iodineispurple submitted:I have this crush of mine. we are actually classmates in some subjects and i admit we’re somehow close. He has a feelings for my close friend though he has a girlfriend. and the fact is his ex was my friend’s elder sister. i just couldn’t keep falling to him for he is the kind of guy that is so sweet. I think he has a hint that i like him. and he keeps hitting on me too, though it’s not clear. 

mY repLy:

This guy seems involved with a lot of people you know…people that are actually close to you. Think before you jump into this kind of situation… try to think how it ended up with the other girls that he had “something” with. Did it actually go somewhere, did he just date them once and then went to another?, or is he the type of guy that just wants everyone to like him and that maybe he is hitting on everyone. You said he had feelings for your close friend even if he had a girlfriend….what does this make him look like?…player? or is he just misunderstood. is he playing you? or is his actions towards you (hinting) is just misunderstood.