My friends all hate him. He barely knows I exsist. I’ve liked him for two years. This year my friend who doesn’t know I like him started liking him (if that makes sense). We are complete opposites. It doesn’t help that I feel this magnetic attraction between us. I need advice… ):
Well first things first…if you want something to happen make a move. “making a move” doesnt mean to confess right away. But you can do little things like handing out with him and getting to know him. So what if your friends hate him? dont feel pressured to hate him too…people shouldnt tell you who you should like or not because it’s you that have total control on that. Ur friend and that guy isnt girlfriend-boyfriend yet so you have a chance. But to be a good friend you should make your friend aware that you also have feelings for this guy for a long time. This is better than just sneaking and going for that guy without your friend knowing.
so… my exboyfriend and I are bestfriends now, and were the type of people that are off and on all the time. He recently told me he still loved me, but he and my best girl friend have a thing.. i don’t know what to do.. my best girlfriend loves him alot, do i tell her?. or just forget about it?.
Question is who does HE like?
First of all tell your best girlfriend about your feelings. SHe might understand the situation and just move on. Second, if you still like him why dont you tell him? more likely he feels the same way since you said youre in an on and off relationship. If it turns out that all he wants from you is friendship and nothing else then its time for you to move on. Still talk to your best girlfriend though…ask her to wait for you to fully move on before she does her thing. If shes a true friend she’s understand
Hi =) Tagalog na lang po ako ah. ^_^ Hmm ganto po yun. May crush po kasi ako. Every posts ko po sa tumblr at facebook ko lahat po yun panama saknya. Mga quotes na pang-crush po yun. Nagkakatext and chat po kami. Tapos po lagi niyang tinatanong kung sino daw po yung crush ko. Syempre di ko sasabihing siya yun kasi natatakot po ako baka umiwas siya. Then, kagabi po nagkatext kami. Usapang crush nnman po. Umamin po syang crush niya ko. Nagulat po talaga ko dun. Wala daw pong halong biro yun. Di ko po alam kung totoo yun or joke. Kaya bawat reply ko po sknya is puro pabiro. Dapat po bang umiwas ako?? Ayoko po kasing ma-fall eh. Natatakot po ako. Baka pagnagkaganun wala siyang balak saluhin ako. :/ Ate help!
Bat ka iiwas? eh u like him and he likes you naman dba? Kung iiwas ka baka youre just gonna miss this good opportunity. If ready ka then go for it. If ever na di ka naman nya saluhin edi move on. Try mo lang …hangout more..date date… kilatisin mo muna bago maging official…thats if worried ka talaga. It’s good to have experiences…pag dating sa love..for sure theres gonna be kilig moments…at never mawawala ang iyak at hinagpis moments. Just be sure if you jump in ready kana sa mga ganito.
What to do..? ;( There is this guy that i like but he’s 2 years younger than me. An i honestly could say that he’s immature. But then we both liked each other. We would tease each other and he would stick to me more than any other girls. Sometime he slept on my shoulder etc. but then after one night he suddenly turns 180degrees. He doesnt text me as much and he would not even ‘touch’ me. I have no idea if he still likes me or not.. And i find it really hard to forget him ;(
How long has it been since you guys last talked? Did you attempt to talk to him? if not try to get a hold of him…invite him to a casual hangout or if he cant than just get a chance to talk with him in a quiet place. ask him what’s up. Since you guys have a good friendship established i think it’s okay to just ask him why he’s behaving so differently all of a sudden. Dont be afraid to be honest… because how would you know what’s up if you dont ask..right?
Dear Miss Awesome, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now (2 years in June). Last summer he gave me 4 days notice. He moved down there and we had a bad summer. To help with our relationship, my parents agreed to let him live with us. He moved in, in November and things have gotten ok to bad to ok from then. I have a chronic conditohe doesn't seem to understand. I don't know what to do. Do we need a break from each other or simply end it?
I know others are afraid to go on a “break” in their relationship. They fear that the other person might realize that being without the other is better. But having a break is also a chance for you guys to just think about your relationship…reflect whether its worth continuing or not. It’s healthy to have a break because it gives us time to realize things. you know the saying… “you’ll realize how much they mean to you when you lose them?” Well this saying applies to this situation. So have a break first. Me and my Bou would have breaks when we see that things are getting a little rocky. Our breaks wouldnt even last a day but still… it helps us first to calm down and second to realize how important the other is in our lives.
Hey, i know it says this isnt an advice blog, but i just wanted to know if you could tell me what you would do in my situation? I get up everyday looking forward to going into school to see my crush ;$! Cheesy or whutt? haha, anyway hes in a few of my classes and sits right infront of me in one. We talk quite a bit and i dont know if telling him I like him would ruin things, what would you do?<3
HMM…not cheesy! it’s cute…he inspires you. I dont know if saying I like you directly could help you. Maybe be his friend frist and try to hang out with him. Get to know him and let him get to know you and how awesome you are, maybe drop lil hints here and there..in that way when you say those three lil words you’ll get a better chance of hearing it back.
Question. It might be a dumb question, but I want to hear someone's opinion :) Ok so what are the "benefits" in a friends with benefits relationship? and what's the different between that and friends who have known each other for a while but are currently dating but not boyfriend/girlfriend?
IDK what exactly friends with benefits means…especially the “benefits” part. MAYBE MY FOLLOWERS KNOWS. In my own opinion benefits are sexually related. And I think what youre currently in right now is the “dating” stage in a relationship.
I really like my friend bu he lives extremely far away. He likes me as well. We'll be seeing each other next summer and I don't know what to do. Should I express myself then or right before I go or now? We met a month or so ago and no I'm not in love with him but I could see myself dating him in the future. I just really need your help. What should I do!
Think first of the events that might happen after you say “I like you”….think of the things you are EXPECTING out of it. DO you expect to just say it and thats it…or do you expect him to say i like you back. Do you want to have something official from him or youre just saying it just so you can express yourself. You also have to take into consideration that he lives so far away and a relationship to work in those kinds of conditions take so much effort.
i like a certain guy, he knows i like him, and i thought this thing will go somewhere than a wasted hope coz it seems he likes me too. but then, i started having this feeling in my gut that he really doesn't like me. i just found out today that he has communication again with his ex girl who cheated on him. and i wanna break down. i was ready for this, but i'm still hurting. sorry, i just want someone to tell this shit. i can't believe i let myself like him in the first place. :(
I understand the hurt you feel. But just because he has a class with his ex girlfriend doesnt mean that they will automatically be together again. Hope is still there. Also you’re not officially together so whatever he does…he can do. If it’s true what you said that you guys like each other …then just continue being that way…continue going out and all. If you have a chance and the courage to ask him where you stand in his life. DO IT. You have to know where you place in his heart…whether he likes you only as a friend or if you guys have a future beyond friendship.
My friend introduced me to this guy we really hit it off, but when we went for a vacation my phone did not really got much reception so i didnt text him that much, when I returned after a week I found out that him and my bestfriend are already a couple, they didnt last very long but now i dont know, if i can still trust my EXbestfriend with boys. PLEASE HELP ME but honestly after one week of courtship your already a couple?
woah! for me that is just so messed up! I mean your bestfriend knows that you and this guy have a thing together…and she shouldnt have done that. Try talking to your bestfriend though and seek for an explanation..give her a chance to explain coz maybe you can still save the friendship a little. About this guy, he knows theres a thing going on between you and him…and for him to go out with your bestfriend(i mean it would be better if it was another girl) …i dont think he’s a decent guy to be with. coz if he was he would have known that this could hurt you.