Anonymous (firstname.lastname@example.org) submitted:
Well, there is this guy in my class and I love him since 2-3 years already. At first he was with many girls and he also told me he liked me (I mean, he told me I was pretty, funny, nice and stuff), but that is ca. 2 years ago now so I don’t think he still thinks that. But well, we got really good friends and he told me many things like one time he told me he was in love with a girl he didn’t see for 2 years or so and he told me a lot about her and I was kinda “helping” him .. (but now he’s not in love with her anymore)
And also there was this girl, she was kinda mean to me and once me, my friends and him talked and when one of my friends asked if we like that girl he said no and they asked like why and he was like “cause she’s mean to ..” (me)
So well, he told me lots of stuff and we were very good friends and stuff but I loved him. Actually once I even sent him an e-mail saying “I love you” but he didn’t ever talked about that. (And it was about half a year after I met him, so ..)
Well, all in all I really helped him a lot, talked to him when he needed somebody and stuff but he hurted me a lot too. But also he told some one who told one of my friends that he likes me. (Not that long time ago)
Okay, now I’m still in love with him but we don’t really talk and it’s not like before that he tells me about his problems and he also told some of his friends he’s not in love with any one right now but he’s really nice to me and once there was this party and you could play games and stuff and he invited me to play with him and his friends ..
I’m really scared to tell him ‘cause first I’m scared he doesn’t like me back and second I’m scared it’ll get us apart or something .. actually I want to tell him but I don’t even know how ‘cause I’m very shy and stuff ..
But (sorry, it’s getting kinda long :D) I have good grades in school so many people only like me because of that but he gives me the feeling like I’m great not because of my good grades but because of myself .. (‘cause he asked me something in homework and then suddenly he just said “oh, doesn’t matter, ” and then started another topic)
Well, that was my story and I don’t know if a story like that could get any advice but I just wanted to share and maybe you have an advice anyway? ;D
(And sorry for being so unorganized in this text :D)
Uh, yes, I just wondered what country you come from? ;D
Heymissawesome: Im from the Philippines:)
Well a bit of advice, since youre shy and a bit worried about the outcome when you, its better to just hang out with this guy first. I know you know and love him for three years, but you didnt really give me enough details to know the kind of relationship you have with him. DO you hang a lot nowadays. He obviously sees you as a trustworthy person because he’s able to open up. Im just afraid that you are friendzoned with him. One, you said i love u and he didnt even reply even if he had the chance to. I know your friend told u he likes you but how do you know it for sure when he didnt really tell you directly. its better to hear it personally than from other people. SO hang out with him first try to see if he;s dropping big hints. Some guys flirt and its obvious. DOes he do sweet stuff with you?
Anyways keep me updated.
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