s0fly-s0high submitted:

Hi, i really need some help. So theres this guy, that I am crazy about. I was with my friend and he was at a party, didn’t meet him or anything but added us on facebook, then we went on skype and he was like perfect, nice, cute, everything, and he was the kind of guy i could imagine being with. 

My ex-best friend asked why i was so crazy about him, and then i told her that i liked him, and then she freaked out and said that she was almost dating him. I was torn, and then a couple of days later i wrote to my crush that she dates like 5 guys at once (which she does!!) and then a little after that she said she didn’t want to date him. I asked him if he still liked her and he said a little… 

I really like him, and theres a party soon, but hes not coming. So I was thinking of sending a song to him, but I don’t know if he would ever have the same feelings about me? Or should I wait for 2 months and see him at the party?

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HMA:

First of all everything that had happened between your crush and your exbestfriend are all in the past and you dont need to worry about that…especially that your friend didnt want to date him. 

So if you have any plans to “make a move” go for it. I dont know what kind of friendship you have with this guy but if its something deeper than ordinary. But  I think sending him a song is a bit too much. Just go hang out first and just confess to him with ease..dont rush coz you might give him a shock. Hang out and have a casual conversation and then just tell him how you feel about him. But be prepared coz u dont know his reply. its better not to expect anything. be sure when you confess…you confess without expecting anything in return.