jeniusphere answered: favorite book? anne: all of sarah dessen’s books. all!
annacethesia answered: Ate kong pretty! Hindi mo na ako pinapansin :(( anne: inbox mo.may sinend ako.
blancahz29 answered: I don’t have any questions but It’d be nice if you tell me anything to make me feel better because I’m feeling pretty sad right now :( anne: check your inbox. dont worry…whatever youre going through right now…it’ll pass. just remember that you have a lot of people backing you up…your friends…and your family. you’re not alone.
twinnytime answered: have you ever noticed that a peach looks like an elephants butt? saggy and soft-sih? i wonder if it feels the same eating them… anne: i guess you have a point…*imagining
pies-and-lies answered: i asked you an anon question about an hour ago in the stories section of your blog, please respond? “ anne: ill reply tom? if it’s okay. my mind is puzzled tight now. i dont want to give you a crappy reply. teehee:)) ill get to your message.
poulet-rose answered: What do you do when everything is unimpressive? anne: …everything? ask myself “what’s wrong with me?”
kay well.i liked this guy for a long time. and i still do. we used to talk alot on msn. he'll send me emoticons like ;) :) =P :( & stuffs. but now, he's just sending me like a one word answer kindoff thing. im startin to think he doesnt want to talk to me. :(. help ? :(
there are other reasons that can explain why he’s like this. maybe he’s busy…maybe he’s upset…maybe he got offended…maybe he’s undergoing some personal problems of his own. lots of maybe huh? i guess to be really sure of “what s up”…ask him yourself. is it an online friendship? or do you also see each other personally. it would be easy if you guys meet personally.
does he know you like him? and is the feeling mutual? is he single?
there are lots of factors that can result to his behavior. i could only narrow it down if i have more details. so if you dont mind sharing them with me…well id be happy to help. and you dont have to be an anon. you can always tell me if you want me to reply personally:))
so my friend and i are really close. lately though he has been ignoring me. we used to talk all the time and about everything. now if i message him he ignores me or just gives me a quick response and then logs off. we are going to different school now but we promised to still be friends. is it worth trying be friends with him? should i keep trying even if he wont?
hey if you’re tired of this whole scenario…just leave it and just move on. If you feel annoyed that he’s not exerting so much effort…if you feel upset because of this…easy…stop trying. but if you are willing to continue on..exerting effprt without anything in return…then go ahead. but i assure you it would be hard on your part so MAKE SURE HE IS WORTH IT.
friends come and go and we cant really expect people to stick around forever. of course we’ll meet them some time in the future..hang out and reminisce the past but we all got our own lives to live…own paths to take and sometimes our paths go opposite ways. this is life.
HeyMissAwesome! i want help, i dont know what to do. so my best friend moved to a new neighborhood that is close to my house. back in januray (when she moved) she introduced me to her neighbor. we instantly hit it off and i really liked him but he had a girlfriend. we still hung out a lot. i recently learned he liked me, likED me too. at the beginning of summer he broke up with his girlfriend. we still hang out all the time but im afraid he now likes my bestfriend:( why did he lose interest?help
this is such a hard question…why did he lose interest? i dont know what you guys have been going through. not sure what kind of relationship you have…how deep it is. did he personally tell you that he is losing interest in you…that he started to feel for your bestfriend? if yes well…he’s such a “jerk”…im trying to find a more positive way to put it. but i cant find any other word. If the guy loves you…really loves you he wouldnt end the relationship that fast…and he wouldnt be having a change of heart all of a sudden. try your best to think of the reasons why he change all of a sudden. did something happen between you guys? do you guys fight a lot? sorry for asking so much questions…but i really dont know whats really happening between you guys. also…before anything else..dont assume. know the truth and ask him directly about what he feels.
it may seem, i dont know, desperate or foolish to write about someone who's never even been mine. or maybe never will be. i'm not even sure it's safe to say i love him, because i know how stupid that makes me look. but i do. it all started three/ four years ago. btw, im 14 now & we're both about to be freshies.
he's the typical school hottie, ya know; mean tan , adorable smile, brown eyes, cute sense of humor, and all that stuff i shouldnt care about anymore.
he knows how much ive liked him for who knows how long.
i know i gotta get over him, like it or not. i also know im gonna find someone else out there. i also know that whatever i'm feeling, doesnt matter to him.
but i can't stop thinking about him. no, i'm not crazy about him. in fact, i've taught myself not to talk to him unless he makes the first move, & i'm not asking about him either. but the everyday thought of him kills me & i want it to go away.
love makes us desperate…makes us foolish at times. you’re not alone..so dont worry. im really honored that you shared your thoughts with me. just a question…does he know u like him? coz if he doesnt yet then…hoe do u know that your feelings doesnt matter to him? is there a reason why you said this? why you chose to suppress your feelings for him?
I met this guy Mason almost 2 years ago at school.
He was the new guy in school and im just a friendly person. Our friendship came really naturally, after a month we were pretty much best friends. We would text everyday & hang out on weekends. My friends were convinced that we were FWB or that I liked him but I kept denying it. I thought for sure if I liked him I'd have butterflies or be nervous or shy or the usual things I feel when I like a guy but I didnt. He was really easy to talk to. Anyway after denying that I liked him for pretty much almsot a year, one of my closest friends told me she liked him. I know I sound bitchy when I tell you this but shes the kind of girl who thinks she likes EVERY guy who is nice to her or tells her shes pretty and Mason is a really nice guy. He's also really good looking and he doesnt know it. So when he was just being himself (a super nice guy) to my friend, she thought it was because he liked her.
So anyways when she told me she liked him I got a little defensive. Obviously she came to me because I was his closest friend and she thought I got get them together or something, but thats the last thing I wanted. I started feeling posessive of him like as if she wanted to take him from me. I told her I would talk to him but I never did. Anyway after that, I started to see him in a different way. When we were together I started to notice it when he touched me and I started smiling whenver he would text me. I FINALLY started getting butterflies and feeling giggly around him. I wanted to tell him because I felt pressure from my friend who was flirting with him all the time and always saving him a seat at lunch or when we'd go to the movies. I decided that I would tell him finally (this was not long ago) when we had a party we were all going to. I thought we could go together and I could tell him and if he rejected me I'd be drinking and having fun anyway, I could just brush it away and feel sad about it later. But she beat me to the punch. I called him and asked him to go to the party with me and he told me my friend had called him earlier and asked him to go with her because she needed to talk to him. Obviosuly I knew what it was about but I couldnt say anything. SO I texted my friend and told her to please not tell him the way she feels about him until I could talk to her. When I got to the party they were already there and they were all over eachother. When I asked her later why she didnt wait she told me she never received my text message, but I found out from another friend that she DID see it and just deleted it.
Now Im going to meet Mason in a few hours (this party was almost 2 weeks ago) and we havent really talked much since then. Ive been a little cold towards him even thouhg I know its not his fault, but now he told me hes picking me up after his shift because hes tired of the cold shoulder and wants to know whats wrong and I dont know what to tell him :(
i know my reply is way due. and i bet you already talked to him. ive been caught up lately and thats why i havent replied. but I am curious as to what happened. if you dont mind telling me.
and oh.. you didnt really tell me whether this friend of yours confessed to Mason. Did she?
ANyways. thanks for sharing!!!!:))) I really hate it when a friend also likes the guy i like. it’s unfair…and it brings so much drama!
hey miss awesome, your blog is awesome! i bet you get that a lot! :) well, it's true. most of your posts are really, as we say it, tagos sa puso! :)
sadly i dont get that a lot. hahaha it’s nice to receive messages like this. the dropping-by-just-to-show-some-love types of messages. but thanks you so much. tagos din sa puso ang message mo. nagpasaya ng araw ko teehee:)
do you post up all the love stories sent to you up on your blog under the reads section & so on? cause i've sent one, and i dont know if you've answered to it or not :/
if its my inbox..ill read it…if i read it…it’s probably there. if it’s not it means it hasnt been TAGGED yet OR it’s been tagged under a WRONG category. which means you have to check in my archive. click “all my stuff” right side bar. i havent been tagging lately…honestly im too lazy to do so hahaha. ill start tagging later.
I've liked this guy for 4 months now, we talk a lot on facebook and we've hung out once. He used to talk to me everyday, and he told me he liked someone but he just says he'll tell me "eventually". Now the conversations on facebook are becoming less and less and I don't know what to do! He seemed totally interested but now he doesn't. Should I tell him how I feel? We are both going to a party coming up soon and I don't want it to be awkward.
sorry for the late reply. i havent really checked my tumblr that often these past few days. do you think you are this someone he’s talking about. now i dont want to be the one deciding for you. last time i did that i got blamed. if you feel its the best choice…to confess how you feel then go ahead. but be prepared…there’s 50 percent chance of getting heartbroken but another 50 percent that could change everything and make your life better. it’s a gamble i know but you think this guy is definitely worth it…worth a try? whatever the outcome maybe if you’ve decided to confess…be ready and dont ever ever ever expect or assume about the outcome. but you know based on my experience its always better to confess and try. if you get rejected well atleast you know what the other person feels. you wont continue on living and thinking about the “what ifs.” rejection sucks but at least you can move on after that. its better to know what the other person feels towards you.
now.. you also have to think what would happen..what you want to happen after you confess. do you want to be in a relationship with this guy.. or you just want to get things off your chest? coz if you like the guy but dont see yourself in a relationship with him…you have to think whether its really worth confessing.
Okay so I met this guy like a few weeks before my birthday. I can say it was like love at first sight sort of. We were at a baseball game. His school vs. my school. And he looked at me and smiled. So i smiled back. Not knowing i had him as a friend on facebook already.
Well he messaged me like a week later. Turns out he was my crush's bestfriend. Which was all bad because i was like in love with my crush. But I still decided to talk to him. And a few weeks later it turns out he was talking to some other girl from school. But i didnt really care even tough i was starting to like him. But then he got with her. And that broke my heart a little. But he kept telling me "just wait i'll be yours soon." And i fell for it.
So then he broke up with her. And weeks later he asked me out so i said yes. But then again it turns out he was talking to another girl so we broke up. And he told me the same thing, to wait. And he was wil her till like mid summer. But i kept talking to him. Because i thought they broke up. So i saw him a few times and we made out and stuff. But i had no clue he was with her still. So then she keeps tagging him on things that say "boyfriend" so instead of asking him i asked her if they were together and she said yes. So i felt bad and well i told him to like just stop talking to me but we kinda continued talking. And well one day he told me that he was gonna just stop talking to me.
Four days passed before he has emailed me and said he missed me and loved me and all those cute things. So i did the same. And then he said he was single. So now im was happy. So now we hanged out again. But this time we went a little to far and i let him give me oral. And i told my friend. She was the girl he talked to at first. I thought i could trust her but i was wrong. Oh yeah i forgot to mention that she started to like my crush. So we sort of switched guys. So i tell her all i do with him. And i told her i still had feelings for my ex crush. And i also told my current crush. And she went and told my current crush that i was like "stalking" my ex crush and what not. which i had told her just to get her mad. And it was one time that i had gone on his facebook. And well he went off on me and told me i was crazy and what not. I was really hurt. This was last night. And he said "figure out your feelings for me and tell me when your over him. Because i wont get with you until you do that". That sort of hurt me too. Because he knew and he brought it up out of nowhere.
So my point here is we have been talking for like 6 months. And he has really changed. Like i saw him go from a player to a man. I fell in love with him. but now i dont know if i can trust my friend. Like i tell her everything but now i dont know what to do. Its all weird now. What do you think? Because i dont want her to be telling him what i tell her. I mean its not bad i just need to know i can trust her.
reading this, i first thought that you need help with the guy. anyways about this guy…he made u wait a lot of times.. even lied to you about going out with other girls. i wish that he wont screw up the chance you gave him. im more assured now that you say that he has changed. i hope he really did and i hope he would really take care of what you guys have. coz i know a terrific girl like you…well any girl at all…should be handled with care. (im listening to this song..handle with care by jra.. go check it out on youtube:)) teehee thats why i used that phrase…going back to our discussion).
it’s not only you that should have feelings figured out. this guy should also get settled with his feelings. if it’s you then its you…he shouldnt have any other girl.
about your friend…its simple. stop talking to her and telling her your secrets (the things you dont want the guy to know). if she cant be trusted than why tell her about it right? if she goes around telling your secrets…telling others of things that arent supposed to be told then dont tell her anything at all. She’s still a friend…but not the kind you can share your deepest secrets with.
ok.. so i need some advice i dont know i have been holding this for a long time so yeah , i am going to say it by names but i am going to change the names. :
it all stared when i went to the gym, theres this friend called "sam"i 've known sam since a long time and he goes to the gym with this guy really really hot ! white skin, black hair , pretty eyes, tall, called.. bryan , so bryan has a gf. and my friend sam saw that bryan started looking at me a lot lately , so sam told bryan he was going to present me with him , but bryan said no !cuz , he had a girlfriend , and he only had eyes for her , he didnt want to meet me because a was really pretty and yeah blabla, so one day my friend sam on the gym called me and said to go were he was , i went where he was and there it was.. bryan ! and sam said i want to present you with someone and bryan rolled his eyes smilying, i was like omg this guy is so mean ! and then i noticed i had him in fb, so we started talking and he told me he didnt want to meet me because i was really pretty so, one day we were talking and he said he needed help with some advice about his gf because they were having problems , so he told me the problem and he said if he should break up with the girl BUT , the girl is my not a close friend but i've know her a long time ago , so i thought what she did to him was really bad so i told him to break up iwth her SO! he did ! and we stated talking , and we started going out not like anything just friends , so we saw each other everyday at the gym and like that and one day i just had to.. i told him i liked him , he es funny smart , hot ldsajfl everything , he erased her from fb all that has happened fro march until now and like 3 weeks ago he told me she saw her and they kissed and when she kissed her he didnt feell the spark like before , but he still felt something for her , so yeah less than 1 week ago bryan told me he wanted to try a serious relationship with me , but my friend her ex told we that they've beeen going out and that he told her that he would give her and opportunity ! so i called him and i asked him and he told me that because my friend (her ex) new he liked me so i wouldnt go out with him ! oh i forgot something , on the gym , we have kissed and yeah , so yeah he told me she told him (bryan) to not go out with me because she said i was a whore :A so that kinda stupid of her , and yesterday augost 10 was bryans birthday , and made him a cake , and i gave it to him , and yeah , i dont know what to do , he says he wants to try a serious relationship with me but he says he still feels somthing for her , and lskdfjlksdj i got confused , what do i do ?
sorry for replying so late. if this guy wants to have a serious relationship with you..then..he has to be serious!! he still have his ex in his heart.. still have feelings for her. how can you be sure that he wont leave you for her one day. it seems like this guy is also confused of his feelings. i say give him a little more time to move on. wait until he can fully say that he doesnt love his ex. i know it’s too much to wait but at least you are sure that this guy will not be using you as a tool because his heart is breaken. make sure the guy enters a relationship with you because he loves you and not because he needs you to help himself get over the ex girlfriend. i mean…he still have feelings for the ex..isnt that unfair?