aangiemerida2: hey anne! how are you. I need a favor, can I ask you some advice? If yes, can I tell some of the backgrounds of the story? :)
--it happens that when I was in 1st yr. highschool, I have a boy classmate that all of the girls like. For me seeing him is just only like a simple person, I dont even talk to him even though he is one of my classmates. But then time past, everyday were both texting each other and i do remember that he gave me a gift in our Christmas party (its a pillow and it's written with "you're special") and i know that all the girls that has a crush on him he gave also a gift but it was only a small bear keychain and he told me that Iam the only one he gave that big pillow :))). then last January 1, we became bestfriends.Iam very happy because that was the first time that I have a boy bestfriend in my life ^_^. Then I think I just fall for him & I can't help it. So it's hard for me falling inlove with my bestfriend because I know that he likes someone else, and it hurts alot. I just told this to my one closes friend and she told me that I should tell to my boy bestfriend that Im inlove with him, and im hurt because that's what I feel & and maybe he just fall for me but he is just shy to express it. Then I told it him and he said that "Woah. Thanks I do appreciate what you feel. Im sorry best if you are hurt. Please smile for me :)" Then after that my friend just texted him and ask if he likes me and he said that " were just only BESTFIREND" my friend ask him again if maybe just a little he likes me and he reply "No, just only BESTFRIEND" so my friend told me these things. And Im so hurt after knowing it and I tell to myself that I've shouldn't tell him what I fell and I should better shut my mouth close. But it is already finished, I already did it. So i should decide to stop falling inlove with him so I wont feel the hurt but then I cant help it, whatever I do im so inlove with him and I dont know why.
--can you please help me out with this kind of situation. I really need your advice. Please help me.. Thank you for your concern :) Take care. God Bless ^_^
before i give you my opinion, let me tell you how ive gone trhough a similar situation.
I also have a bestfriend…. a bestfriend ive liked for four years. we had a “thing” last year but i blew it…coz i was STUPID at that time. and right now, my feelings for him seems to be rushing back. I have this other friend…who i guess we could call “the bridge” and she asked my bestfriend what he thought of me. and he said ANNE IS JUST MY BESTFRIEND…I DONT REALLY SEE ME IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. SHE’S LIKE…ONE OF THE GUYS. i was devastated! and i didnt know how to face him the next day. i had to keep it cool and pretend i didnt know a thing about what he said. after pouring out my tears during a warm hot shower, ive collected all my feelings and decided…TO MOVE ON AND GET ON WITH LIFE.
and that’s what i’ll tell you, move on. there’s no point to continue especially when he told you that you’re just a friend. I admire your courage for confessing. Though the outcome isnt really what you wanted, at least you know the truth, and atleast you can move on with your life without wondering “what if.”
it will take time to move on , but you’ll eventually get there:)
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