Anonymous: hi!! i just saw this and i think it helps me there's something bothering me..i have a boyfriend pero hindi ko siya ma-feel as in no efforts at all.even a text sobrang minsan lng parang once a week lang hindi ko alam kung dapat ko n b siya ibreak pag sinasabe ng barkada ko n ibreak ko na prang may something na pumipigil sken gwin un.
wag muna magpadalos dalos. na try mo na bang kausapin sya. ang kailangan ay mag heart to heart talk ang couple once in a while. ask him if you both could talk…find a place thats quiet…para walang distractions. be straight to the point and ask him kung baket sya cold. maging honest ka at sabihin mo yung feelings mo…that u think he isnt showing that much effort. give him a chance to explain before you break it off. tell him youre willing to listen.
Anonymous: hey so there is a boy who i met over a weird way online. we talked a lot and fell for each others. one day we had a huge stupid fight, so i told him that it would be better if we won't talk for a while. ofc we didn't do that. but then he said that he afraid to lose me, and told me about a girl who talked to him over a year and one day just didnt get on. i know he miss her n i think he use me to get over her. I'm fucked up coz im rly fell for him. any advices?
first of all, the relationship you have with him is out of the ordinary since it was all online. it may be possible that what you said is true that he used you. if he really did fall for you then no other girl could ever change what he feels. you’ll know that the love is true when nothing can ever steal you way from each other nor break your love. i know what i said is tough to accept but just remember that there are times when we fall..when we hurt…but it’s all part of life…and its what helps us grow. someday you’ll find that guy that will make you understand the true meaning of love…and trust and loyalty:)
Anonymous: Hi Missswesome! There's this guy that I'm head of heels for. We bicker like an old marry coule. When we aren't arguing, he's making me smile or laugh. My friends say we'd be a cute couple but I have no idea. So.. should I make a move? Or what...?
you have to know what the other feels for you. i had that one guy friend before when i was in highschool..everyone thought that we look cute together…that we bicker like lovers. there were times that people mistake us for a couple. i gathered the courage to ask him what we are. that was a point where i was really confused whether he likes me more than a friend would. unfortunately he just thinks of me as a little sister. it hurt of course but i guess it was really worth it to ask him how he feels so i wouldnt have false hopes. because if i waited longer…and fell more deeply for him…it would have hurt me ten times. try to see if he think of you more than a friend. some guys give hints and all…. hope he’s the type of guy that would.
Anonymous: AHHHH! YOU'RE BACK. OMG I MISSED YOUR BLOG. =]
missed u guys too!
having-so-much-to-say: My best friends (guys) and I are in different classrooms. We promissed that no matter what we’d still be best of friends like always, but since yesterday I feel like they don’t want to be with me… It’s so sad. Today they just ignored me all day long. I asked them what is wrong and they told me they thought I was angry at them but I didn’t give them any reasons to think that. And I feel like they don’t want me around any more :(
what made you think that way? maybe they werent ignoring you, and maybe its all just a misunderstanding. To really know whats wrong, its better if you sit with them and have a heartfelt conversation. If you felt that you didnt do anything wrong in the first place, dont be afraid to confront them and just tell them how you feel and know what they feel too. If theyre really your bestfriends, they wouldnt be like that —-leave you hanging one day for no reason/
Anonymous: Can you go through your submissions and asks faster ? I'm really sorry for rushing you i just really need some advice right now D:
not to be rude but im also busy with school. which i think is far more important than tumblr. and im not an advice blog too so i dont stress on it too much. ill get to your message dont worry.
Anonymous: WHERE ARE YOU?!?!?! I miss you so much!! Loooove Johanne, still Norway
misss u tooo! im back:)
Anonymous: hey, i wana share my "bestfriend love" okay well he started talking to me last spring break, and in my school he's like "the cutest" boy, so i was reallll nervous, but actually he was real nice to me(: and then one day i asked him to be my bestfriend (since almost every girl had a boy bestfriend) and he said yes :D and then ever since we got reeeealllllyyyyyy closee , and he's nice, attractive, cute and like amazing.. and then i started liking him, and now im like head over heels over him ^_^ <3
soooo sweeeeet! i remember my bestfriend love too:) hahahha
Anonymous: Aw i was so anxious for you to read my problem and tell me what to do but i guess i'll have to wait :(
sorry for that, u can always submit it:) ill try my best to have a tumblr marathon tomr:)
Anonymous: hi beautiful!!! i really like your blog!! sooo there is my problem : i'm feeling something for a boy who had a girlfriend,and not just a girlfriend,but THE girlfriend,because they are togheter since 2007 XD BUT,now he is always looking for me,he talks to me on fb and when our eyes met i know he is feeling something. I will let him go ,but i feel something strong,a connection between us. And i know he is feeling the same as me. what would you do? xo
doesnt matter how connected you feel with him. especially if he didnt confess anything to you. fact is he is with someone right now and if he really likes you he would leave his girlfriend, but thats not the case right? its better not to get involved with a guy thats in a commitment because if u put yourself in his girlfriend shoes, u wouldnt want that to happen too:)
Anonymous: How long does it take for you to read and give advices ?
not sure… i just came back…and i got like 200 messages in my inbox..it might take some time:/
urmynemo: i love your blog :) ❤ you post some of my current hidden feelings.
Update on my love story:
I posted my love story a while back, on our one year anniversary. I said I wonder how many precious 365 days will we still go through. I now have the answer. No more than that one.
We broke up because of “reality”, that in reality we can never stay together because his parents would never let him marry a non muslim non indian girl. Because our cultural differences we fight and have different perspective.
But no matter what reason caused our break up, it hurts. It hurts so much, to try to let go but not be able to. It hurts having to see him in school still, having to work with him. Pretending like nothing happened, like we’re still friends so that other people dont feel awkward. It hurts. It’s like a part of me is missing. It’s like I’m all alone in this world.
People keep telling me to move on, but what they fail to understand is that I’m trying. I am, but I can’t.
Apparently things will get better, apparently things will be okay. And I know that, one day, one day I just might be okay again. But right now, right this moment, nothing’s okay. Nothing’s alright.
All I can do is sit here and cry, day after day after day. And I can’t stop myself, the tears just keep falling and falling. I know its stupid, but I just cannot control myself.
Love hurts so much. And yet, if you let me pick all over again, I would still have dated him. I would still have chosen the exact same path.
iamjustasilhouettetoyou-deactiv: I really think your blog is truly amazing:) Best tumblr EVER! Your blog always makes me feel happy when I'm a little bit sad,And I really don't know why,but I know that I LOVE your blog! You're amazing,Anne. You're amazing at giving advices, at having a really awesome blog, and you're amazing at making my day:) Wish you well!
Anonymous: I understand you're not an advice blog, but if you could help I would greatly appreciate it, if not thank you for listening anyways :)
Well two of my best friends always end up putting me in the middle of all of their arguements and I'm tired of it. And I'm in the middle of a kinda big one right now. friend #1 used to like this boy and had a thing with him, but it didnt work out, and she wasnt particularly upset about it. friend #2 is good friends with this boy. one day this boy kissed friend #2 and took her out, they hung out a few times and made out. then boy texted her saying that he couldnt do this anymore because she used to date his best friend (even though that was 4 years ago and they didnt date for that long and they've both moved on) anyways, friend #2 now really likes this boy but doesnt want to tell friend #1 because #1 always hates the guys that #2 likes because shes over protective, and #2 was especially afraid to tell her because #1 had a thing with this boy.
so one day friend #2's phone went off but she was upstairs so #1 got it for her and saw it was a text from another friend and it was all about how #2 liked this boy. #1 got really mad, not because she likes this boy but because #2 didnt tell her about it, because #2 always keeps that stuff a secret from #1 because #1 hates and is mean to all the boys that #2 likes. #1 starts complaining to me about it and doesnt know that i already know, and i cant say anything to her otherwise #2 will get really mad at me.
and the next day #2 asked me if #1 was mad at her and i said yes because you didnt tell her that you liked this boy and she found out because she saw it in one of your texts, so then #2 got mad at #1 for invading her privacy. and now they're both mad at each other, but #2 isnt supposed to know that #1 is mad at her, but #2 got mad at #1 for invading her privacy but #1 doesnt know that #2 knows she saw the texts. so #2 told #1 to give her concert ticket to me since she didnt wanna go with #1 because shes mad at her and #1 doesnt understand why shes mad, since #1 doesnt know that #2 knows that #1 read her texts. and they're both calling me complaining about each other and asking me if i know things and to explain things and i cant really do anything or say anything because if i say one wrong thing they'll both be mad at me, when none of this is my fault.
I'm so sorry that all of that is so confusing, i'll understand if you dont understand it (haha) but do you have any idea of what i should do?
sorry for the late reply….its best if u dont get involved with them. its better if u let them solve it…i guess the only way u can help is for all of u guys to sit down and have a heart to heart talk. sometimes friends argue because of misunderstandings so its better to just talk it out, behonest and hear each others sides