Anonymous: I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend & I have been dating for three months & things have gotten pretty rocky. He continues to smoke and it bothers me because I recently lost someone I was very close to from smoking. I don't want to lose him but I continue to tell him the same thing over & over & I just feel like I'm being annoying. I just want things to work I just feel like he needs to grow up a lil and not smoke. what should I do?
Heymissawesome:
It would be really hard to make him quit. You cant ask a smoker to quit and expect him to quit right away. Simply telling him the possible outcome of his smoking wouldnt even make him to immediately quit. What you can do is to divert his attentions. First of all try seeing the reasons why he smokes or the instances when he does it. Does he smoke when stressed or when he is bored? because what you can do is keep him so occupied. First of all stop telling him dont smoke all the time. second, try inviting him to do sports or do a certain hobby. Distraction is one way to do it. My cousin was able to quit smoking by distracting herself. She bout a guitar and imporved her guitar skills maybe u can do the same(not specifically on guitars though). Im not an epxert on this but i know u can read online or purchase books that gives you tips on how to quit soking and making apply those tips to your bou.
→ 2 notes | ♥Reblog if awesomeAnonymous: Have you ever thought about writing a book?
Heymissawesome:
Yup but Im not really good in writing plus my english sucks! hahaha so ill probably stick to blogging instead:))
→ 3 notes | ♥Reblog if awesomeAnonymous: There's this guy I kind of fell for over the summer. We had a couple classes together during the year, but over the summer we talked on Facebook for hours. When school started we grew a little distant, but every time we saw each other in the hallways we would hug and catch up. He's not a flirty type, so I knew he liked me when we talked on Facebook, but now he ignores me. I just don't know if he doesn't like me, or if he's socially awkward... I don't know. Should I try to start a conversation?
Heymissawesome:
Definitely start a convo, Dont just assume right away. Best thing is to try your best for your convos to last longer…hopefully you guys could get more comfy with each other. comfy enough to start hanging out and all. Probably after some time you can develop a deeper kind of friendship and who knows (since u said he likes u) he will finally have the guts to tell u how he feels personally (and if it takes a little time..them you go confess yourself girl:))) ). <3
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