Anonymous (email@example.com) submitted:
Well, there is this guy in my class and I love him since 2-3 years already. At first he was with many girls and he also told me he liked me (I mean, he told me I was pretty, funny, nice and stuff), but that is ca. 2 years ago now so I don’t think he still thinks that. But well, we got really good friends and he told me many things like one time he told me he was in love with a girl he didn’t see for 2 years or so and he told me a lot about her and I was kinda “helping” him .. (but now he’s not in love with her anymore)
And also there was this girl, she was kinda mean to me and once me, my friends and him talked and when one of my friends asked if we like that girl he said no and they asked like why and he was like “cause she’s mean to ..” (me)
So well, he told me lots of stuff and we were very good friends and stuff but I loved him. Actually once I even sent him an e-mail saying “I love you” but he didn’t ever talked about that. (And it was about half a year after I met him, so ..)
Well, all in all I really helped him a lot, talked to him when he needed somebody and stuff but he hurted me a lot too. But also he told some one who told one of my friends that he likes me. (Not that long time ago)
Okay, now I’m still in love with him but we don’t really talk and it’s not like before that he tells me about his problems and he also told some of his friends he’s not in love with any one right now but he’s really nice to me and once there was this party and you could play games and stuff and he invited me to play with him and his friends ..
I’m really scared to tell him ‘cause first I’m scared he doesn’t like me back and second I’m scared it’ll get us apart or something .. actually I want to tell him but I don’t even know how ‘cause I’m very shy and stuff ..
But (sorry, it’s getting kinda long :D) I have good grades in school so many people only like me because of that but he gives me the feeling like I’m great not because of my good grades but because of myself .. (‘cause he asked me something in homework and then suddenly he just said “oh, doesn’t matter, ” and then started another topic)
Well, that was my story and I don’t know if a story like that could get any advice but I just wanted to share and maybe you have an advice anyway? ;D
(And sorry for being so unorganized in this text :D)
Uh, yes, I just wondered what country you come from? ;D
Heymissawesome: Im from the Philippines:)
Well a bit of advice, since youre shy and a bit worried about the outcome when you, its better to just hang out with this guy first. I know you know and love him for three years, but you didnt really give me enough details to know the kind of relationship you have with him. DO you hang a lot nowadays. He obviously sees you as a trustworthy person because he’s able to open up. Im just afraid that you are friendzoned with him. One, you said i love u and he didnt even reply even if he had the chance to. I know your friend told u he likes you but how do you know it for sure when he didnt really tell you directly. its better to hear it personally than from other people. SO hang out with him first try to see if he;s dropping big hints. Some guys flirt and its obvious. DOes he do sweet stuff with you?
Anyways keep me updated.
Anonymous: how long did it take before fuckyeahcutecouples posted your pic you submitted?
I submitted it two days ago:))
PERSONAL/RANDOM/ADVICE QUESTIONS FOR ME? kEEP IT SHORT.
IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY CHEM CRAMMING SESSION. Hit me up.:)
I’ll probably reply after my exams/
Anonymous: So i've been talking to this guy whose 2 years older than me for about 5 months. We know we really like each other and we pretty much do things like a couple. But he still hasn't asked me out. He says its because he got hurt in his last relationship that ended cause the girl cheated on him. And i try my best to prove to him i won't do that but he's so protective of his feelings he doesn't open up a lot and doesn't give me chances to show him that i care. How do i get him to open up?
The best thing is for you to open up to him. He probably trusts you, but not to the point where he’s willing to get out of his comfort zone. So, if you open up to him and get out of your comfort zone, then he will, or should, see that you trust him very much and that he should trust you too. But this doesn’t mean for you to just go and tell him very personal things out of the blue. And you also need time. Five months may seem like a lot, but it may take longer for his wound to heal. And obviously just be a really good person.
—Bryan (HMA’s friend)
Anonymous: You're Beautiful
I think everyone is beautiful. Everyone has their unique beauty:)
Some people will fail to see the beauty in a person…i call them blind.
Beauty isnt all about the outside appearances. It’s how people carry themselves.It’s also what’s inside…yes cheesy as it sounds…its how pure their hearts are. If a person is good in the inside…it radiates:)
Thanks for the compliment…youre beautiful too:)
[me? when i disappoint someone]
[bf told me]
Anonymous: Having a few arguments in a relationship is healthy right?
dpends on the things you argue about…coz some things arent worth arguing and you’ll only realize that after.its the time you look back and think…shit…i shouldnt have done that.
prinsesangmgamanhid: Hi po ;)) i let writting in tagalog ah? Hehe mahina po sa english eh. Amh eto po umamin po ako sa isang torpe na mahal ko siya tanggap niya naman yung pag mamahal ko sa kanya kaso friends lng daw kami kase masyado pa raw akong bata at mag aral muna daw ako. Ipag papatuloy ko paba yung nararamdaman ko saknya or i'll just go for the move on???
ang question ba..kaya mo bang maghintay? kung feel mo…try mo muna na mag hold on…prove na wala ka talagang pag asa sa kanya before ka mag let go. this period is called the “last stand”…parang xmen! hahaha para lng masabi mo na talaga na you fought for your love…at walang regrets for sure. of course is hard and its possible to get more hurt…kaya nga mga matitibay na loob lng ang willing na mag try nito. pero malay mo…baka mahulog din sya sa yo…o baka naman sa sobrang torpe nya nahihiya lng syang umamin and he just needs time.:)
You know there’s a “thing” in my school which I won’t say “it’s” name, so everyone hates her and she believes she is the best but she is… well… in a non offensive thing… she is a left 0… So the one day I saw her profile pic (which I think it was for me) and it was a black mark pic (you know the one that is like and image and then a big text and then down a little description) well, it said:
Jealous? Feeling Envy?
-YOU know why? Because I’m SO horny, people love me and I’m a better person than you GURL!
And then I was like JElous? Feeling Envy? ME? Of YOU? Ha’ tell me where over pluto where “things” of your type are considered NORMAL.
Never get along with “things” like that, we have to be nice with the most needed ones and it seems not only with money but REAL love and NOT IMAGINARY friends ;) …
dont be bothered by her. as a matter of fact dont even mind her…coz if she sees that nobody cares…she’ll stop and realize that no body gets affected of whatever she is doing.
Anonymous: Okay so there is this guy at my school, he's my best friends ex. She's trying to get us together and I really like him. We've been talking a lot, and he calls me beautiful and adorable and such. I don't know what to do cause I REALLY like him, I mean we have a LOT in common and someone please help me.
If your bestfriend gives you her blessigns then try it out. A date is a first:) it seems like he is interested in you too:) so…tell me how it goes:)