Anonymous: Dear Miss Awesome, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now (2 years in June). Last summer he gave me 4 days notice. He moved down there and we had a bad summer. To help with our relationship, my parents agreed to let him live with us. He moved in, in November and things have gotten ok to bad to ok from then. I have a chronic conditohe doesn't seem to understand. I don't know what to do. Do we need a break from each other or simply end it?
I know others are afraid to go on a “break” in their relationship. They fear that the other person might realize that being without the other is better. But having a break is also a chance for you guys to just think about your relationship…reflect whether its worth continuing or not. It’s healthy to have a break because it gives us time to realize things. you know the saying… “you’ll realize how much they mean to you when you lose them?” Well this saying applies to this situation. So have a break first. Me and my Bou would have breaks when we see that things are getting a little rocky. Our breaks wouldnt even last a day but still… it helps us first to calm down and second to realize how important the other is in our lives.
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