So, I have this huge issue, but no answer to it. :( In the beginning of the year, I liked my best guy friend... We went out, then, I knew it wasn't working out anymore, so we parted our ways. As the weeks grew on, I found that it wasn't working out, 'cause I knew I liked, maybe loved someone else. I heard he liked me once, but stopped, 'cause I was taken then. I was about to tell him my true feelings, so he would be the same, maybe. Then I hear, he asked out my best-friend, I couldn't believe it! D: I thought my feelings would stop, but he just got sweeter everyday. We bond so easily, but, there's only like... 2 more days of school, and I want to tell him my feelings. It's just that I can't just pull him aside and tell him. Then say, don't tell your gf or my bff. Then again, what if he's liked me back all this time? I don't know what to do, please, help me! D:
hold it? so this guy that you love is in a relationship with your bestfriend? because if that’s the case i think its best if you a)move on b)wait until he is free. this guy is already taken… telling him your feelings might draw out consequences. it might ruin your friendship with your bestfriend. try putting yourself in your bestfriend shoes..wouldnt you feel horrible when you learned that your bestfriend told your boyfriend “i like you?”
dont let your emotions overcome your ability to make rational decisions. you also have to consider the possible consequences of the things your about to do.
the guy i like is adorable, sweet, and funny. he makes me laugh with his dorkiness and i feel totally comfortable around him. when we first kissed, we were out in the rain and my hair was a complete disaster and i was wearing a giant hoodie and bright pink pajama pants. he makes me feel like i'm on top of the clouds, and he gives me the cutest, most thoughtful gifts ever. we've been dating for over five months:) when i'm with him, i feel like everything's okay with the world, like i'm totally safe from anything that can hurt me, including my own thoughts. when i'm sad, i cry to him and tell him what's bothering me and he stays with me throughout it all. he's like my bestfriend; he's always there for me whether i'm happy or sad. (:
awwwww i wish he reads this:))) so he knows how much you cherish everything he does for you…everything HE IS for you:) thanks for sharing!
heyyy so I'm starting to hanging out a lot with a guy I'm in love with (: he likes me too but what I'm concerened about is, what do we talk about when we're hanging out alone? thanks for the help (:
dont stress to much.. these kind of things isnt supposed to be planned..or practiced. and if you do plan for what your going to say to him… 98 percent of the time…it doesnt go according to what you initially expected. just let everything unfold before your eyes…go with the flow. the more you stress and think about it.. the more conscious you will be… the more you’ll screw up on things:)
Aw Anne :)
About Reece; Thank you so much! That made me smile alot!! <33 & I love the quotes you gave me. I knew them already. You've helped me so much about him. I really hope things work out between me and Reece and I wanna hear about you and this guy!!! <3
ok so i've been with my boyfriend for two months already. but the problem in this is that he's a freshman in school and im a senior.... and im graduating already. i want things to work out because i really love him, but i dont know if they will, i mean im going off to college and he's just going to be a sophomore.. i dont know, i've seen other relationships like this and they dont last that long, but we've been thorugh a lot and i want us to work out. Im still 17 and he's 15 but it still seems like a bad thing to me because of the difference in grade levels. i dont know what to think right now....
if you feel that your boyfriend can handle this “sort of” long distance relationship…then you got nothing to worry. if you have a serious relationship then this difference wont even matter. now…if you feel that this guy isnt the type that can handle this kind of distance…then you have to reassess the situation. remember that all these differences can bring him burden. you also need to think if he can handle it…and if you can handle it too.
if you wish for the relationship to work out, you both need to be committed to each other. loyalty and trust is important. communication is the key too. yes communication..but it doesnt mean that you need to obligate him to talk to you everyday…let him update you of everything he does. communication means that you both have a deep understanding of each other’s feelings …and situations. you need to be open with your feelings with each other… confront each other when you got problems…resolve it together and be there for each other:) i really hope it works out between you guys:) do update me:)
I've liked a guy for like around 2.5 years . Last christmas i told him how i felt about him and apparently he doest feel the same way . I was there when he broke up with his girlfriend for 2 years and he told me that i'm the only one who understands him . But after i told him how i felt about him , we just somehow drift apart more . He is always with his group of friends and im with my group of friends . I tried to talk to him but i don't know what to say and there is always this tension between us .. I also still have feelings for him and get nervous now overtime he's around . PLease Help :(
since he doesnt feel the same way, i suggest you to move on. why waste your time loving someone who cant love you back? i know he brings you happiness and all but just imagine…if you find someone who will love you back… it’s double triple the happiness you feel right now. one sided love hurts…it’s time for you to set this love free and open your heart to someone new. i believe that love is love when it’s shared by two people:) you definitely deserve someone better…2.5 years is too much.
i really need some advice!
so i'm in the Philippines for a vacation, but i live in California. before i left, my boyfriend and i were talking, you know, last minute goodbyes and whatnot. and he even said we should be on at the same time when i'm at the Philippines so we can talk. i get to the Philipines and the first thing i did was find the computer. we talked over Facebook for 3 days straight. i would wake up at like 5 AM in the Philippines cause i'm still running in California time.
Monday was the last time we talked. i've been leaving him video messages on FB like little updates on what i've been doing and stuff. i even message him saying i'm bored and to get on cause we haven't talked. Thursday was when i really started to get annoyed. wasn't he the one who said we should be on at the same time? didn't he want to talk? ugh. i talked to my best friend whos a guy and he happened to be my bf's best friend too. i ranted to him about how annoyed i am and stuff.
i know my bf's not busy with work cause right when he gets off, i wake in cause of the different time zone. so it's all good right? and like he would usually message me ahead of time if he's gonna hangout with his friends so i shouldn't really wait for him and stuff. but he didn't talk to me at all for 4 days. what the hell.
we finally chatted on FB earlier and i let him know i was upset. he apologized but it was a quick one so it lead me to think he wasn't being sincere. and then things just got awkward. he said he had to go cause he had to get ready for our friend's party. wtf. really? he's gonna leave me when he knows i'm upset over something? that pissed me off even more.
so i really don't know what to do. i'm tired of always talking to him first. it's never the other way around you know? for once, i want him to be the one doing something. he's the guy for goodness sake dammit! well besides on waiting for him to talk to me, what else do you think i should do? i don't want to just forgive him this time. and i know i'm kinda taking this to another level but this always happens. i want him to work for my forgiveness.
mahirap kasi dahil magkalayo kayo.
its really hard when couples are apart. i know that feeling… wanting to talk to him… wanting to get updated of everything he does. you basically want to see him at all times possible. But you have to understand that he’s also got a life aside from the relationship you have. maybe now that you’re in the philippines, he’s taking the time to reconnect with friends… to hang out with the boys… he’s doing things that he wasnt able to do when you guys are together. you cant blame him… this thing is totally normal. BUT it doesnt mean that he’s starting to take you for granted. if you believe in what you guys have then you should not worry. cut him some slack. dont put too much expectations for him (a.k.a. dont make him feel too obligated) coz it’s possible that he might get annoyed and tired by that. let him have fun and try enjoying your stay in the philippines too. im sure you miss him.. and he definitely misses you too.
Dude!Where are you? Im busy witnessing a love story unfold before my eyes.
Sorry about that! Yeah, Ive been inactive lately. I’ve been very busy as usual. No, not school work…it’s uhh more personal. I got two friends that are falling for each other and I just got to help out. I know it’s bad thing to get too much involved with other people’s business, but this girl is my bestfriend in the whole wide world and she barely knows this guy. She met him about 3 months ago, online! I introduced them (and that’s why im partly responsible of this whole thing). This guy isnt any random guy out there, he’s my friend at the college I go to. They finally met eye to eye during this girl’s birthday 6-27- 2011 and men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that moment was picture perfect!
I’ve always stressed how much they remind me of each other. They both like the same things and their attitudes are somewhat the same…they’re mirror images of each other (That’s why i introduced them with each other because i have a HUGE feeling they’ll hit it off). AND THEY DID. They both believe in the same stuff, both have the same opinions on things, they both like treating me out to lunch (hahaha), they’re both friendly. They have the same ideas…i dont know but it just simply creeps me out!
I’ve never really gotten to know this guy heart2heart until recently. To tell you the truth, i thought he was an idiot at first! but i was wrong. This guy is a freaking lover boy! He told me that he “may not be the best man for my friend” but he’ll “try to be the better man for Sharmaine” (that’s her name). He even said that Sharmaine makes him “happy”…he “would stay up late at night if ever she needs someone to talk to…even if [he’s] stressed.” gosh!!! He tells me everyday how important sharmaine has become in his life. To tell you the truth…he’s so cheesy! He wasnt like this before…this side of him just appeared like a POOOF! but i guess love makes you cheesy! and when you’re inlove…those cheesiness wont even seem cheesy…they’ll seem more ROMANTIC.
Last night we had a conference (Shar, Gabe and me). We had this truth or dare thing going on. I asked him "What do you like about shar?" I wasnt expecting him to answer. I had this notion that this gabe guy is a shy guy…but NO!He answered back! and he even took a long time doing so.
(to nontagalog speakers out there: “In a little time of getting to know her, she is sweet, caring and simply beautiful, her personality is so amazing. judging by what her friends say, she is the most beautiful and most caring of them all. everyone likes her…or even loves her. her smile wow! it’s fit for a colgate smile commercial hahahahaha <3”)
and you know what i said when i saw this?
and as expected, shar, was totally speechless! Sharmaine’s exboyfriend is far from what gabe is. gabe is open about his feelings for sharmaine. if he sees an opportunity he grabs it immediately. he get’s rid of the “what ifs” and just totally does what he wants…says what he wants to say. he doesnt even mind if he gets rejected…what’s important for him is making sure sharmaine sees that his intentions are real..and that his love is true. AND I TOTALLY BELIEVE WHAT HE’S SAYING. This guy is my freaking idol!! I just wish guys can be more like Gabe! IF YOU LIKE SOMEONE SHOW IT! SAY IT!CONFESS! dont wait until it’s too late…if you have a chance do it now!
love!Im so happy for them. They’re truly lucky to have each other. they both hit the JACKPOT this time!
Hope I could also find my soulmate. someone who’s willing to get corny with me like gabe is with shar. someone who’ll treat me differently…treat me specially compared to other girls out there. anyways…im not in a hurry. Im still having fun exploring life. Kudos to shar and gabe for finding each other! im glad im part (sort of) of their love story.
ILL BE PUBLISHING THE LOVE STORIES YOU GUYS SENT ME DURING THE WEEKEND. ILL REPLY TO THE MESSAGES AS WELL<3
My love story:
I feel in love with someone at first sight. I saw him and my heart just loved him, he didn't know I existed... Months happened until one day my friend knew his friend and he gave me his number. I texted him we talked and talked but he had a girlfriend at the time... So I stopped talking to him because I was falling so then one day he asked me on a date because he was no longer with her and he really liked me, he felt things with me that he didn't felt before... We dated for about a month or two and then I cut him out of my life because I thought he still loved his ex. Which it was true months passed and I knew that he came back with his ex. After not talking to him, not seen him for over 3 months I saw him in a soccer field. My heart was in pain, my blood was boiling and my stomach in ropes, I felt sick, I felt fever. After that more months passed and one day I saw his best friend, we talked and he kinda said things about him (not nice things) I grew mad and then I agreed to date him. We dated, we were together for over a month but somehow I started talking to the other guy (the love of my life) again, I wanted him not his friend. I told him the truth, that I was with his best friend because he best friend didn't want to tell him, I told him everything and then he confessed that he loved me and when I left almost a year ago I hurt him but it was my decision for leaving and he was not going to stop me. It's almost a year again since I saw him again and since I told him the truth. He loves me like I do but he can't forgive me. His grudge, his pride is stronger than his love and it hurts me because I want to be with him. </3 I never felt like this before.. For the first time in my life I fell in love.
:(this is so sad:( and this love story is quite complicated. i wish you can resolve your feelings:)
So I'm guessing this is where we tell our love stories? Well mine isn't love so much. See I like this guy for like two months and I eventually got him to come out to eat with me and some friends. I already knew he thought my best friend was hot bc in addition to me liking him, he was a really really close friend and he told me about everything. But I expected my friend to not do anything. Then some how they started texting and one day she texts me and asks if it bothers me because she was forming feelings for him. She knew how much I liked him. I would get all goofy after he hugged me and I talked about him ALL the time. But of course when she asked I said "no of course go for it!" because I knew I'd never get him if it's been two months. That week before they starte going out was the most painful week ever. I cried everyday and she knew how I felt. But she decided it was her turn tobe happy. They're both still my goodfriends but it's the most painful thing to see themtogeher and to hear her stories about he two of them. I told her I forgave her and I have but it's still so Painful even though I dont want him at all in anyWay anymore. So not really a love story. But i felt like sharing.
What if you told her the truth,…told her “no dont got for it”
thanks for sharing!!…it’s kind of sad but it’s life..so unfair:(
im from Argentina, and im in love of a guy who is 3 years older than me, we go to the same school we use to be friends and talk a lot about EVERYTHING, he is a really good guy.But when i told him that i love him he walk away so i start to ignore him this saturday we talk again and we become friends again. but i dont know wht to do im so sad, an i really want to be with him but i know that he dont, we cant be friends like this. BUT I mISS HIm SO mUCH
if the guy doesnt like you back and if he just sees you as a friend than there is nothing you can do but accept that fact. no matter how much you want him…you got to set this guy free. you will find someone who will love you back. you just have to move on and open up your heart to someone else. it’s not worth it to push yourself to someone who doesnt want you.
My Love Story :)
Well it all began sophomore year and I met this Freshman and wen we meet it was like I just had to have him. So we stared hanging out and he asked me out but at the moment I didn't want a relatinship so he told me that we should mess arond so I said yes like idiot . We messed for 7months and that was the worst 7months of my life, we argued alot because He will we messed around with me and then he would kissing other girls. Afther that we didn't talk for like a month and I really missed him so I forgave him for everything he did to me so that some month we officially started going out but then I fond out the was talking to my bestfriend . Me and him had a really bad break up I got really emotional wen I saw him and I went weeks with out eating . Afther everything he did to me the next week he had a girlfriend and it was my bestfriend . He has resently texted me saying he wants me back .But now I'm happy im going out with this boy that I have knowed for years and he is everything I have ever wanted I just hope he won't break my heart <3
ive read a lot of stories like this, exboyfriends dating the bestfriend. i could relate coz im one of those who experienced this at one point in my life, thanks for sharing
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kay can you help me on this one ? :)
kay well. i liked this kid the startin of the year and apparently he liked me back. but the next month he asked this other girl out and it was kinda confusin. cause like before he asked her out, i told the girl that i like him and she said she liked this other guy but now, BOOM her and the guy i like are datin. but STILL, he keeps on lookin at me. i dont get it.
i asked one of my friends and she said that he could probably like me and ehr at the same time. and its really awks. & i told him i like him and hes like. good for you (: yeah. o:.
any advice ? :|
advice is to move on. he already has a girlfriend…already taken so it’s not really worth it to exert that much effort for him.
he may like you back before but thats not the case now. he has a girlfriend. and no matter how much it hurts that these two guys are dating, you just have to pull yourself together and get on with life. you have to consider that maybe the girl didnt tell you the truth coz she was afraid of how you will react. this isnt really a good thing coz i think she shouldve told you the truth instead of shocking you. anyways…stop stressing on this issue. what happened happened. if he keeps looking at you.. well it doesnt even matter anymore because like i said he is taken.as much as possible dont get involved with a guy who already has a girlfriend coz you’ll end up getting more hurt.
Hello! it seemed like you give helpful advice so i thought, 'why not give it a try?'
So let's start from the beginning? Hope your ready for a decent length one XD i'll try to make it short and simple?
SOOOOOOooo, I loved this girl in high school. We didn't talk much at first, heck, only reason we talked was cause we got stuck with an english project as a group. But from there on we talked a little bit more and became more friendly. Unfortunately, I'm a coward with constant bad experience with confessions, so at that time i thought it was fine the way it was without confessing, and that i would do it later when we had a better relationship. But before I knew it, she got a boyfriend, to make matters worse, it was someone I knew.... I got over it though it hurted, but i guess cause i was use to this kind of thing.
Though I hadn't given up until one day, that same girl asked if i wanted to be her brother (pretend of course). This probably hurt the most and is what made me gave up on her... Thinking back on it, i still don't know if it was a good thing I said yes or not.... since because i said yes, we did get closer, but not in the way i wanted...
well as time passed i came to like other girls. It wasn't that I didn't love her still, but that I had given up on any opportunity since i didn't want to intrude on the relationship with my friend. Eventually one other girl sticked out and was very obvious about liking me. Except there was one problem, she already had a boyfriend. It was someone I didn't know at all though.
I just did what i normally do and was nice to the person, but then she kept hinting more, until the point she confessed to me. At first, I was a bit taken by it, since really, i thought she was just playing around and wasn't serious about it, just something to make her boyfriend jealous. Though for some reason, I unknowingly replied yes. I was probably just using her as a outlet for my frustration for not being able to be with the first girl. But as we dated, i slowly began to like her more and more, but the first girl kept coming into my mind... As luck would struck, the first girl i liked, had broken up with her boyfriend not too long after i started dating.
To make a long story short, things went this and that, and eventually we broke up. Mainly because of me being incapable of trying to meet her as much as possible... I don't know why I didn't... but thinking back on it, it was probably because she was going to the same college as the first girl i loved. Now the girl i dated is probably with her ex again...
Well now we have finished first years, but we are still separated by schools. Me and the first girl i liked are closer to ever before. She's even asked me one time if we are still brother and sister... but i only answered with ' I'm whatever you believe I am, it was interesting and fun though', last part was unnecessary and to this day i still wonder if i really said that...but yeah... we just went on talking more often, and recently we talked uptill we were tired. Just about random things but we would sometimes go silent for a long moments thinking of stuff to talk about. We once even asked each other if we liked anyone at that time. I of course answered yes, but she did too... though for me it was hard to tell if she was talking about me or not, cause there have been situations before where i was very mistaken by the actions of others.
Recently she went on a trip to florida, It hurt me a little that she would be gone, but I was really happy when she was still able to talk to me via skype. We went on starting to talk late at night as usual, playing games together too when talking was running out of topics.
I really do love her, but I'm afraid of rejection, since I've gone through it so many times, I feel like I wanted to somehow make sure or wait till she makes the move of confessing, if that would ever happen. For now, I feel like it's fine the way it is right now, but a part of me really wants to know and ask her....
What do you think I should do? Not to mention my parents are against me dating anyone until im off school. So I would have to burden her with hiding the fact that we were dating from my parents and I don't know if she will truly be okay with it. Another worry I have is how I would set the mood to confess, if I would somehow find the courage to... which i highly doubt.
Sorry for making you read that wall of text, I hope I didn't take much of your time.
~Sincerely, Coward XD
i love what you had said that you didnt want to burden her with hiding that you guys are dating. Believe me that its going to hurt, it’s something annoying and you dont want that for her. if you think she’s the kind of girl who can handle that kind of situation then go and confess but if not then maybe now is not the right time to confess yet. But if that right time comes…gather up your strength and tell this girl how you feel. you have to tell her. stop being afraid of rejection because you have to accept the fact that life itself is full of rejection..its not only love. People get rejected in jobs, in scholarships…people rejected by friends. but you know what’s good about being rejected? after the whole thing, you’ll definitely learn a thing or two, you’ll definitely be stronger and ready for more rejections in the future. remember that when a door closes another one opens.
You dont want to be her brother right? rejection hurts but after that rejection… you still have the chance to move on and find a new love. if you keep it all inside and just pretend that you,re happy being her brother for the rest of your lives…then wpouldnt that kills you slowly? i think that situation hurts more than being rejected because if you keep it all inside…pretend that you dont like her…you’ll forever be burdened with this secret. and everyday you’ll be thinking “what if i told her…what if?” so stop the what ifs and confess. confessing will set you free. whatever the outcome maybe, at least you’ve expressed your love…at least you’ve finally freed yourself. after you confess you’ll also know how she feels about you. hey, who knows she might be secretly in love with you too and she’s just scared coz you might not feel the same way. you’ll know how she feels and from her response…you’ll know what to do next…whether have a relationship with her or move on. a.k.a you will finally know if you have a chance with this girl or not.
i know you want to keep her in your life forever…even just as a friend. but you really have to tell her how you feel so you know if loving her is worth it. if you guys are good friends than maybe even after rejects you, you’ll still stay good friends.lets stay positive and think that maybe she does like back.and that’s why she loves being with you.
thanks you for sending me this message! it was such a good read…i enjoyed it:)
I will tell you my love story. I'm from Mexico and my english is not too good:(
Well, there's this guy. He had a girl and then she disappeared. He was looking for her at school, at her house, facebook, everywhere. Then 1 month passed and she finally appeared, they broke up. That day I was walking and I saw him, just sitting on a park bench. He was crying. I didn't knew who he was, but I talked to him, I asked what was the matter, he told me everything. I stopped his tears. He hugged me, and I knew him closer. We hanged out sometines and I started to like him. He is so sweet and funny, also he's handsome, we like the same music, we have the same interests, it was like, we were meant to be. One day he told me he liked me, and obviously I told him, I liked him back. But that was not true, I LOVED him. And I still do. That day he kissed me. I felt like <3! I don't know how to describe it.
We started to be like..I forgot the word. We were like a couple, but we were not, we were just friends. But one day he went to my house, we were in my room and he closed the door, and then we both were in my bed, not kissing or something like this. He was just staring at my eyes, looking deeply in my eyes, our lips were close, I felt hus breathing on my lips, but he was just staring at my eyes. That was so sweet. So, after a while of sweet silence, he said '' I realized, I'm in love with you. I want to be with you''. That made me feel butterflies, he asked if I wanted to be his girlfriend, and of course I said yes, I loved him too.
As a couple, everything was perfect, sometimes, we had fights. But everytime we discussed, he just stared at me, and kissed me. Everything he does makes me crazy.
Two weeks passed and I saw him with his ex-girlfriend, the girl who disappeared, remember?. She was flirting and I felt that something's wrong could happen, and yes. Three days later, he broke up with me. He was confussed. He did not know if he loved me, or loved her. I was totally broken. I loved him! And still love him. We just stayed as friends. 9 days after he broke up with me, he had a girlfriend. His ex-girlfriend, was his girlfriend again. She stoled the guy, she planned everything. I was depressed, I cried all nights, for a month, I didn't know what to do. I was broken. But I was sure of something, I still loved him. Then, he and his girlfriend broke up. I was like shocked. I supported him, like a friend. And after a week, he was okay again. He had girlfriends, nothing really serious. he moved on. He forgot everything about us. I told him I still loved him, and he told me he loved me, but just as friends, I was broken again.
I still don't know what to do. I'm sure I love him. I miss him everyday, his kisses...how he made feel, like a princess.
We are just friends now, and that's all we'll ever be. That brokes me, because I had my chance, and I screwed it.
I'm broken now, when I was writing this for you, I cried.I loved him, since 8 months ago. But whatever, here's my love story, with a sad ending.
Oh and also a question...what should I do?:/
i love how you guys met. ou guys met in an ordinary day. you just happen to pass by and saw him
i love the bedroom scene when he just stares at your eyes. i love the words he uttered. it’s so sweet!
im sorry to learn that he broke up with you to return to the girl. it makes me wonder if he really did love you or if he just used you to ease out his pain. or maybe, did did like you but he likes the girlfriend more.:( it makes me sad to hear this kinds of circumstances. ive been through this kinds of situation and i know how you feel. the pain.
thanks you so much for sharing. all you need to do is move on and try opening it to other people., you’ll meet another person that will give you love.
send me another message and update me of how you are so far:) im here for u
can you give me advice please?
so I told the guy I like, that I like him.. and he said that we're cool, friends, ect. and now I regret it, even though I shouldn't.. and now we don't talk at all and its awkward , even though he told me that it wouldn't be awkward between us, [if that makes sense]. And school ends Friday, and I don't want to never see him again. I want to hangout with him over the summer but it just too awkward and everything.
just give him time. though he said it would not be awkward, he cant help it. this situation might have left him confused of what to do. so give him time to digest the whole situation. he might be thinking of what t0o do with your feelings, he might be trying to figure out if he shares the same feelings towards you too. he’s trying to figure out what to do next.
here is me blabbing about my love story:
i have a very tough past and i felt like my heart had been through the ringer long enough when i met him i thought he was full of himself annoying and nothing i was interested in we worked together and spent more and more time together we would go on walks together after work and i opened up to him more and more like i didnt think i could anymore during one of our walks it started pouring and we sat in his car and held hands and talked its was so nice soon we started seeing each other and making out all the time i didnt know what would happen but i loved every moment with him then the night he told me that in 3months he was leaving the country in 3months for half a year i was so confused like how far could we go if he was preparing to leave i decided to try it and we started dating we spent 3weeks always together then he moved home after our semester ended and we spent the weekends together i told him i loved him and got no response i was crushed but he eventually came around the last day together before he left i dont remember ever hurting so much i was terrified i would never kiss him or be held again we stuck it out while he was gone the longest 5months of my life it wasnt easy when he was gone we both cheated and forgave because of the distance after 5long months he surprised me 4days early i was half asleep and herd him almost bang down my door i held him so tight and never wanted to let go i felt like part of me had come back that was 7months ago and we are still in love and so happy he is the best part of my world and we are planning our future together now i am so glad i never gave up hope in us because i will never love someone like i love him
sorry this got so long =)
gosh this is such a beauiful story and i really dont mind that its long. im glad you guys survived the distance and im glad your are happy with this guy:) thanks for sharing!