so… my exboyfriend and I are bestfriends now, and were the type of people that are off and on all the time.  He recently told me he still loved me, but he and my best girl friend have a thing.. i don’t know what to do.. my best girlfriend loves him alot, do i tell her?. or just forget about it?.

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HMA:

Question is who does HE like? 

First of all tell your best girlfriend about your feelings. SHe might understand the situation and just move on. Second, if you still like him why dont you tell him? more likely he feels the same way since you said youre in an on and off relationship. If it turns out that all he wants from you is friendship and nothing else then its time for you to move on. Still talk to your best girlfriend though…ask her to wait for you to fully move on before she does her thing. If shes a true friend she’s understand