nextlevelbj: Im proud to be your friend :D Love the page :D
Im publishing this message coz I rarely get messages from you!!
I MISS YOU benjjjj!
ps.hows korea? hope youre having fun…san.u ka mapuli???:)
Anonymous: oh ahha how the survive in HS. im gunna get bullied. im gunna die. : (
who’s bullying you and in what way? (there are numerous ways that people bully)…is it physically or emotionally?
are they your friends? how are you acquainted with them?
how are you bullied? are you called certain names, do they play pranks on you?
i kind of need details coz what you said is too vague. and if you want…u dont have to send this message anonymously. you can just tell me if you want me to reply privately coz I will. but if you want to stay anonymous…I also dont mind:)
Anonymous: hi. So it was my bday on friday and this guy , who im not really sure if i like him, posts on my wall. He said "Happy birthday _____ <3" (put my name in that space lol) and then when i went to message him on fb he didnt answer me :/ but he was online. im trying to figure out how he feels towards me. i know this sounds like not a lot of info but he wrote a <3 and then didn't answer...
he didnt reply?
well, there might be numerous reasons that could explain why he wasnt able to reply. he might be busy or he wasnt able to see his notifs. maybe his fb was open but he wasnt using it. Im always OL in my fb but Im actually not using it most times…the tab may just be open or…it’s open in my phone.
What did you say in the message?
maybe one reason why he wasnt able to reply was because of the question you asked him. idk what you asked him so my advice may not be to the point. maybe this guy doesnt know how to answer the quesion you asked…maybe it required more “thinking time” befire replying.
<3 <3 <3 —-> this symbol is so deceiving. Sometimes people use it casually…like the smiley :). so dont expect and assume that when a person puts a <3 sign …it automatically means that they ar einlove with you.
I dont know the story about you and this guy. you didnt tell me who this guy is in your life. so i dont really know what to say…or what advice to give you. who is he in your life? friend? bestfriend? suitor? or just a random guy online? …so thats my question…it would be nice if you update me..if you dont mind:) hahaha. I get new anon messages everyday so make sure I can distinguish you from them. thank you!:))
vanity-yeah: You are such an amazing person, listener,and advicer :D
You always have the right words and make us feel so much better.. You're Awesome <3
thanks JUlio! it’s always nice getting messages from you:)) thanks again:))
Anonymous: did anyone ever shared you a story about the death of their bf/gf?
here in tumblr? not yet…but a friend of mine once shared a story like that. its both heartbreaking and inspiring(inspiring because of how that person coped up with his struggles). if you have a story like this…feel free to share.
Anonymous: can you help me?
depends..i dont even know what you need help with haha:)
Any “falling-for-a-bestfriend” stories out there? Im eager to read some of them:))
dracarys-in-the-tardis: So, me and this guy.
He was my boyfriend. Note the past tense. Was. Until recently.
The 'spark' seemed to have left, and honestly, there were many things which led to the break up. He was in his last year of high school, and with exams coming up so soon, he didn't have the time to come see me often, especially as I live approx. 45min-1 hour away from him. He says he still cares about me, and that nothing will change, except for the fact that I'll be his 'little sister' instead of 'girlfriend'. He says I can still approach him for anything, and that he hopes we can stay really good friends. The thing is. I still love him. No matter how many promises he broke when he gave up on us. And I really want to be there for him, but right now, I just think I need some time away, just to...I don't know, clear my head. To make sure that I understand that we're just 'friends' now. But I'm afraid of his reaction when I tell him. He's been hurt many times, and I'm scared that maybe my asking for some time out will make him misinterpret it as me leaving him, breaking his trust. What shall I do?
why would he think that way? you respected his decision to just stay as friends…he should also respect your decision that you need time away to think things through. plus i really need you need this time to full get over him. if you tell him the real reason of why you’re having this time off …for sure he will understand it. as long as he knows the intentions of why you;re going away…he will respect it. this is for the best…this time away would even help you and this guy. like u said its a time away to make u understand that you’re just friends. so this time away will benefit the both of you. just tell him the real reason so he wont misinterpret it for sure:)
Anonymous: Hi! I'm Sam.
There's this guy kasi, he likes me, and i kinda like him too. He's afraid to court me, kasi daw baka mabusted sya. And me, I'm afraid to give him a chance kasi, dati, he tried to court me, to make her girlfriend jealous, and for me, it hurts, kasi nagustuhan ko sya non, though, he asked sorry, for me, it's still not enough. But now, why like this? i like him. Pero I'm afraid he'll repeat the same thing again, kasi kakabreak lang nya sa long time girlfriend nya.. can you help me? Answer Back ASAP Please!!!!! :)
ay sorry kakarep ko lng sam:)
eh nagkakagustuhan naman pala kayo so i dont think theres any problem there. peroo since may history na nangyari sa inyo…he used u to make he gf jealous… cguru give time muna na maging friends kayu. ligaw ligaw muna…wag muna mag enter in a relationship with him. kung sincere naman sya sayu ma uunderstand nya kung baket hanggang ligaw muna sya. give him a chance..(but if he hurts you again…then that’s a different case).
ligaw ligaw muna para malaman mo if sincere and honest sya sa mga intentions nya…and through this malalamamn mo kung seryoso sya sa love nya sayo…malalaman mo din if ginagamit ka nya or not. so yeah give him a chance to prove himself to u…and if it turns out that he’s using you…then dump him coz he’s not worth it especially if he will fool you twice.:)
mischatherabbit-deactivated2011: I absolutely love your blog.
I can't express to you how much it's helped me, and it's incredible how easily your posts can brighten my day. Thanks for that :)
Oh gosh Candace:) thanks a lot:))) well these messages really brightens my day:)))
i met this girl on facebook and i really liked her. we hung out a couple times and we were good friends. and then one day she told me she lliked me. (which i thought was akward because i am a girl) then i started getting weird feeliings everytime im around her, like butterflies, dizziness and such. Then i figured out i am bi-sexual. i dont want to keep hiding in the shadows about my sexual orientation. my mom knows but my dad doesnt. i want to let my dad know but he is christatian. (sorry if i cant spell i just woke up) and im scared he will think different of me. i have been dating this girl for 3 years now.
i think it’s really important to tell your feelings and the people close to you of who you really are. if you told your dad, of course he’ll be shocked…he’ll be a little upset at first but it’ll pass…and he will accept you. you’re his daughter…his family. and I dont think any dad could stand being mad at his daughter. plus like you said…he’s a christian. We have a forgiving and merciful God:) you’re dad will accept you too:))
towinmylove-deactivated20130123: Hey missawesome, I'm in a situation where I'm confused and don't know what to do. I recently found out that a familiar friend is trying to come between my boyfriend and me. I haven't meet this girl since December and I don't have any problems with her. But she doesn't like me since I know 4 sure that she is in love with my boyfriend, and that might be the reason why she is trying to break us apart. I've heard all this from my boyfriend. The confusing part is that my bf asked me too be nicer to her. Like if that would help anything!! + if we go 2 years back in the past this girl and some other tried to break us apart when my bf and I just were friend, and they managed but after the summer holiday we became friends again.
Why am I supposed to be nicer to her when she tried several times to break us apart?
I hope you understood everything, and that u can give me some advice or your thoughts about this!
Love Maria :)
it is your decision …but if you dont really want to be nice and make friends with her…dont. Be true to yourself..dont pretend to be nice when you dont really feel like it. but im not saying that you should start a fight with her. :))
what does your boyfriend feel about her? do you feel that the boyfriend has some sort of feelings toward her? if he doesnt then there’s nothing to worry about. what this girl feels doesnt matter. what matters if what your boyfriend feels. if he says you’re the one he loves and if you think he is loyal and committed to what you guys have then i dont think any ordinary girl can break you apart. I understand what you feel…but like I said if you got a good guy as a bf…then u dont need to worry:)
Anonymous: When I was in the 6th grade I was dating a guy in my homeroom. We went on a date to the mall and we met up with his friends. So I met 3 guys that seemed like really nice people. One was the most adorable guy I had ever met. It was like love at first sight. So 2 days later I broke up with the guy I was dating to talk to the guy I met at the mall that was one of his friends. So we talked for about a month and got to know each other really well. And we started dating. We had gone out for almost like 6 months. And then it was summer and we wouldn't be able to last. So we came back in the 7th grade and I saw him in the locker rows and he asked e back out to see if we could last the school year. 5 days into our relationship he said that he did't think we would be able to last. So I locked myself in my room for the weekend and cried. So I was so hurt that if he asked me out again I would say yes in a heartbeat. He saw me again at school 4 days later and asked me back out again. So I said yes. We went out for about 2 weeks and I truly loved this guy but I didn't want to get hurt again so I broke up with him. He was so upset he shaved all of his flow off and stared at me in lunch and after school and would stop by my house. Then I realized I needed him so I said I was willing to give it another shot. That's when I realized it was a game to him. When we sat at lunch he would stare at one of my best friends. And about 10 days later he broke up with me. She didn't even ask me if it bothered if she said yes. so about 2 weeks after they started going out he broke up with her and started following me all around school. And then I realized I was his rebound. And when we would break up he would go tell people that I was a bossy bitch and saying he regrets that he went out with me. So that's how it was the whole 7th grade. I would fall for EVERYTHING he said. We started going out the beginning of this summer again. And he came by my house everyday. That's when I found out he was going to other girls houses before and after he was at my house. So we broke up. Our relationship is on and off. And I truly love him and it hurts me to say that cause of all of the hell he has put me through. My parents forbid me to talk to him. But they never blocked his number from my phone. And his whole goal is to hurt me all the time. So, I text him the other day at like 3 in the morning and we had a long random conversation. And at the end of the conversation he said Will you go out with me? And I couldn't say no. And he knew that, He wanted to destroy me. So he text me back and said Opps sorry wrong person. Knowing that I would like break down. And I'm friends with about all of his friends. They all say he always says Oh fuck her and shes such a bitch. But I can't help but not still fall for him and I don't know what to do..
It seems like your relationship with this guy is a roller coaster…no offense it seems like you’re hurt most of the time..which is kind of a signal that this relationship is unhealthy. You said it yourself that uoi know that this guy “wanted to destroy” you… you think that “his goal is to hurt” you…and that he had put u through hell. isnt it time to think wether or not this guy is really worth it? in my opinion he isnt. I know you love him deeply but you’re starting to look “pitiful” —>okay this is mean to say …i dont know other words that could describe the situation..im still learning english so my vocabs are limited.
You see this guy…i think he’s getting used to you forgiving him all the time..he is used of the fact that you always fall for him so he thinks that he could get away with everything that he does to you. He hurts you numerous times because he knows that you;ll forgive him in the future. you guys are on and off…im not saying that this is a bad thing because in some cases it is…but in your case…the guy seems like he’s fooling you. My judgement is based on your story. You deserveee sooooo much better than what you’re getting from this guy right now. It’s time to shut him out in your life…coz if you dont im afraid that he’ll get used to hurting you.
well, it’s your choice as to whether you heed my advice. I just dont think someone who wants to “destroy” you is worth the love you give him.:)))
Anonymous: You promote?
Do reply to all your messages?
How many followers you have?
-Yes on fridays. Promo4Promo.
p.s. you have to send me the request on friday. I’ll promote on friday night 11pm…after that I wont accept anymore request. k?
-Yes but I dont reply right away…only when I have time. Especially if the messenger is asking for advice. If it’s a casual Hi hello kind of thing…which requires shorter replies…yesh I might reply right away.
-Uh who cares? hahaha kidding! well I know about 20 “real” followers…you know..those who talk to me and try to get to know me. so I guess 20! hahaha:)