Anonymous: There's this guy I kind of fell for over the summer. We had a couple classes together during the year, but over the summer we talked on Facebook for hours. When school started we grew a little distant, but every time we saw each other in the hallways we would hug and catch up. He's not a flirty type, so I knew he liked me when we talked on Facebook, but now he ignores me. I just don't know if he doesn't like me, or if he's socially awkward... I don't know. Should I try to start a conversation?
Definitely start a convo, Dont just assume right away. Best thing is to try your best for your convos to last longer…hopefully you guys could get more comfy with each other. comfy enough to start hanging out and all. Probably after some time you can develop a deeper kind of friendship and who knows (since u said he likes u) he will finally have the guts to tell u how he feels personally (and if it takes a little time..them you go confess yourself girl:))) ). <3
Anonymous: I've known this guy forever, he's in the grade ahead of me & in elementary school we were best friends. But then he went to middle school, leaving me behind. Now we're in high school & I have a crush on him. He told my friend that he might like me, but he isn't sure. He likes flirting with me, my personality and he thinks I'm really pretty. But he just isn't sure. And so I told him I liked him. He said thanks. My bff told me to just wait, maybe he was thinking things over. What do you think?
Your bff is right. Just wait. As I mentioned in the other message, most boys need ime to think about their next move so yes give him time. If it takes a little longer than expected…lets say two weeks!! then maybe try talking to him again and asking him what he thinks of you…whats your role in his life.
Hi, i really need some help. So theres this guy, that I am crazy about. I was with my friend and he was at a party, didn’t meet him or anything but added us on facebook, then we went on skype and he was like perfect, nice, cute, everything, and he was the kind of guy i could imagine being with.
My ex-best friend asked why i was so crazy about him, and then i told her that i liked him, and then she freaked out and said that she was almost dating him. I was torn, and then a couple of days later i wrote to my crush that she dates like 5 guys at once (which she does!!) and then a little after that she said she didn’t want to date him. I asked him if he still liked her and he said a little…
I really like him, and theres a party soon, but hes not coming. So I was thinking of sending a song to him, but I don’t know if he would ever have the same feelings about me? Or should I wait for 2 months and see him at the party?
First of all everything that had happened between your crush and your exbestfriend are all in the past and you dont need to worry about that…especially that your friend didnt want to date him.
So if you have any plans to “make a move” go for it. I dont know what kind of friendship you have with this guy but if its something deeper than ordinary. But I think sending him a song is a bit too much. Just go hang out first and just confess to him with ease..dont rush coz you might give him a shock. Hang out and have a casual conversation and then just tell him how you feel about him. But be prepared coz u dont know his reply. its better not to expect anything. be sure when you confess…you confess without expecting anything in return.
i was walking along the ravine near my house and the sun is shining!but…BAM!2 seconds later its pouring like crazy!and a dog comes up to me and i love the dog,so i give it a kiss.and the rain stops.MAGIC!the puddles are still there but i give the dog a hug and they go away.just something bout this dog thats diffrent.i name him chester.he likes this name.
I love dogssss!!! thanks for the story:)
So I had this friend, really close friends. And we know each other like 2 years now. At first we were just friends then it turned to close friend then to besties then to more. He said that he started to have feelings for me. Well, for me at the time I didn’t have any special feeling for him. But day by day, knowing that he has feeling for me, I started to get things more serious and my feelings grew. After awhile he realized that I too had true feelings of love towards him. By the time he knew I was true and my feelings were pure, I got things all serious. He found the smallest point on me and left me. I couldn’t do anything about the fact that he didn’t want me anymore. I said I will wait someday he will regret his decision and return to me. But he didn’t, days went by and weeks followed. No sign of him appeared. And for me feeling grew even more, I wished that he could just feel a little bit of my love to him. I couldn’t take it anymore so, I texted him confessing everything and how guilty I feel. How bad I want him back, I asked for a second chance. After that, his answer to me was. “Hey I get what you are saying but am sorry your just too late, if you want we can be just friends. But for more I’m sorry. Then a friend of mine tried to help and talked to him about how badly I needed him. He was so heartless all he said was, “It was all her fault she couldn’t hold on to me. And now I have a new girlfriend who I love dearly and she is much better than Lava (Me) just try to make her forget about me.” He got a new girlfriend in 1 week, he could forget all about me in 4 days. How easy?! He replaced me and all we had together with a girl he barely knew. Or did I ever had a place in his heart to be replaced? I don’t know. Please help me I’m so depressed. :(
Aww girl, I feel how much depress you feel just by this story. Well he has a girlfriend now and he even told you that there’s nothing you can do and there’s no more chance. He said it himself (didnt hear it from other sources). You got his decisions now you have to respect it and just move on. I just wished your friend didnt do what she did. Telling this guy how much you need him will not help. It would seem that you are chasing him not because of love but need. (you wouldnt want to look needy) and you wouldnt want him to just be with you because he feels sorry for you. Best thing is to move on. It would take time but you got your friends to help you with that.Dont blame yourself for developing feelings for him later than expected….dont blame yourself. He’s missing on someone wonderful.
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Anonymous: About a year ago, I meet this boy. He was amazing. He could make me laugh, he could make me smile. I would always get butterflies when I talk to him. We talked for a while like for 2 months. Then one day, I told him how I felt, he felt the same way. On December 13,2010 he asked me out. Of course I said yes. I was madly in love with him. He gave me the best feeling ever. On September 13,2010 we broke up...right on our 9 months i found out he has been cheating on me. Now he wants me back. /:
My boyfriend and I both agree that you need to think things over before you decide to take him back.
When he cheated on you did you find it out on your own/through sources or did he confess to you about him cheating?
If he did admit to you his mistakes and said sorry, it means that he is a sincere person that does care for your feelings. We think that yes it’s okay to give it a try again but just make sure he doesnt do it again. Be sure that this second try on the relationship would actually work now.
If you found out about him cheating before…caught him red handed well thats another story. The fact that he kept it from you means that he is a douche and is not even worth a second chance.
I personally hate cheaters…especially those that still deny even though you have proof of them cheating. Those people are heartless. They dont even take into consideration the consequences of their actions, the people they might hurt or hurting. If he’s this guy then I say no! dont give him another chance because theres a big possibility that he will lie and cheat again. I mean It would be better to just tell you that he doesnt like you anymore and that he found someone else than going behind your back and seeing other girls.
I could totally relate to you because this thing sorta happened to me. My ex boyfriend broke up with me on our first monthsary and I know for the whole month we’ve been together he was cheating on me. I know for sure coz I asked the girl and the girl said they went out and even kissed. anyways goodluck on the choice:)