I have a friend that she said that she has a friend that wanted to meet me so yeah i was flattered of course so i talked to him after a while he did not go online for a while so i waited after a while i got tired of waiting i ask my friend to make him go online but he said that he has some problem so i waited more when i finally confronted him he said that its hard to make online when you mother is sick i didnt believe him so i said not to talk to me anymore now i really miss him can you helpme
wow. you havent met this guy yet right? you dont have any sort of relationship with him so try not to expect much. plus no offense but it seems that you;re demanding so much from this guy that you havent met yet. you dont know each other very well at this point of time. plus what if his mom is really sick? and he is really having a hard time. you have to be more understanding okay. plus he might even get turned off by what you did.
I do have this problem that I need your expect advise with..
I have a boyfriend for 3 months now. We've been living together for 2 and a half months, meaning it was just 2 weeks in the relationship and I've already moved in with him. I live in his apartment now where his 2 sisters and aunt lives as well. I don't have a problem with them and I think they don't have a problem with me around. Now his parents live in the province with his brother.
The problem is, when his mom visits them here in the city, I have this inkling that she doesn't really like me. She never spoke nor smiled at me even once. On the 1st day I met her, I was really scared cuz she really looks very "mataray". When she was moving around the house, it was like she was always in a bad mood or "nagdadabog". Then my boyfriend will always raise this issue about us moving out and getting a place of our own. This issue rose up three times already. And it always does when his mom and dad visits us here in the city. Now she's here again for an event and my boyfriend told me that his mom told or suggested to him for us to move out. I don't know if he's just sugar-coating something but I think what his mom really told him was she wants me to move out.
What do you think and what should I do?
first of all im not an expert so whatever advice i give you…well lets just say think before you follow it:)
well it’s normal for a parent to feel that way. it might have been a shock for them that their son brought home someone…especially someone that werent with their son for that long. Maybe his mom is just worried…again a normal thing for parents to feel. She’s worried that you’re just using his son…that you will hurt him ….that you guys are making a wrong decision of moving together and ETC!
One of the best ways to solve this is to prove her wrong. prove that you do love his son…that you guys are mature enough to decide for yourself and that you are the kind of girl that’s definitely right for his son. it’ll take time.. well it depends. but if you show that you are sincere and honest and deeply inlove with her son…she’ll see it and eventually accept you.
if she starts to be mataray…dont be mataray back to her. dont fight fire with fire. let her be mataray…wag mo na patulan coz it’ll just make matters worst. if you talk back to her or show that you are mad…kung magtaray ka sa kanya…she’ definitely wont forget what you did. let her “magdabog”… hey..if she keeps doing that and notices that you guys arent even affected…she’ll eventually stop.just respect the mother…welcome her…entertain her…try to impress her. remember that without her…your boyfriend wont even exist.
you guys know what youre doing… you know what you got into. so..just stay strong…coz this is just one obstacle you need to surpass for your relationship:_
well, I lived in Canada since I was born. When I was in high school, we moved back to the middle east cause my dad wanted us there :S.. At the beginning, I absolutely hated it and wanted to move back to Canada. But, slowly.. I somehow fell in love with the guy who lived next door to my grandma (she lived in an apartment building). And everyday would be an adventure for me. We would talk, laugh, and just get along so well. He never told me how he felt but allll his friends did. I never told him how I felt because once again, I was too shy. But I fell for him hard (he's the first guy I fell for). I remember all our stolen glances and how everytime I would look up, he would alwayss stare at me and smile. I can still remember his dimples and how his eyes sparkled everytime he smiled :$. But we moved back to Canada after a year and a half there. I havent been back since and am dyyyying to see him again.
awww. well there will come a time that you will see this guy again. i really hope so. hey…if you’re the type that believes in destiny…if you guys are meant to be together then destiny will find it’s way. have you also check facebook? do you have hid fb? skype or ym? you know technology today makes everything possible…well almost everything. thanks for sharing this story!:)
Hi. First of all i want to say that i suck at english so if anything is written wrong; I am sorry haha.
second of all; i love your blog. I followed you today and i already fell in love with all the inspiring stuff and so. Stay the best<3
Well, there we go: I'd really like to say something and would really appreciate it if you could give me some advice. Well i fell in love with a guy and i already told him that, so he said that he likes me too. Then one day he 'changed his mind' or something like that and told me that he can't love me and that we can't be together because we don't know eachother that well. So i said that if he didn't like me at all he could have said so and that i'd understand it. And then some days later he told me how much he misses me and how much he wants to see me but when we DID se eachother he looked at me but didn't say anything. We didn't even talk. Then some days later he told me that he loves me. I didn't believe it and i still don't. But then we kissed and now we're like in a relationship and stuff but I'm still not sure if he really means it when he says that he loves me. I have the feeling that he's with me just because i love him and he feels sorry for me or something like that. Well I'm pretty afraid now because I got REALLY attached to him and if i don't see him for like a day or two i already miss him so much that i could litterally cry my eyes out. Idk what to do :( If you could help me or give me some advice or anything, I would really appreciate it. <3
seems like this guy is really confused of his feelings…which i think isnt really good especially now that you guys are in a relationship. what makes you think that he’s with you just because he feels sorry for you? is there something about his actions that suggest it? if until now he still makes you confused …then maybe it’s time to think about there this relationship will go. remember…dont stay in a relationship that burdens you… find a way to ease out the burden and if you dont then get rid of the relationship. have a sincere talk with him. open up with your feelings and have him open up with his too. its really important that the couple understand each other. there shouldnt be doubts…questions…and worries. get it straight and talk to him. it wouldnt be hard if you guys have a deep relationship. plus maybe youre just misinterpreting him..maybe he does love he…that its not pity but love. well..we’ll know if you found out yourself. talk to your bf.
okay then , i'll repost my story, cause a few weeks ago tumblr went.. retarded. for me heh. so i posted up my story & it came out like sorry, some tech probs & whatnot, so i'll post it up again (: just to let you know who i am , for future references too, lets just call me by ZxyAr (:
sure sure. i hate the fact that tumblr is changing. argg they even put a limit on the ask box! so unfair!