My friends all hate him. He barely knows I exsist. I’ve liked him for two years. This year my friend who doesn’t know I like him started liking him (if that makes sense). We are complete opposites. It doesn’t help that I feel this magnetic attraction between us. I need advice… ):

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HMA:

Well first things first…if you want something to happen make a move. “making a move” doesnt mean to confess right away. But you can do little things like handing out with him and getting to know him. So what if your friends hate him? dont feel pressured to hate him too…people shouldnt tell you who you should like or not because it’s you that have total control on that. Ur friend and that guy isnt girlfriend-boyfriend yet so you have a chance. But to be a good friend you should make your friend aware that you also have feelings for this guy for a long time. This is better than just sneaking and going for that guy without your friend knowing.

so… my exboyfriend and I are bestfriends now, and were the type of people that are off and on all the time.  He recently told me he still loved me, but he and my best girl friend have a thing.. i don’t know what to do.. my best girlfriend loves him alot, do i tell her?. or just forget about it?.

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HMA:

Question is who does HE like? 

First of all tell your best girlfriend about your feelings. SHe might understand the situation and just move on. Second, if you still like him why dont you tell him? more likely he feels the same way since you said youre in an on and off relationship. If it turns out that all he wants from you is friendship and nothing else then its time for you to move on. Still talk to your best girlfriend though…ask her to wait for you to fully move on before she does her thing. If shes a true friend she’s understand