I have been crushing on this guy since like 5. Then I went to a different school from him and started a whole new life. Years passed and people change. I realised that my crush was only one-sided and wanted to give up. But then, last week, we had a class gathering and we were playing truth or dare. Then, it was his turn and he was given this question, “Do you have a girlfriend?” I looked at him curiously, eager for his answer. He replied, “I will if she says yes.” He walked up to me and asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I said yes! I am now happily dating.
this is so sweeeeet! thanks for sharing!!:)))) you’ll never know what a person feels until they tell you themselves im so happy for you!
Am I allowed to ask a question about a friend? Not like relationships?
yes…. well this isnt an advice blog.. not a relationship or love blog but i do entertain questions…any questions. (except those offensive or over the top ones) i’ll try my best to answer with sense:))))<3
Hi, I asked for advice about HK&BB. You said you were confused, so here. I’m sorry that my grammar & writing was off. I was on my ipod, and it was being asfhauihw. So anyways, I liked him in the beginning. And when he and my friend started flirting and whatnot, I did my best to get over him. And I stopped liking him for a period of time. But then when they drifted, we became close and I started liking him again. Recently, we broke up. But we got back together. We broke up because of stupid reasons, though. But anyways. She found out, and she flipped out. I can’t say it wasn’t right of her to do so, but I cant help but feel that she’s being a little selfish. I know I screwed up. Again. Big time. Choosing a guy over your friend. But we hadn’t been friends in awhile. We would always argue. & id constantly put herself before myself. And I just needed to value my happiness for once. When she asked him out, she just did it. no warning. She knew I liked him too. When we broke up, for like a day, she flirted with him. At the end of the day though, it didn’t matter, because I forgave her. But its not the same with her. She told me, “in a minute your gonna lose everyone and your gonna wonder, why didn’t I stick with the ones who loved me and cared for me?” to be honest. That’s not her. Sure, she may have been there when we broke up. And sure, we were cool for a bit, but that doesn’t mean she was there. I spilled my heart out to her, and told her my biggest secret, but all she said was “oh.” Literally, “oh.”
no offense but you guys are fighting over this guy…you are both ruining your friendship. and this guy doesnt even take time to realize that having a relationship with two friends can create chaos. he’s beginning to look like a ball that you guys pass around. he lets himself be passed around. what’s wrong with him? does he know that you guys are fighting because of him? if he’s a gentleman he will be considerate of BOTH of your feelings.
stop pointing fingers because its both your faults…no offense:). And now, you are hurt coz he is dating the guy you dated…without warning. well just imagine how she felt when you dated the guy she used to like without warning. you were good friends before and would it really hurt for you guys to tell each other how you feel? to tell each other that you are liking a guy the other one used to like? stop blaming each other too… and stop counting. counting the good things you did for each other. “hey i was good to you this time, you should be good to me this time” friendship isnt like that, it doesnt expect anything in return. is this guy really worth it? worth the trouble and the chaos and the bitterness?
Hey I Love Your Blog! It is amazing ! Love the little quotes you put on the photos.
And i was wondering how do you get over an ex? Cuz i am running into that problem right now & it is kinda hard and i would like to get some advice.
i got over mine by keeping myself busy with other matters. i joined clubs and met new friends. i even got rid of everything that reminded me of him. i took time to reconnect with some friends that i failed to hang out with when i was with this guy. i also had time to reconnect with my family. i found love in them.. it may not be the same kind of love i had with the guy but its was still suffice to help me get over him. some people say get a hobby or join sports…well yes… those things really help too. if you just let yourself explore new things…explore the different parts of life (life away from romantic relationship)…then i assure you, you’ll find something that could make you happy… that can help you get over the hurt. if the break up is still fresh, it will be hard so take your time. nobody is rushing you to get over him soon. we all have our own pace:)
You need to see that life isnt always perfect. We wont always get what we want. And though it hurts a lot, what should've happened, happened. Who should've left, left, and whatevers thrown you off course will always bring you to where it is you need to be.
Hey, so I have a best friend (girl), she's like my sister and she had an ex. Her ex is my best friend too & what worst is I'm in love with this guy and they both don't know that I love him. I don't know what to do. My girl best friend still can't forget him & she always tell me what she feels & I feel really guilty and I always keep on trying to forget him and don't get my hopes high but it's really hard for me.. and actually it hurts me a lot when she told me about their memories (what they used to do, what they had). And also I'm confused, he used to gave me hopes & when I told my other best friends about these, they said they're sure that this guy likes me too. So what should I do?? Forget him or keep holding on?
ive been through this before…
before you confess to the guy about your feelings, you have to open up with your bestfriend first. tell your bestfriend that you are starting to like his exboyfriend. You have to make sure that by loving this guy, you wont break the friendship you have with your best friend. you have to ask for her blessings. if you treasure your friendship, you will consider her feelings. if she still feels a lot for this guy, then i think its best to just wait until she has moved on.
if you and the guy are meant to be together.. then you will be together. dont rush everything because you need to consider everyone that will be affected.
dont make the same mistake i did…i ruined friendship i had with my bestfriend…and it didnt even work out between me and the guy. so i lost both of them in the end. it’s really not worth it…to hurt a friend over love. coz you’re not even certain that the love will last.
so , my boyfriend and I just broke up.. and I've been pretty depressed or whatever, but he's seeing another girl.. and I just don't know what to do, should I talk to him? should I leave him alone and forget about him?.. any advice
if youre going to talk to him…what would you say? that you’re still hurt…that you still like him? well you can do that but dont expect that much. it’s fine if you get those emotions out of your chest. you can also find out what he feels too. he might just be with this girl because he’s trying to ease out his pain from breaking up with you. so go talk to him… treat it as a closure. tell him about your feelings and know what he feels too. if this guy tells you that he has already moved on and that he’s happy with his relationship than…let them be. no matter how hurtful it is, you just have to be happy for your exboyfriend. you have to work on achieving your happiness too. take time for yourself…take time to heal the heartbreak. Open your heart once more when you think you’re ready.
Ok, I'm scared. I'm scared because my boyfriend said that next time we are together alone he wants to do something. He wants me to give him a handjob but i'm scared. Like, i know what to do but what if it isn't good enough? I told him I am not going much farther because I am only fourteen and that's nasty. & I don't want to get pregnant. Could you give me some advice or something. Please? Thank you so much. <3
if you dont want to do it… then dont do it. dont get pressured because he wants it. if he loves you, he will respect your decisions and he will understand that you are not ready for that yet. now, if he is persistent, it just means that his love for you isnt as deep as you thought it was. being in a relationship with this guy doesnt require you to give him a hand job or hooking up with him. if he doesnt understand that then he is not worth it.
Okay . So I just need advice . /;
This guy nnamed Nick like really likes me .. and he started to text me and I slowly started to have feeling for him .. He invited me to a movie with him and his older sisters but idk cause im kind of scared to be just alone with him and his sisters cause then itll be all awkward.. Also i have one of my close friends and I just found out that they both her and Nick used to have M A J O R feelings for each other but they never went out .. He apperently stopped liking her when he started to like me... and my close friend eventually got over it but the whole time i never knew .. And before I found all of this out I invited her to the movie with me and Nick .. She said she doesn't want to ruin our "moment" .... And shes always teasing me about Nick and bringing him up in conversations saying " How are you and Nick" and blah blah blah... But she doesn't know that I know that she used to like him.. Also I think she told Nick that i invited her to the movie ... and now idk if hes mad at mee or something cause usually hes really happy and enthusiastic and stuff when i text him .. now hes just .. ehh . So idk what to do cause I really like him and he really likes me but I dont know if my close friends feelings for him are truly gone. /:
i think ive already answered this message earlier. but just in case.
if youre not sure if your close friend moved on already then try not sharing with her a lot about you and nick. she might be getting hurt inside. and she might be asking how you guys are going because she’s still interested in nick. to be safe, dont tell her a lot about whats happening. coz if you continue telling her, she might start realizing that she’s missing nick…she’ll start getting jealous of the moments you and nick are sharing.. she’ll remember how they were in the past…she might start missing their relationship and she might realize that she still likes nick. telling her things about nick and you can prompt her feelings. this is not for sure though. she might be teasing you but we dont know what she really feels deep inside. he’s not mad.. as i said earlier, he might just be feeling a litle awkward with the situation.
My story? Well, my story all started on the first day of fifth grade. I didn't know anyone in my class, but a girl named Ifeanyi started talking to me. We sat together at lunch and really started to get to know eachother. We soon became best friends. We had lots of arguments. There were tears and pain, trust and happiness, like all friendships. But ours was different. We fought so much, like we hated eachother but at the end of the day, we were still best friends. Now she lives in New York and I'll never get to see her again. But she is, and will always be, my best friend :)
this is such a beautiful story! kudos for having someone like her in your life<3
how do you reply to this text?
"Fine, edi ":)" or kung gusto mo "=))"you always want emoticons. I just dont put those fucking smileys and you always think im mad."
sorry naman, tao lang. mahirap talaga kasi sa text eh. di ko alam kung ano talaga nararamdaman mo. you might say something happy but how am i sure you ARE HAPPY when i dont see it. minsan yung mga text mo.. pag binabasa ko…parang galit ang tono. that’s why i rely on emoticons often. alam ko wala naman ding assurance yung emoticons. kaya pasensya. sorry for always thinking you’re mad. it’s just that…ganun yung pagkabasa ko ng message mo.
this is my recent love story:
actually i wouldn't call it love, just a cute story i guess?
there's this boy, who i've had interested since December. he's my ex's best friend for a killer. buh he was/is the sweetest of em all. or so i thought. i could get a long with him so well. and we seem to agree on a lot of relationship stuff. and a couple weeks ago. he was getting high, i was drunk and we just started to kiss leading to make out. that night we shared a couch to sleep in and he held me tight. and i thought that was going to be the end. i thought when we woke up everything would like it didn't happen. buh it wasn't. he took me home and said goodbye. we texted non stop from then on. he hung out a couple times that up coming week. he held my hand. he hugged me. gave me kisses. we talked. we had a good time. or so i thought we had a good time. because this whole thing only lasted for a week. and suddenly he stopped talking to me. i've tried talking to him buh i feel like he doesn't want to. and i don't want to feel desperate so i just stopped trying. it just kills me how can someone be so cute and act interested and just stop talking like that. buh i gotta thank him for a wonderful first week of summer.
i'm the kind that shit happens, and you move on. i just kinda wish he would explained what exactly happened that made him stop talking to me just like that.
well yeah that was my story, good one. just not the best ending huh?
gosh! this guy is so confusing…yup i agree it is not the best ending. its a “one week love” sort of thing. i think this is what a fling is. i love this story though! but it just happened so fast.
Hi, it's 7373 again haha
Wowwww, ive read your story in "life and lovestories" its soooo cute!!!
I hope the best with you and your bestfriedn! :))
And i think he just meed a few time to see that he loves you, sometimes they took years to love someone, and we take a few weeks hahaha
But they took more time to "accept" it, and admet it for themselves.. I think :)
he did love me:) but it didnt work out between the two of us.
this is URGENT. I recently got into this fight with my super super close friend, & this wasn`t the first time we fought. :(
i want to fix it so bad, but we seem so broken alreadyy :(
hey urgent! is it a really big fight??? if you fought over something serious, i guess the best thing to do is have her/her cool off first. an angry person cant think clearly. so no matter how much you say sorry, he/she will NOT be able digest your apologies easily . let the anger simmer down first…let her cool of her head. during this cool off phase, hopefully both you and your friend could reflect on what had happened. Hopefully he/she could decide whether this fight is worth ruining your beautiful friendship. the fact that this wasnt the first time you fought means that something is beginning to go wrong with your relationship. Like love, friendship also requires honesty. opening up your feelings with each other could help. communication is a key to a good friendship too. (well it kind of ties up with honesty). if you have a problem with a friend then tell her directly…dont talk behind her back. i dont know what exactly happened between you guys so this is the advice i could give you:) hope everything works out.
Hii, I'll "identificate" myself by using 7373, at the begining of my message, so I can send messages after this one, and you'll know who I am:))
So, I'm brazilian, and I'm having a crush on a guy, I prefer using the "therme" having a crush, coz "fall in love" is too seriois, and it can be sweet, but it can be hurting too..:/ so I prefer not to hurt my self in the future, so I just wanna have a relationship with this guy, but it mAy be not suuuper, so ..well I'll just try with my best :))
Hmm, well, this guy told my friend, that he'd go out with me, and when I knew that, I was suuper happy!! Hahah
But, ok.. Could you help me; I don't know how to show this guy, thatI am interested on him, but I don't wanna show it too much, because it can seem like I'm desesperated.. Hahah
Do you speak french or somrthing? So I can translate some words..:s
Thank you, :))
sadly, i dont speak french…i speak spanish, english and filipino. i might learn french next semester though coz its such an interesting language.
okay…so if this guy asks you out on a date. just say yes. by saying yes it means that you are interested in him. if the guy gives you flowers or any sort of gifts, accepting it means you’re interested.
Try hanging out with this guy so you can learn more about him. If you put effort to get to know him… for for him to get to know you too, it means that you are interested on him. Just be yourself though. You dont have to impress him too much coz he LIKES YOU<3 anyways, so what has this guy done lately? did he ask you out on a date? did he tell you personally that he likes you?
I'm currently in a long distance relationship, and I've honestly, never been happier. I'm seeing him for the first time next week, and when I tell some of my friends, they're kinda freaked out. I honestly don't care about anyone's opinions anymore. I only care about the people who support me, and care that I have an amazing boyfriend, even if he lives miles and miles away. This boy has made me the happiest I've ever been, and the happiest anyone has ever made me :)
<3 as long as you’re happy:)
thanks for sharing this inspiring story. A Long distance relationship is a challenge and only those who are truly in loved can survive:)
"we were in his house…and he opened up how hurt he is..he started to cuddle…next thing i know our faces got TOO close…and our lips touched. a week or so after, he went to my place…and he started to cuddle and…we ended up making out"
What does: "opened up how hurt he is" ,"started to cuddle" means? Thank you, :)
lmao! this is so funny!… my sentences sounded so…uh GREENMINDED. hahaha i need to proofread my responses in the future and make sure i make things crystal clear:)!
he opened up how hurt he was that he his girlfriend left him. his girlfriend replaced him for a girl. he was basically crying on my shoulders. he was hugging me. he found comfort in me. he loved that…he loved resting on my shoulders and putting his hands around my waist. i shouldve set some boundaries between us. we were bestfriends and that’s why we’re close. but during that time, we got too close. and this is why i guess something started between us…and no...i didnt hook up with him. we we’re in an “open relationship” ….he clearly told me that he loves his girlfriend but he likes me. and i was stupid enough to say that “sure im cool with that” hahahaha. I ended up falling for him…ended up getting hurt coz he left me after a month…and i struggled to get over this guy. everything is in the past! i was young and stupid then! hahahaha
I always feel like loser because I'm 15 and haven't had my first kiss, I've had some chances but I just can't seem to do it. I don't know why. what do you think? Love your blog by the way:)
it just means its not your time yet. dont rush it though! dont just kiss anyone…BE SURE THAT THE GUY YOU GIVE YOUR FIRST KISS TO IS WORTH IT. dont make the same mistake i did. I kissed a guy though i know he hasnt moved on from his past relationship.:)
My friend has been listening to this song over and over again. I think this song (Someday-Nina) perfectly fits those who are struggling to move on from a past relationship…a past love. I love the lyrics:)
Someday you’ll gonna realize One day you’ll see through my eyes But then i won’t even be there I’ll be happy somewhere Even if i can’t
I know You dont really see my worth You think your the last guy on earth Well i’ve got news for you I know i’m not that strong But it won’t take long Won’t take long
Coz someday, someone’s gonna love me The way, i wanted you to need me Someday, someone’s gonna take your place One day i’ll forget about you You’ll see, i won’t even miss you Someday, someday
But now I know you can’t tell I’m down,and i’m not down anyway But one day these tears They will all run dry I won’t have to cry Sweet goodbye
Coz someday, someone’s gonna love me The way, i want you to need me Someday, someone’s gonna take your place One day i’ll forget about you You’ll see, i won’t even miss you Someday, someday
Well, I really like this guy, but he's dating my best friend.. Also liking my other friend, just a little. I really like him, we're close, but he just doesn't know how I really feel. If he does, then, what will he be like? What if he dumps my best friend for me? School's almost over, but I must tell him, 'cause I really can't handle it anymore. So what could I do..?
i think its best not to tell this guy you like him. he is already in a relationship and confessing to him might ruin not only his relationship with his girl but also your friendship with your bestfriend.
try putting yourself in the shoes of your bestfriend? what if you learned that your bestfriend just confessed to your boyfriend? wouldnt that make you mad? so think it through before you do anything.
but if you really cant handle it…well who am i to stop you? go confess but be ready for whatever consequences the situation brings.
My Loooove story:
So i had like a mini crush on this guy alll school year. well actually i just thought he was super cute but he had this girlfriend so i didnt really care. then we both joined our schools water polo team making us spend some time together but not really anything. Then one game at the very end of the season, we had to watch this other team play before our school played and we sat together and he also somehow had my number.(i dunno how but whatever haha) then throughout the next two-ish weeks we texted all day. it was flirty but not really anything because he was still with his girlfriend. And then he finally broke up with her and was trying to get over her becuae he still had feelings for her but didnt want to be with her. I was just being a good friend but helping him get over her. and then we went out on a date and he kissed me. It was my first REEEAALL kiss and we also hung out the next day and he kissed me again. for some reason, i didnt really feel anything. i knew i had feelings for him, but it want real, i guess..? the next weekend we made out, like alot. and he also took me to prom and asked me to be his girlfriend. by then i deffinitely liked him and obviously said yes. he broke up with me three days later and went back to his ex.. after we broke up i knew for a fact that i liked him alot and wanted him back, but im not one to just steal someones boyfriend so i just tried to get over it.
This was a month and half ago so im basicallty over it but then yesterday he was texting me and his girlfriend broke up with him. For good, i'm pretty sure. I was just helping him get over it, and by now i am offiicially over him! like i'm not sure why, maybe becuase hes not with her but whatever! when he was texing me he was being all flirty and i just didnt even care :) except he talks a lot about kissing me again.. and how he always still felt something for me..
I guess my story is turned into a question.. if he tries to be with me again, should i go back? i dont want to get hurt again..
he already hurt you…he might hurt you again. maybe give him time to really get over his exgirlfriend. he might just be using you:(
this reminded me a lot of my ex. exactly. i had a boyfriend for a month. he was struggling with his exgirlfriend and i was there to comfort him. one day, we were in his house…and he opened up how hurt he is..he started to cuddle…next thing i know our faces got TOO close…and our lips touched. a week or so after, he went to my place…and he started to cuddle and…we ended up making out. he was my first real kiss too! and it was the best! he asked me to be his girlfriend! but then after a month we broke up…he broke up with me coz he told me he still loves his exgirlfriend. i cried almost everyday coz i felt so stupid! i was letting this guy use me! when we were together, i knew he still had feelings for her…i knew that they were meeting up secretly…but i pretended not to know coz…well i guess i really fell for him. it was stupid! but now…after one year…i realized that i fell and held on to him because i enjoyed the kissing. hahaha i realized that i was a good kisser because of him:) lmao! im such a creep:):P
anyways! thanks for sharing:) and pls think it through though…coz…he might be using you as a “bandaid”….