ;)" I hear him come out of the bathroom so I just locked the phone and good thing that bitch texted him again cuz he would of knew I look threw his phone that day we were gonna watch a movie at my house but I couldn't look at him cuz in the back of my head I was thinking he's cheating on me and he's lied to me cuz he said he's going to his cousin party that week... He ask me if I was okay cuz I wasn't talking then I said I wasn't feeling that good so he's can leave.. Right before he left he said I love you jazmine and tried to kiss me but I back away from him then he said oh yeah your sick and just walked away... After he left I called my best friend daisy so I can talk about it she said you should ask why is talking to his ex and hanging out with her and all of the stuff so I can dump him. I didn't want to believe what I have read I was scared cuz I was inlove with him and I didn't want to believe he was doing this to me.. A couple days later I caught him again but this time he knew and he told me everything he was cheating on me and that they hooked up on and off again two mouths after we got together.. I just yelled at him and told him to get out of my face I just walked away and he just pulled me back and he put me in his arms and said I'm so sorry Jazmine I'm such a dumbass for doing that I hurt the girl I truly loved I just push him off and ran home crying I just didn't know what to do.. Two day after that he texed me to meet up with him at the park at the spot where always hang out just the two of us so I did when I got there I saw a whole bunch of roses he came out and said can you take me back plz I made the biggest mistake I ever made in my life then he pulled out this note and heart neckless he put the neckless on me.. In the neckless it said "I'm yours 4ever" and the note said how sorry he was that he'll never do it again blah blah.. Voldemort said once again take me back plz and my dumbass did cuz I believe in 2nd chances cuz my mom gave my dad a 2nd one so I believed in it.. Yep me and Voldemort got back together he "never" talked to that bitch again I was happy yay :p Everything was fine no fight or anything but a week before we broke up for good there was this party we both got invited to we went together and he was drinking and he was trying to get me drunk he did it I was drunk enough so he can get in my pants so yeah we had sex I lost it to that fag but the next day I didn't care cuz I loved him and you should do it with the one you loved.. So the day we broke up I got this message from he's ex telling me that he never loved me he just wanted to get it in that he never broke up with her we when started dating that I was wasting my time with him cuz he never wanted me I just stated crying hopping it wasn't true the 1st thing I did I called both of my best friends Nicole and Daisy I told them everything she told they came over and trying make me stop crying I kept calling myself stupid of taking him back.. I called him and told him what the message said and he just hung up on me so I called him back but he didn't pick up the phone so I started crying more and more I didn't stop cuz then I knew it was true i never talked to him again he blocked me on Facebook he never texted me back never did I see him again I was so broken he can't even tell me himself this bitch had to I was so fucking inlove with him I lost my virginity to him my heart was broken so bad I cried for mouths I barely ate at all I just stayed in my room I started cutting myself... Daisy and Nicole help me so much they made me stop cutting myself.. My mom and dad got a divorced made it more worst my mom told me were moving to Vegas I was sad that I was leaving Daisy and Nicole but I said to myself that this is good for me that I should move on with my life and start fresh.. I still have at heart neckless I just don't know what to do with it.. What should I do with it ? (this happend two years ago when i was 15)
Oh now I found the new guy in Vegas hopefully he doesn't hurt me but we're not official :p
about the necklace. throw it out…it doesnt mean anything anymore and it only reminds you of everything that had happened with that guy. if you want to fully move on and cut out everything that’s connected with this guy…well throwing the necklace is one way.
I just feel so overwhelmed about your story…coz theres a lot of bad things that had happened. Im glad that you’re slowly coping up and moving on and I also think that moving out to a new city will help you start a new life.
dont hate yourself for falling for this guy, we’re human, we make mistakes and sometimes we choose the wrong decisions. but what’s good about this is that we learn a little bit more about life. It makes us a little callous. We have our ups and downs in life for a reason…so that we can learn and improve.
Dont rush it with this guy and know him better. Use your past experiences as a guide when you make your decisions in the present.
thanks for sharing!!!
Anonymous: I don't know where to begin. It's actually long story but I'll tell you the current situation. We're far apart. We were in a long distance relationship, we had our ups & downs. I was supposed to go back and see him this summer but I couldn't for some reason. We had fight over FB & he deleted me that time. Then after few 3 months he added me again. He said he missed me & all but I was bitter because it was difficult. Then I found out that I could see him this summer like I said, I hated myself for not keeping my promise to him. I couldn't do anything to see him, I was helpless. I wanted to forget so I deleted him from FB. We didn't talk since May. Until I came across his profile & felt my heart sinking of missing him so much. So 3 days ago I added him again. He accepted. I went through his profile for the past months & saw video posts of songs about breaking up & stuff. I assume it was about us. I guess! I wanna talk to him so bad, I wanna tell him that im truly sorry for what's happening and that I want him in my life but not as a boyfriend now cause it's so hard. I'd do anything for him. Im planning to go to him in the christmas vacation even though Im gonna miss school for a week but Idc, I'd risk it all for him. But Im afraid that he doesn't feel anything towards me. Im afraid it's worth it. I don't want him to feel like Im all over him. But I want him to know how I really feel.
-Thank You x3
I got confused in some parts. How far are you from each other by the way?
I think he’s also having a hard time with your relationship. Having a long distance relationship needs a lot of effort. I can see that he’s still not over you…you said he posts breakup/love songs. it means he’s still affected by you and he still thinks about you, there’s still hope. Just tell him what you told me, that you still have feelings for him, still want him by your side. tell him that you want him but not as a boyfriend…maybe this is what’s best you the two of you. Ask him how he feels about the whole situation..about what you said. Hope that he agrees to it and if he doesnt, well we cant really force him. dont be afraid to tell him how you feel and dont be afraid to ask him what he also feels. this is the only way to know what you can do next.
iamaphilophobic: Here's my story. Okay, so my town has two middle schools, and I went to the bigger one that most kids go to. But when the kids get older, they share the same highschool. So my freshmen year, I had a locker right next to this boy who came from the smaller middle school. I also had a class with this guy. I never said anything to him for the first semester. I had always secretly found him attractive. We started texting, then we started leaving eachother notes in eachother's lockers. Then we started talking about personal stuff, that friends don't really talk about. Well I told him I liked him, and he didn't really give me any input. He got interested in this girl I'd gone to school with my whole life. I do not like this girl. AT ALL. And the closer he got to her, the farther away he got from me. It got to where instead of him texting me first, I'd have to text him first. If I didn't text him, he wouldn't text me at all. Well they started dating at the end of school, and they were together all summer. I decided to delete him right out of my life. I deleted his number, and then I got on Facebook to delete him from my friend's list... and the first post on there said he went from being in a relationship with this girl to being single. Do you think that's a sign? Well I didn't delete him from Facebook, but now I can't text him because I dont have his number anymore. And I don't know what to inbox him, or if I even should. School's starting in about two weeks, and I want this kid to be with me. I wanna be with this kid. He's single, I'm single, and I like him. He used to like me, but I don't know if he does anymore. I'm too nervous to say something to him in person, and I know his locker is gonna be right next to mine this year. What should I do? Do I make conversation? Do I let him go completely? Please lend me some advice, if you get a chance.. I'd be pretty eternally greatful :).
- Caitlin. <3
let him go? why? like you said he’s single..you’re single and he used to like you…there might be a chance. but i think its best not to expect much coz expectations sometimes lead to heartbreak. you definitely should make a convo with him. and just approach him as friends. he just got out in a relationship and you dont want to be that girl that becomes his “replacement” for his ex. so i think its best if you guys start out as friends…and hopefully when you hang out more he’ll start developing feelings for you again…and wo knows what will happen next. so caitlin, when you see him in school (and you’ll definitely will)…just say hi…how are you…and hope that the convo keeps going after that.
oh you asked me if its a sign…idk…maybe it is destiny? (tough im a little doubtful with the whole destiny thing)..only you can say if its destiny or not. if you believe it is…then it is:))) id like to say that the facebook thing is a coincidence…a “really really really fantastic coincidence” …it definitely gave you a chance..an open door…an opportunity…its for you to decide if you’re going to grab it or not.
remember what I said..develop a friendship first:))) thanks for sharing caitlin!!:) <3
Anonymous: Hey miss awesome.
Its been a while since Ive been on your blog, well I have to say that the new theme is really pretty and I love that it is really colorful, definitely love it. Also I wanted to tell you that in the love story thingy I don't know if you remember :p but I was in love with my best guy friend and I really didn't know what to do so you told me to tell him what I felt, and guess what? he is now my boyfriend :) hahah I wanted to say thank because of it wasn't for your advise I would have probably never told him how I felt. Also wanted to know how you were doing, cause everyone here tells you their story and wants advice, but they never really ask you how are you or anything. That kind of annoys me a bit. Anyways love your blog, and the new theme. hahah! Well keep it up, xx.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! im soooooooooooooo happpppyyyyyy forrrr you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM GLAD THINGS WORKED OUT. I wish your bestfriend will treat you right:)) Im really happy hearing these updates:) so thank you so much!
and me? im doing fine:) my friend helped me out with my theme. He basically gave me all the codes and just told me to rearrange everything and change the colors and fonts. anyways…it’s great that u like it.
I originally thought that id be off tumblr this month…im planning to get into this program in my school and for me to get in, i have to pass the exams.im currently studying but I do check my tumblr when im in break. gaaah… im so addicted to tumblr I just cant cross it out on my list…so yeah:))) teeehee.
Im happy for your love life…(just wish I’d have one too…but i guess it’s not one of my priorities as of the moment)
well thanks for this message and congratulationsss!:)))
fresh15: Alright, alright I'm in a super cheesy mood tonight so here's my love story :]]]
So, it was one of my first nights at school and we were at a meeting. Him and his friend were standing behind me making weird noises. I turned around to ask what they were doing and I was instantly interested (mmkay I'm sorry, but I think attraction can play a huge role in a relationship). We talked for a few minutes, nothing special though. The next day I was on my way to class when the same boy caught up with me and started talking to me. Bam. Just like that we were friends. At the time I had a boyfriend so I didn't really want to get too many ideas so I mostly just put off my feelings.
A few weeks later a group of friends and I hiked a mountain. I got to spend 12 hours with this boy and I just knew that we had to be good friends after talking so much and just clicking ya know? We would occasionally hang out though, he was sort of busy with his own friends and I with mine. But when we got to hang out I would get so excited. I finally admitted to myself that I liked him after a. I got really sad when he couldn't hang out with us at a dance one night b. i got jealous of best friend flirting with him and c. after becoming close friends and opening up to him.
My first year at school was really rough and it was so easy to go and talk to this boy because he never judged me and he was always willing to help. He would always flirt with me but then he would say or do one thing that would put doubt in my mind as to his feelings for me. Well, right before Thanksgiving break I broke up with my boyfriend. The separation of Thanksgiving break was actually good because we talked all the time and I definitely knew something was up. After admitting our feelings for each other, we hung out after break and well... the rest is history :]
We are still going strong even though we are away from each other for summer break. In one week I get to go visit him. After that he will be leaving on a two year mission for our church and I won't be able to talk to him other than through letters. I am not sure what will happen but I love him a lot and we both plan on marrying each other if possible when he returns. Two years is a long time so we can't be sure of what the future will hold...
Anyways, thanks for listening and for your amazing blog :]
first of all I agree that attraction plays a role…but after some time.. if you really get to know each other..,that’s when u know if it’s love that you guys feel.
two years!!! congrats!!! i admire how your relationship lasted this long…you have to note that not a lot could reach two years:))) i wish the best for you guys …dont worry about the distance…it will be hard but if you guys are committed to each otther…there wont be any problems…and thanks for sharing!!!
ordinaryeffect: Hey! I submitted the first love story on your life and love story page, and I know you asked me to let you know when he proposed. Well we were chatting via Yahoo WebCam tonight and he asked me to marry him tonight, though he promised to "do it right" when he comes home.
this is justtt so sweet! congratulations in advance!!:)) thanks for the update!
livedreamsfully-deactivated2011: First I just want to say I read these love stories that others have posted a lot and it leaves me in tears because it brings back memories and flashbacks.
I posted before our story but here's an update I guess. Recently, we were the flexing couple and I liked it like that. I didn't feel the need to tell anybody about our "relationship"and I liked keeping it just between me and him. Since it's summer we webcam and we talk for hours just about absolutely nothing. But there are many times when we talk about the future. About me and him getting married one day. Live in a big house and have one daughter (because I want to have a girl) and spoil her with so much love. We haven't talked for 3 days and it's hard. Last time we talked we had a little fight and I guess he might have been in a off mood because for the first time he said he doesn't care. It hurts to think that what we have is just a good laugh to him. I've been in love with him since beginning of the school year and now I'm trying to move on because I don't understand what's going with me and him. I talked to one of my guy friends about him and I told him about this one day he had asked me out. We were in the library and he called me over so i'm like okay whatever so I went to him. He read out from a book something something something beautiful, oh look your name is beside the word beautiful. After a few minutes of trying to explain to me how much he liked me he tried to ask me out. I rejected him with his best friend right beside him and a group of girls were watching (one who liked him). My guy friend told me he must really like you to stick around even after you embarrassed him in front of his friends. I just don't know what to do... because all these memories are haunting me. I can't stop thinking about him because it's been 11 months since I've been in love with him. Since the first day of school I fell in love with him. I just don't understand it anymore and I want to move on but unlike everyone else, no special guy just popped up in my life sharing a special moment with me. I just don't have the luck most girls do. At this point... I don't know if I believe in love anymore. Some love stories end....
that story in the library was sweet by the way:)
dont let this event stop you from believing in love because love doesnt come in your life just once. plus love also comes in other forms. There’s also love that comes from your family and friends.
I agree that some love stories end…but just think of this…if one story ends..another one opens. so dont lose hope on love:)
thanks for sharing. btw.. did u guys officially break up or are you in a “cool off” stage? :))
odikwa-risky: I had the wackiest dream. I can't remember all the details and it kills me . I just looked back in my journal and found it, good thing I wrote it down. Well, my dream started off like this, I was in this martial arts studio, and my Master(Martial arts instructor) was teaching a class. I walked in, put my uniform on and joined in. While working out I hadn't noticed anybody but a guy with a nice smile. But, after the work out and class was done, I saw this guy. I didn't know what his name was but, he has a smile that was unforgettable. He had dimples and the straightest teeth I had ever seen, he was ADORABLE. In my dream, I told him 'I like your dimple' then I smiled and began to walk away but then he caught my arm gently and said 'Hey, I like yours too' and smiled back and I just couldn't help but smiling. I walked away. Then, like the scene changed and we seem to be on this sort of school trip sort of thing, and we were wearing matching jerseys , I think they were Bull's jerseys but we still looked adorable. We were holding hands and laughing , but it sorta seemed too perfect, I was scared the whole time. I mean, I've been hurt before , and like this guy seemed too perfect. No wonder he was only in my dreams. But, I haven't dreamed about him since, maybe that's a sign that I don't know. Maybe I'll have Deja Vu later on? Like, that happens to me sometimes, I meet people in my dreams, then when I don't expect it, I meet them in real life and then I have a Deja BVu moment and I know I've met them in my dreams before. It's kinda weird and difficult to explain sorry LOL. Well, thanks for listening :D
Lmao! whenever I have an awesome dream I’d right it down too! the instant I wake up…I just jot it all down before I forget anything. hahaha
I really dont get detailed dreams like you do… it’s blurry most of the time. sometimes Id dream about somebody…but i couldnt make out the face..all I know is that that person was extremely hot in my dream.
I love that scene changing theme that happened in your dream! dreams are sooo weird …you’re in this place and in a flash …you’re in a different place and the dream “you” isnt even phased with the changes and just blends in with the new environment.
wow! did that really happen? you meet them first in your dream …and meet the real life version of them in real life? wow… i cant believe it!!! but i sure want that to happen in my life too…that’s make me believe. it’s so cool! thanks for sharing:))))