Anonymous: HEYMISSAWESOME i also wana say you can put some sayings about *LIFE* because its what we live for;) well loving on ur blog =) keep on posting x x x brOnii x x x
thanks bronii:)) I will!
Anonymous: Dear Miss Awesome, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now (2 years in June). Last summer he gave me 4 days notice. He moved down there and we had a bad summer. To help with our relationship, my parents agreed to let him live with us. He moved in, in November and things have gotten ok to bad to ok from then. I have a chronic conditohe doesn't seem to understand. I don't know what to do. Do we need a break from each other or simply end it?
I know others are afraid to go on a “break” in their relationship. They fear that the other person might realize that being without the other is better. But having a break is also a chance for you guys to just think about your relationship…reflect whether its worth continuing or not. It’s healthy to have a break because it gives us time to realize things. you know the saying… “you’ll realize how much they mean to you when you lose them?” Well this saying applies to this situation. So have a break first. Me and my Bou would have breaks when we see that things are getting a little rocky. Our breaks wouldnt even last a day but still… it helps us first to calm down and second to realize how important the other is in our lives.
m1lk-b0ttl3s: Hey, i know it says this isnt an advice blog, but i just wanted to know if you could tell me what you would do in my situation? I get up everyday looking forward to going into school to see my crush ;$! Cheesy or whutt? haha, anyway hes in a few of my classes and sits right infront of me in one. We talk quite a bit and i dont know if telling him I like him would ruin things, what would you do?<3
HMM…not cheesy! it’s cute…he inspires you. I dont know if saying I like you directly could help you. Maybe be his friend frist and try to hang out with him. Get to know him and let him get to know you and how awesome you are, maybe drop lil hints here and there..in that way when you say those three lil words you’ll get a better chance of hearing it back.
Anonymous: Question. It might be a dumb question, but I want to hear someone's opinion :) Ok so what are the "benefits" in a friends with benefits relationship? and what's the different between that and friends who have known each other for a while but are currently dating but not boyfriend/girlfriend?
IDK what exactly friends with benefits means…especially the “benefits” part. MAYBE MY FOLLOWERS KNOWS. In my own opinion benefits are sexually related. And I think what youre currently in right now is the “dating” stage in a relationship.
Anonymous: I really like my friend bu he lives extremely far away. He likes me as well. We'll be seeing each other next summer and I don't know what to do. Should I express myself then or right before I go or now? We met a month or so ago and no I'm not in love with him but I could see myself dating him in the future. I just really need your help. What should I do!
Think first of the events that might happen after you say “I like you”….think of the things you are EXPECTING out of it. DO you expect to just say it and thats it…or do you expect him to say i like you back. Do you want to have something official from him or youre just saying it just so you can express yourself. You also have to take into consideration that he lives so far away and a relationship to work in those kinds of conditions take so much effort.
Anonymous: i like a certain guy, he knows i like him, and i thought this thing will go somewhere than a wasted hope coz it seems he likes me too. but then, i started having this feeling in my gut that he really doesn't like me. i just found out today that he has communication again with his ex girl who cheated on him. and i wanna break down. i was ready for this, but i'm still hurting. sorry, i just want someone to tell this shit. i can't believe i let myself like him in the first place. :(
I understand the hurt you feel. But just because he has a class with his ex girlfriend doesnt mean that they will automatically be together again. Hope is still there. Also you’re not officially together so whatever he does…he can do. If it’s true what you said that you guys like each other …then just continue being that way…continue going out and all. If you have a chance and the courage to ask him where you stand in his life. DO IT. You have to know where you place in his heart…whether he likes you only as a friend or if you guys have a future beyond friendship.
Anonymous: My friend introduced me to this guy we really hit it off, but when we went for a vacation my phone did not really got much reception so i didnt text him that much, when I returned after a week I found out that him and my bestfriend are already a couple, they didnt last very long but now i dont know, if i can still trust my EXbestfriend with boys. PLEASE HELP ME but honestly after one week of courtship your already a couple?
woah! for me that is just so messed up! I mean your bestfriend knows that you and this guy have a thing together…and she shouldnt have done that. Try talking to your bestfriend though and seek for an explanation..give her a chance to explain coz maybe you can still save the friendship a little. About this guy, he knows theres a thing going on between you and him…and for him to go out with your bestfriend(i mean it would be better if it was another girl) …i dont think he’s a decent guy to be with. coz if he was he would have known that this could hurt you.
Anonymous: Before ako umamin, super close na namin. We belong to the same circle of friends. Sobrang close. Like, we do almost everything together. Kahit yung simpleng sagot sa quiz, pagtutulungan pa namin. Nung umamin ako, naglakas loob na rin akong tanungin kung hanggang dun lang kami. He said, "Yes." Hindi daw bilog ang bola pag dating saming dalawa. Sakit nun, honestly. Then sabi niya, we started out daw as good friends. And ayaw niya masira yun. Yooon. </3
omg kakarelate ako ng sobra. nangyari na kasi yan sa akin eh. well keep him as friend muna…malay mo baka slow lng sya..baka sa future nya pa ma realize na nahuhulog na sya syu… sana lang di pa huli.
Anonymous: heyyy, can you please answer this :) well this guy asked me out for my school dance, and i havent seen that guy for about 2-3 years and i think he liked me then, now i think i like him. I see him every morning, and we've talked a bit, it seems like he kinda remebers me cos we used to be good friends in primary school. But now what should I do? We are both pretty shy, how do I know if he still likes me? What should I do? HELP!
He asked you out! which means he is interested in you. the way to know if he likes you is to hang out with him…he might drop some hints..thats how u know.
Anonymous: my bf tried to get a girl 2 go 2 his house with him when i asked was it true he said no at first but then he later on he said hed i like him sooo much i dnt want 2 leave him what shuld i do
well if he is a decent guy he wouldnt even do that in the first place. I see two mistakes here. One, he invited a girl to his house..second he kept it a secret. The fact that he kept it a secret means he had some kind of intentions. For him to keep it a secret means that he is afraid of you knowing this because it’s not a casual meet up with that girl. IDk what they did or why he did it but girl you have to start thinking if this guy is really worth it.
Anonymous: Hi uhm i just wanted your opinion on something. Is it weird if I decide to wear like a sundress or just a casual dress to an amusement park?
NO!!! Well if youre not planning to go on roller coasters …then it’s fine. But if you’re main goal to go there is for the rides then wear something comfortable. Sundress is good especially if youre there for a photo op.
Anonymous: Please post this. I want everybody to know, that being SINGLE totally ROCKS. because you have more time for yourself and you won't be guilty or feel bad about yourself if you didn't do your responsibility well, because it isn't YOUR responsibility in the first place. And being SINGLE is so much fun, you can flirt and flirt and flirt some more without someone being jealous.
yeah!! TOTALLY AGREE. HIGHSCHOOL - COLLEGE is time to party..meet new people and mingle. Its the time when we actually try to find ourselves..now how are we going to do that if were in a relationship right?Party hard!! Reserve all the “serious” relationship when its time to get married —when we’ve fully found ourselves…when we’ve already accomplished our goals and we know for sure that we’re ready. Less heartbreak too! hahaha
P.s. im done looking for myself. im ready for a serious relationship and im actually going to marry the guy im with:)) soon!Our parents already met and all..just waiting for perfect moment:)
Anonymous: Heyy there. I just wanna ask what I should do. I mean, I miss someone so bad. And I also miss who were before. I think we've changed. And since you speak tagalog, yuh, here. Ako kase yung umamin. Syempre, lalaki sya, ako babae, parang nakakahiya. Pero hindi ko na inisip yon. Honesty nalang. Haha. Ta's the time na umamin ako, parang it took up all the courage in me. Feeling ko tuloy, I'm so weak. Ohsodrama. So yun. I think after nun, mejo nagkabarrier. And now I miss him~ :) Thank uh? :)
wag mong sabihing weak ka… it took courage nga diba to confess. At sa panahon ngayun…di na uso yung lalake yung unang umamin. eh ako nga.. AKO YUNG UMAMIN. La akong pake… basta alam ko na kailangan ko talaga ilabas at aminin… at para sa kanya…take it or leave it nalang. Advice ko sayo.. well first of all gusto ko sanang malaman if besties kayo kasi ibang usapan yan. well if not and simply magkakilala lng kayu…close friends kung baga. Baka medyo nabigla lng si lalake dahil di nya inexpect. Ano ba sabi nya after? may reply ba?
Anonymous: uhmm I just need to get this out of my system since it's been bugging me for so long now. When I was in 6th grade I had a crush with this guy but he just played with my heart. And then when we were in our freshmen year in high school I lost all my feelings for him but at the end of the school year, my feeling came back for him again. It's like I completely hate him for a couple of months and then I would like him again. And the most frustrating thing is that he doesn't like me. help me please?
Your young and you shouldnt just stick with one guy. Maybe you havent moved on fully yet. Note that this guy broke your heart…you need to help yourself realize that it is never worth it to push oneself into someone who doesnt even like you. It’s like forcing a block inside a small circular jar..it doesnt fit. Theres billions of guy in the world. free yourself..your heart from this guy so you can have space for a new person in your life.